Advice on Overcoming Fear in Approach Single Hot Women

How to Overcome Fear in Approaching Hot Single Women

When fear raises its ugly head when you are thinking about approaching that hot single woman you are attracted to do you dwell on those self-defeating thoughts of rejection or shyness that prevents you from approaching her?

When you choose to focus on all the reasons why you can't approach sexy single women this is going to cause you to have a negative mindset when it comes to meeting women. This mindset is going to hold you back from meeting and approaching women that you are attracted to.

You just can't sit on the sidelines watching other men meet and attract women. You must refuse to let fear hold you back anymore. You've got to take a leap of faith, be bold and resolute, and focus on a vision of victory in meeting new single women.

I suggest that you develop a new mindset that this is a new day and a new beginning for you. Let go of the chains of the past. In the future, when you feel fear when wanting to approach women, doesn't mena you have to act on it. When you feel fear when you want to meet and approach women that you are attracted to, don't give in to that fear. Stay in faith that you can meet and approach any woman you desire. Say to yourself that you are full on confidence and fear nothing or anyone.

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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Toxic Thoughts That Create Problems in Dating

How Toxic Thoughts Can Ruin Your Dating Life

Did you know that toxic thoughts can wreck havoc on your love life?

To put this in perspective, think about what you hear about detoxing your body. We are exposed to chemicals and pesticides and bacteria of all kinds.

It is recommend that we occasionally deep cleanse our bodies and avoid things that are harmful to us so we can eliminate these toxins from our system.

So, what I’m getting at is there can be a buildup of toxins in our minds that interfere with our dating life and abilities to meet, date, and seduce sexy single women. As an example, you fill your mind with negative thoughts such as:

• I’m not attractive enough
• I’m a failure with women
• I’ll never find love
• I’ll never get married
• I don’t have what it takes to meet women
• I’m too shy to meet women

These thoughts get into your heart and contaminate your thoughts and your total being. They destroy your confidence and self-image around single gorgeous women.

I can’t stress to you enough on how important it is to guard your heart and mind from being polluted with negative thoughts. If your mind gets polluted it will affect all areas of your life, not just your dating life.

Please make a commitment today to cleanse your mind of any negative thoughts that are holding you back from getting all the love and romance you deserve.

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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

6 Problems with Picking Up Girls

Common Problems When Trying to Pick Up Girls

You may be one of the lucky men who are already successful in the art of picking up girls. You may be reading this book only to see if you can improve your technique. Many will do this. Fine! We hope you learn something. Or, you may want to pick up girls, but just can't do it. If that is the case, let us look at some of the problems you might have. The most common are:

(1) You don't think you are attractive enough. This is much less of a problem than most men think. Sure, it is easier for a handsome man to make the very first moves. Girls tend to give him appreciative looks, which boost his confidence and help to get him started. But the less attractive man will find that once he has approached a girl (and this is very easy to do) he can be just as effective as a more handsome man. Women are usually more impressed by a man's personality than by his appearance.

(2) You don't know what to say to open a conversation. This problem is quite easily solved. There is plenty of material and many ideas in later parts of this book.

(3) You dry up after starting a conversation. You can't think of anything interesting to say. What you should do is prepare yourself and have ideas ready. Before you even approach a girl you should have a whole array of subjects and activities in your mind and ready. Much suitable material is included in later chapters.

(4) You can't get girls to consider you as a lover, even though you can start a conversation and have no difficulty keeping it going. This is a very common problem. It is usually the result of being too timid in your actions and conversation. A bolder attitude should be introduced into your general manner, as early in a relationship as you can manage it. This is discussed at length later.

(5) You've tried a few pick-ups but have gotten rejected, or brushed aside, immediately, and you don't know why. Perhaps your opening moves weren't positive enough. Perhaps you accepted the rejection too easily; you have to be a little persistent. Perhaps you chose a girl who simply didn't want to be picked up; there are many like that. Don't worry; your performance should improve after you learn some more.

(6) The BIG Problem. Lack of Confidence. You just can't pluck up the courage to try. Probably your fears are based on the knowledge that you have problems in some (or all) of the five areas already mentioned. Or you may be affected by shyness or an unreasonable fear of rejection. P.S. This is an excerpt from our besting selling book called, "How to Talk to Women."

How to Succeed with Women Advice for Men

How to be Successful with Women

The most successful men I have observed, were successful because they had the ability, the perception, the sixth sense to know when to be hard with a woman and when to be soft. They understood a woman's wants, needs, desires and motivations. When a woman needed to be loved and cared for, she was. When a woman needed to be put in her place, she was. And throughout it all these men were loved for this ability. This perception of a woman's needs and the ability to deal with those needs is far more an art than a science, but it is something that every man can master.

I have found that women fully expect a man to be a master of the art of understanding a woman's needs. Women expect a man to know exactly what to do in every situation. After all, "Humphrey Bogart" knew how and you should too. And if you aren't perfect, if you don't know exactly the right thing to do, you are being judged. And one of the truly unfair things in life is that there is no defense for failure. It's part of filling the man's role and that's that.

So where do you learn this art if you aren't born with it? How do you learn where on the spectrum to be for any one situation? We learn from women. But, what women do and what women say has been confusing men for centuries. This book is meant to translate female behavior so that with an understanding of women, you can master the art of dealing successfully with them.

This is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

Some Really Great Places to Meet Women

Best Places to Meet Women from One of my Newsletter Subscribers

I would like to pass along some great tips from my subscribers on succeeding with women:

Here are some of the best places to meet women that I have found. I usually have a 90% success rate of scoring women at the following places:

1) (The most obvious) Clubs and Bars - Great place for conversation starters and getting to know all about the person you have your eye on. ie Buying a drink or (my favorite) dedicating her favorite song to her and making her feel special when the DJ reads out her name with a love message from myself.

2) At the gym - Comment on her figure and ask her how she manages to tone down so well and still look beautiful. Invite her for a health snack afterward or go for a swim together.

3) Single women at the dry cleaners or washers. Ask her about washing techniques for a stylist garment that you own. She is able to see the kind of clothes that you wear reflecting your personality and you can invite her for lunch while the clothes are being washed.

I once sent flowers to a girl I liked - but had the card written to say that it was from her dog - "To a wonderful owner, from your faithful dog ---". It got quite a laugh. Maybe you could try it!

The best place that I've found to meet women is going to dancing lessons. I've gone to swing dancing lessons and they're the best. Not many have partners, so you meet them and some of the dancing moves are very intimate!

How to Use Humor in Personal Ads

If You Have a Sense of Humor, Use It in Your Personal Ad

I've been told many times that an ad that shows that the writer has a sense of humor will get more responses than an ad that reads like a resume. People like people who make them laugh and smile. A little bit of wit in a well-written ad is a definite plus to most readers, men or women.

Most personal ads sound very similar. Many are boring to read. The people who write them usually sound so serious. There is a tendency to want to impress readers. Almost every ad somewhere says something like: I like good food, the mountains, movies, wine, etc. Great. How many human beings don't like those things? Say something that sets you apart from the crowd. Say something about yourself that shows that you are different from all of the other people who have ads that say they like good food, the mountains, movies, wine, etc. Give people a reason to want to answer your ad and find out more about you.

One of the best ways to make people want to know more about you is to show that you don't take yourself too seriously and that you have a well developed sense of humor. Some people don't have a sense of humor. If you are one of them, you probably can't develop a sense of humor overnight. It is never too late to start trying, though.

Do you have a sense of humor that other people have told you is really bizarre or sick? If so, you have to make a choice. You can try to curb your sense of humor or you can try to change your sense of humor. Neither of these are very realistic. You might want to expose your sense of humor very early and hope that you connect with someone who shares it. This is an excerpt from our report, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

10 Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

10 Inspirational Tips to Succeed with Women

1. Success with women is getting what you want and happiness is wanting what you get.
2. Give women you are attracted to gifts and make sure you expect nothing in return. Give out of the goodness of your heart.
3. Success with women involves risk. You must take chances when you see a woman you would like to approach.
4. Food for thought: We tend to respond to others in the same way they treat us.
5. Positive action in pursuing women will eventually produce positive results.
6. Worrying about getting a date is like a rocking chair: It keeps you busy, but it doesn't get you anywhere.
7. Be aware that some women will play hard-to-get intentionally, because they don't want to appear to be easy.
8. Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances.
9. Picking up or meeting a single woman rarely happens just by accident.
10. You have got to take the initiative and create your own action, it's not going to come to you out of the clear blue sky.

P.P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com