How to Give a Back and Leg Massage

Back and Leg Massage Tips for Men

When your girl is laid out on his stomach and you're massaging her back, in particular the muscles along her spine, turn one of your hands sideways, and cup it, so that the bottom of your palm is resting on one side of her spine, and the pads of your fingers on the other. Then place your other hand on top and apply steady even pressure as you massage the muscles along his spine using a circular motion.

Not only is this very soothing, but massaging this often overlooked part of the body can also release a tremendous amount of tension from your partner. Remember they're called "back rubs", if shoulders were the only part of the body to get tense they'd be called "shoulder rubs".

Try working your way down to the small of her back. If she hasn't got excited yet, then as your hands get closer to her butt, she's likely to get very excited.

If you have enough stamina and you're up for it, try rubbing down her legs. These can be a little tricky, as no two girl have the same build legs. Some women have really slender legs and there may not be too much to grab onto during a massage.

If you are rubbing down her legs, work your way up from her feet, along her calves, to the insides of her thighs. Try to get as close to her crotch as possible without touching it. This is a wonderful way to tease her, and crank up the sexual tension. If you have an affectation for butts, then rubbing, kneading, and squeezing her should be right up your (and her) alley.

Kissing Leads to Love

Kisses Are But Preludes to Love

Man and woman are born to love, marry and beget children. Woman is so physically constituted that she is the one who bears the child. Man, on the other hand, is given the duty of being the protector of his wife and, after they are born, of his children. Therefore, he must always be the one who takes the initiative. He must be strong, he must be willing, he must be physically able to take care of his charges, He must be the aggressor.

It is, therefore, necessary that the man be taller than the woman. The psychological reason for this is that he must always give the impression of being his woman's superior, both mentally and especially physically. The physical reason, with which we are more concerned, is that if he is taller that his woman, he is better able to kiss her.

He must be able to sweep her into his strong arms, and tower over her, and look down into her eyes, and cup her chin in his fingers and then, bend over her face and plant his eager, virile lips on her moist, slightly parted, inviting ones. All of this he must do with the vigor of an assertive male. And, all of these are impossible where. the woman is the taller of the-two.

For when the situation is reversed, the kiss becomes only a ludicrous banality. The physical mastery is gone, the male prerogative is gone, everything is gone but the fact that two lips are touching two other lips. Nothing can be more disappointing.

2 Styles of Dating, Online Dating or Traditional Dating

Traditional Dating and Internet Dating - The Pros and Cons

If you are currently single and you want to position yourself for the dating circuit, you must first reflect on what type of dating you prefer to attempt. In this contemporary and technological age, there are two styles of dating to choose from. Traditional dating and internet dating.

What does online dating and traditional dating have to offer?

1) If you are successful in catching promising dates on a routine basis, utilizing a traditional dating approach, you may not need to try online dating. However, if you often have difficulty getting a date in real time, you may find success by using an internet dating service.

2) Time is Precious. The majority of single people consider their time to be very valuable. If a busy and stressful daily life captures you, you will not have much time to go out to social events and meet new people. Internet dating saves you time and energy by serving as a filter prior to you even meeting anyone directly.

3) Trouble with location. Location will never be a complication for traditional dating, because most of the time, you get acquainted with your date at parties, social events, and other activities throughout the city. Although internet dating gives you the chance to meet up with new individuals from all parts of the globe, it could be a hassle trying to get you and your date together, especially when both of you are located on opposite sides of the planet.

4) A blind date from Hell. Have your friends, at any time, attempted to set you up on a date that you had no hint or clue who the person was? If you are numbered along with the many others who dislike this form of traditional dating, you would probably appreciate using an online dating service. By way of the internet, you have the opportunity to get to know someone prior to meeting them face to face. By becoming acquainted with your date ahead of time, you would be able to determine the likelihood of a smooth dialogue and compatibility when you make contact with the person.

5) Discovering Your dream partner. Normally ,when you meet a person in a bar, party or social event, the chief feature that attracts you to them are their physical characteristics. You may not know their place of birth, their goals in life or personality upon the first introduction. In internet dating, you maintain the priviledge to search for credible and reliable dates who have the same interest, religion, location, temperament, and situation as yourself. There is a greater possibility that you will find that special mate who would complement you the most for a lifetime.

6) Cost efficient. Unlike meeting your date for a dinner meal or coffee tea outing, online dating can be more cost effective than traditional dating. However, some make the mistake of spending too much time on long distance telephone calls which could also become very costly for those practicing internet dating or traditional dating.

In whatever style of dating you determine is more appropriate for you, always be cautious in giving out personal and private information to a person who is, in all honesty, still a stranger. Be certain that your date is genuinely safe and all right. He could either be the person of your dreams - or your worst nightmare and enemy.

Marvin Perry is the author of "Traditional Dating and Internet Dating Pros and Cons" and he maintains an informative site on dating tips and resources about online dating services. To visit this site go to Marvin's Online Dating Tips [http://www.free-dating-resource.com] website.

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Smoking and Drinking in Personal Ads

Should You Mention Smoking or Drinking in Personal Ads?

Face it, smokers are the social pariahs and lepers of today. They get cut no slack. Many people absolutely refuse to date a smoker. If smoking is a big issue with you, you will be doing yourself and smokers a big favor if you state in your ad or response that you don't smoke and don't want to meet someone that does. If you are running an ad and you smoke, I strongly suggest that you say so in your written ad. There is no good way to sugar coat the fact that you smoke. I also know that it will dramatically cut the number of responses that you get. At the very least, say very clearly that you smoke in your voice message. If you smoke and are responding to an ad, say that you are a smoker. If people are warned up front that you smoke it won't be a rude shock when you pull out a Marlboro and light up.

The same advice applies if you have strong feelings about drinking and/or drugs. If you had an alcoholic ex-spouse or parent and hate alcohol, specify in your ad or response that you are only interested in meeting someone who is a non-drinker. There are plenty of available people who don't drink and who share your sentiments. It is probably too much to expect that a drug addict or an alcoholic would "fess up to their addiction in an ad or response. But if you drink a lot, do not claim to be a "light social drinker." Your habit will become obvious after you order your sixth rum and Coke at your first meeting.

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend When She Is Being Cold

It's never easy for a man to deal with a woman who is being cold, but when that wan just happens to be an ex girlfriend that you want to win back, well that can be downright hard. You want to be able to have one of those conversations that leads to her looking back at you with a longing in her eyes, but you know that's not going to happen when she is more frigid than an Alaskan winter. How are you going to be able to win back your ex girlfriend when she is being cold to you?

First off, you should probably try and identify exactly why she is giving you the cold treatment. Cause if you don't have a clue about why she is acting that way... it's almost impossible to come up with a way to get her warmed back up. So, that should be the first thing that you do. Once you have identified why she is acting that way, then you can start to put together a plan to win back your ex girlfriend:

And here is what you need to do:

1) If she has been cold for a while, then you really have to be sly about your intentions on winning her back.

Don't come right out and say that you still love her. Don't come right out and tell her that you want to date her again. When a woman is cold, she can shoot you down without giving it a second thought. So, if you approach your ex girlfriend while she is still in that state, you are going to be sealing your fate and ending any hopes that you have of getting that next opportunity to date her again.

2) You are going to have to turn up the charm and charisma a little more than usual.

The best way to warm up a woman, so to speak, is to use your charm to get on her good side again. Instead of her acting frigid, you want to see a bright smile on her face when she sees you. That way, she will begin to associate feeling good to being around you. This is where you really need to turn up both the charm and charisma, even when you don't want to.

3) You are going to have to show her that she can let go of that attitude around you.

This is another big piece to the puzzle. You need to use action to get her going, words alone are not going to cut it. She's going to have an attitude around you, that's a given. You have to be able to handle that attitude without getting all freaked out about it. If you do this, then you can easily warm her back up to you and THEN you can suggest that the two of you get back together again.

It might seem complicated, but it can actually be EASY to win back your ex girlfriend when you have a PROVEN system to make it happen...

Avoiding the Stigma of Meeting Through a Personal Ad

Should You Tell People You Met Through the Personals?

A few years ago I was visiting my parents with a woman that I met through a personal ad. My mom asked us how we had met. She wasn't prying. She was just curious. Neither of us was embarrassed that we had met through the personal ads, but it hadn't occurred to me that my mom might ask that question or how surprised she would be when we told her that we met that way. People in their 70's, especially if they have been married for 50 years, sometimes don't realize how creative you need to be.

I also went out with a woman who said that her daughters did not know how we had met. She told me that she would kill me if I ever told them. I didn't tell them for fear that she wasn't kidding. I also didn't see her many more times.

If you feel that you need to make up a lie about how you met, make it a very simple lie. Coordinate your story and get the facts straight. "We met in a checkout line at the supermarket" is simple and hard to mess up, unless your mom wants to know what her son was buying and you say broccoli and chicken and she tells the truth, you were buying Twinkies and Nestle's Quik.

Advice About Married Women Using Personal Ads

How to Avoid People Who Are Married in Personal Ads

Married people do lie and use the personal ads. The anonymity of placing and answering personal ads is probably the biggest attraction for married people. It may have happened to me but I don't think so. If it did, I wasn't aware when it happened.

I wish that there was some advice that I could give you that would guarantee that you could avoid married people or those in committed in relationships. There just isn't any that I know of. If you have a theory or technique that has helped you spot married people in the past in other situations, use it.

Some married people will place a personal ad and admit in the ad that they are married and out for a few "thrills." Others plead that they just need some "understanding." Some ask to meet someone that is married. Consider the following ads:

WANTED: MARRIED WOMAN FOR discrete, romantic relationship. DWM, 29...been described as gorgeous.

"GOLF" Tall, dark, handsome married man, average golfer, seeks lady golfer to burn up the links.

Let your conscience (and common sense) be your guide if you choose to respond. I suspect that the golfer has a lot of trouble with his "putter" at home. I have seen very few ads by women that admitted that they were married. I do not have any idea if that is because married women are less likely to run ads or do not admit they are married in them.

Some publications that run personal ads have a section for married people with particular "hobbies." If you are married and you want to run an ad, I really think that you should say that you are married and put your ads in one of those sections if is available. I don't have any advice for those of you that are married and want to answer ads. This article is an excerpt from our book, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."