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Advice for Men on Approaching Women

To re-emphasize some very important general points. First, don't take "No" too easily. When a girl is approached, she is often a little embarrassed and self-conscious and will tend to say "No" right away, just to get away from any embarrassment. You should persevere (in a nice way) by coaxing and calming her with things like: "A w! Come on now." "It will be all right." "Just for a minute or two." "Look! Just give me one minute of your time. That's all I ask." "No! I won't take no for an answer" (smiling). "You know, it wasn't easy for me to come up and speak to you like this. So please, let's talk a minute." (Note: women have told me that this last line is particularly appealing and effective.)

But a lot depends on how strongly she refuses. You can usually tell if she really means "No." You should then give up right away. But if she sounds a little uncertain (or defensive), you should keep trying, say, for about three times. If you are both walking, you may even have to do some footwork, like walking with her.

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Photo Scamming Topless Dancers

This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.

This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.

The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.

Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.

So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.

So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.

Photo Scamming of Topless Dancers

Photo Scamming Topless Dancers

This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.

This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.

The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.

Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.

So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.

So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.

Meeting Women by Acting as if You Know Her

Act as if You Know a Woman

Act As if You Know Her

This is not the "Don't I know you from somewhere" line. No, you simply act as if you do know her. When you first make eye contact, you break out a broad smile of recognition. You must think and pretend in your own mind that you actually do know her. This is really not as hard as it sounds.

If she is walking by (or in any moving situation) when you make the eye contact, she may ignore you. But usually she will at least smile back, since she cannot be really sure she doesn't know you. If she does smile, you can approach her and say, "Hi, how have you been?" You may be able to get some of the customary exchange of formalities accomplished, but it won't be long before you have to admit you really don't know her. In fact, she may ask you directly, "Do I know you?" Your admission should take the form of "Well, I thought I knew you, but I guess I was mistaken."

Or, "I either know you, or someone who is your exact double. "

But don't despair; you are still in great shape. You have made contact. You have been talking, and smiling at each other. You should then say, "Anyway, it was fun meeting you like this. By the way my name is ...What's yours'?" Then you should be able to progress quite well toward getting to know her properly.

If you use this approach in a stationary situation it is even better, since you can go on with casual conversation almost indefinitely without having to admit you really don't know her. The longer you talk, the better your chances are of getting to know her.

The underlying fact of this routine is that, for all of us, there are people we have met who we just can't remember. We realize this, so when someone acts as if they know us, we usually give them the benefit of the doubt and act as if we recognize them. You should never act as if you have any doubts about knowing the girl. Your whole approach should be very positive.

Ultimately, the girl will realize that she really doesn't know you, but if she likes the look of you, she will accept the meeting as a fortunate opportunity to meet an interesting man.

Good and Bad Nights at Topless Clubs

Good and Bad Nights When Trying to Score with Topless Dancers

Trying to score with topless dancers can be very frustrating at times. You will have good nights and you will have off nights when no matter how hard you try, all you do is get rejected. Getting rejected happens to all men. It just comes with the territory. Just move on to another dancer. You will find one that takes a liking to you.

Each night that you go out to a topless club has its own personality. One night you can be attracting dancers like a magnet and the next night it can be slow and you don't attract much attention from the dancers. Plus, there will be times when you go to a club feeling tired, hungover, and feeling at your worst and the dancers will be all over you.

Each time you go to a club can be a different experience. Sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don't. Just keep trying to pick up topless dancers and no matter what happens to you, don't take it personally.