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4 Steps to Conversation with Women
Structures for Talking to Women
Conversation - This is a major feature of successful courtship and a contributor to lasting relationships. Making a woman feel like she is the only woman on earth will ensure positive results every time, in my opinion. Of course it can work against you if you ever sound insincere.
When you initially approach your intended mate you should have a structure in mind which you will follow to achieve your goal. Never lose sight of what you are trying to achieve, but try not ot concentrate too hard either - you may appear a little too intense.
The structure you should follow will vary depending on your preference but may go something like this:
- Introduction.
- Information gathering.
- Assessment of interest.
- Goal.
Overcoming Your Fears
Fear of Approaching Women
There are so many men that miss out on opportunities to meet women because they keep giving into fear. Does this describe you?
My friend, you are going to have to make a decision to deal aggressively with your fear of approaching women. You can't just be passive when there are opportunities to meet women and expect to be successful with women.
The best way and the only way in my opinion to conquer your fear is to confront it head on. As long as you continue to ignore and sweep your fears under the rug, you're not going to make any progress of overcoming your fear of approaching women. It won't go away by refusing to deal with it.
Instead you need to face it head on and be strong-willed and try to approach ever single woman you are attracted to. Just do it for practice in the beginning and don't be concerned about being rejected. After awhile with practice you will get good at it and meet lots of women.
Waiting for Love and Romance
I know it gets very frustrating waiting for love and romance. It's tempting to just give up sometimes. You don't see anything happening on the dating scene and you are letting it get to you.
Fate does not dictate when you are going to find someone. We don't know when it is going to happen. You just can't say I will meet the love of my life on any given day, week, or even year. No, you just have to stay the course and trust that it will happen.
The real challenge is the waiting process. You have to shake off any feelings of discouragement. You have to keep believing and hoping for that special lady to come along soon
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Setback and Failures
Food for thought...So, guys what are your current dreams and desires for finding a girlfriend for love and romance? Maybe you've had this same dream and goal in the past and things did not work out like you had planned. So, maybe you just threw in the towel and put that dream on hold.
We all have had setbacks and failure in the romance department. It's all a part of playing the dating game until you find the right person for you.
Take this perspective - Today is a new day. I challenge you to dig deep and revive that dream of finding someone special. So what if your old dream of finding someone died. Well, just dream another dream. Don't just settle for being lonely and not having someone to love.
How to Give a Woman a Compliment
Giving Women Compliments
If the girl doesn't respond to a straight compliment, you can try a semi-humorous production, such as: "You know, when I was a little boy I saw a beautiful bicycle in a store window. It was a shining red with chrome fenders. It had a - chrome headlamp, a genuine leather seat, a flashing red and yellow taillight, a speedometer, handbrakes, a rear view mirror, and a musical horn that played a tune. It had everything. It was the most wonderful bicycle I had ever seen. I asked my father to buy it for me, but he couldn't afford the price. I often went by that store window just to look at it. I wanted that bicycle so much. Well! I want a date with you just as much as I wanted that bicycle." All this should be said dramatically, but smiling all the time. You are telling it as a kind of joke. You can use variations of this -a little pony, a sports car or anything else.
If the girl won't warm to you even after your attempts to draw her out and your compliments, she might still be a little shy. You could try this: "Say! There is a nice little coffee shop around the comer. Let's go for coffee." Then, while you walk along together (and at the coffee shop), you can chat casually about things along the way, or other small talk that presents itself. If you still can't get her to respond (and you haven't lost interest yet yourself), you should ask her for a future date, or get her phone number and try again at another time. Of course, if she refuses the coffee invitation, or your date offer, you should probably give up. Mostly, girls will respond more easily than this, but I have described a difficult case to illustrate some of the different tactics you can use.