Making Sexy Overtures to Women when Dating

Sexy Overtures

You should make a sexual overture of some kind, to see how the girl responds. If she gives a positive response, you should pick up on her response and work the theme as long as it is productive. Then, move on to a non-sexual topic. In other words, if you tell a sex joke and she really enjoys it, she may tell one, or encourage you to tell more. As long as you are both enjoying yourselves, this is great. Sex should be fun, in any case. But you should sense when there has been enough of it and change to another activity or conversation topic. Strive for a mixed conversation.

If she did not respond to your overture, you might try one more time. Then, if she still seems uninterested, leave off and go back onto another topic. If she is still friendly, it may be that she is not quite yet ready to respond sexually. Of course, she now knows of your sexual intent, so if she is still friendly, she apparently doesn't object to it. You should try again later, but allow plenty of time. If she is unfriendly after your overtures, she is rejecting you entirely.

The two of you are really discussing your sexual involvement by a type of signal code. Before you made your sexual overture, the girl may have already decided she wasn't interested in you sexually, but was just being friendly because that was the easiest thing to do. She did not even know if you were interested in her sexually. So she did not respond to the jokes and became unfriendly to tell you she was not interested in you that way. Girls say that it is sometimes hard to do this because even though they want to discourage a guy, his jokes can be very amusing and it is hard not to laugh at them.

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Advice on Talking Sexy to Women

Sexy Talk with Women

It is important not to overdo this sexual talk. Your main objective is to let the girl know you are interested in her sexually, and you are making moves in that direction. Also you need to know how she feels about your interest.

You should not overwhelm her with a constant barrage of double meanings, dirty stories and sexual suggestions. Some men do this, and girls think they are sexually obsessed. It becomes monotonous, a real turn-off. It makes a girl feel uncomfortable.

Anyway, they usually know what you are up to, that you are sounding them out, and they will send back a message to give you their answer. Be careful, and watch for this message.

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Sometimes the subject being discussed will become exhausted or the girl may become embarrassed or bored by the line of conversation. You should drop that subject immediately and start fresh on something else. You don't need any fanfare. Simply say, "Well! What do you think about ...," or "You know, I once knew a guy in Hawaii."

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Humor

Humor is very effective in all conversations. Remember a few good jokes and try to learn how to tell them well. Some people write down especially good jokes so they can remember them, and periodically go through them to refresh their memory.

If you can handle an impression of someone it is even better. But that would be icing on the cake. Some can do a whole routine and be the life of the party. Fine. But unless you are good at it, leave it to someone who is.

Attracting Women with Humor

Using Humor to Attract Women

Humor

Humor is very effective in all conversations. Remember a few good jokes and try to learn how to tell them well. Some people write down especially good jokes so they can remember them, and periodically go through them to refresh their memory.

If you can handle an impression of someone it is even better. But that would be icing on the cake. Some can do a whole routine and be the life of the party. Fine. But unless you are good at it, leave it to someone who is.

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Speech Advice for Men

Speech Delivery

Don't talk too fast. When feeling the emotional pressures of talking with a strange girl, men sometimes become a little flustered and excited.

They speak carelessly, too fast, blurring their words. Your words should be spoken clearly and at a leisurely pace. You should be continually on guard for this.

Watch and listen to someone who speaks well, either in real life or a professional performer on TV, or in a play or film. Delivery is improved by dramatic emphasizing of words and phrases. It is very effective to pause after a statement, to allow your words to be digested, even though it feels more natural to rush on to your next statement. This requires some discipline on the part of the speaker.

Another effective feature of speaking is the upbeat sentence ending. You sound much more positive and dynamic if your voice rises in tone and sharpens in tempo at .the end of important sentences. By contrast, if your sentence drops in tone at the end, and trails off, the effect is one of indecision and vagueness.

The upbeat tone tends to urge your listener on to agree with you. It is like adding an imperative "Come on!" to the end of your sentence. You can practice speaking some sentences out loud and hear this effect.

Try to improve your speech as much as possible. A well-paced speech style is always much more effective than a hurried, nervou