Meeting, Dating, Attracting Women Using the Power of Jesus
Pick Up Lines
"I just moved into the building and I was wondering if you could recommend a good restaurant in the neighborhood. Would you like to join me?"
"I dare you to go on that roller coaster with me!" (Use this line on girls at amusement parks.)
This is always a good ice-breaker, "Have you seen (a popular movie?) Is it worth seeing?"
"I really feel a little embarrassed about this, but I just had to meet you."
"What's your astrological sign?"
Head Games
Sometimes you can't control how women mistreat you, but you can control how you react to abuse. There's no woman on earth that can make you feel negative emotions such as anger, fear, sadness, and rejection - without your permission.
There are women in this world that gain immense pleasure by upsetting you and playing upon your emotions. They cannot succeed in upsetting you if you refuse to react to their negative behavior. Always tell yourself, "I am in total control of my emotions and I will not allow her to upset me.
In conclusion, don't be a victim of head games women may play on you. Some will test you to see how much power they have over you. Don't put up with any crap. Be a man!
Use God for Dating
1. If you have a need in your dating life, take it to your Father in heaven knowing that his grace is sufficient for you. Trust in him for how that grace will come to you.
2. Because of Jesus, we can live our days with faith. We just never know how God might bless our dating life today.
3. If you are on a date with someone who is discouraged allow the Holy Spirit to use you to restore their confidence in Jesus.
4. PRAYER: I have never known a despondent day...It's because the joy of the Lord is the strength of my life.
5. Regardless of how chaotic or overwhelming your dating situation is turn your attention to Jesus - He will provide you with the rest and refuge you need.
6. Do not seek revenge for an ex-girlfriend who did you wrong. The Bible teaches that if we seek revenge, we are violating the principles of God, but we are also setting ourselves up for Satan's control of our life. - David Jeremiah
A Few Methods to Seduce Women on Dance Floor
Let me give you a few pointers if you're slow-dancing and by all means try to dance to every slow dance because of the physical contact involved.
As in fast dancing, immediately start introduction procedures. Open up by saying, "My name is ___________. What's yours?"
When slow-dancing try to hold her as close to your body as possible. Gently now! Don't squeeze her like an octopus. When moving your right leg, gently brush her inner thighs. While dancing, gently squeeze her hand and see if you get any response. If you do, continue with the next step. Start rubbing her back with your hand. At this point if she starts rubbing your shoulders, neck, or chest and starts grinding her crotch against yours, you're on your way. At this stage of the game it's time to try and kiss her. Begin kissing her neck and work your way up to behind the ear, then the ear lobe, then kiss her on the lips. If you've gotten this far, chances are you're going to score tonight, if not later for sure.
If you have tried all these moves and you do not get any response, don't be concerned about it. Some single women are reluctant to show any affection towards a total stranger. This is quite common, so don't jump to conclusions thinking that she's cold or not interested in you.
Whatever you do, don't give up on a woman who does not respond to your physical advances while slow-dancing. Just follow up with your conversational skills and get to know her better and get her to like you. Perhaps then she will loosen up when she gets to know you a little better and becomes interested in you. If you employ good pick-up techniques, you shouldn't have any problems.
How to ask for a Date
Whatever you do, don't expect a "no" answer in advance of asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence around women. If you expect rejection, it can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way of asking single women for a date. These negatively phrased questions can set you up for failure in trying to get a date:
- "I know you're probably busy Friday night, but if you're not busy would you like to go out with me?"
- "I don't suppose you're free to have lunch with me on Friday are you?"
- "You wouldn't want to meet me for a drink Thursday after work, would you?"
It's best to make it easy for the woman you're asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say, "yes." Also, think positive when asking her out. Believe that she is going to accept and there's no way that she will say, "no."
In my opinion, here's the best way to ask a woman for a date:
- "My friends have been raving about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I've never been there. Would you like to try it out with me?" (This really doesn't have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date).
- "There's a good symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing to attend. Would you like to join me?"
- "Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and party. They have asked me to come along. I know it would be a lot of fun. Would you like to come along with me?"
I hope this advice helps you to get more dates and happy hunting!
One Night Stands
But all the men who make a move to contact a strange girl (in a public place) are not after one night stands, as you, the reader, may not be. With many men the main idea is to meet an exciting new girl. What develops out of the meeting, they can't predict. But it might end up being a meaningful relationship.
Still other men are just being friendly, with no immediate intentions further than that.
These differing objectives of other men make your pick-up attempt less obvious. When you are approaching a strange girl, whatever your intentions may be, any person watching, or the girl herself, really does not know what your intentions are. They cannot know if you are interested in getting her to bed. Not for sure anyhow. You can make your intentions known to the girl when you choose. This takes a lot of pressure off of you. You are not appearing in public, proclaiming to everyone that you are out looking for sex. You are simply a friendly, courteous individual saying "Hello" to a girl.






