Letting a Relationship Go

When do You Give Up on Dating a Woman

So, when do you give up on a woman? When do you come to the conclusion that the relationship is not going anywhere? It really boils down to common sense. It's time to give up when you're the only one trying to advance the relationship and keep it going. If she's not putting any energy into the relationship, just take the hint and move on to the next dancer. Don't make a fool out of yourself and hang around where you're not wanted or appreciated.

If this does happen, try to learn from your mistakes. Try to analyze just what went wrong, why you turned her off, how she observed you, etc. At this point, if you've really done your homework, been on your best behavior and maintained your cool, your next step will be moving on to a happy and passionate relationship with her.

The Best Relationship Advice for Men

Relationship Advice

If you are involved in a relationship with a woman, should you let her know that you are not seeing someone else? Absolutely not! Just keep her wondering and this will make her feel a bit insecure and her thinking that other women find you attractive will intensify her interest and desire for you.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating infidelity here. I am just making the statement that she will find you more attractive if she suspects that other women find you attractive and desirable. If she approaches you with the question: "Are you seeing someone else?" You should deny it. This will keep her wondering and that's good.

Directly Approaching a Woman to Meet Her

How to Directly Approach a Woman

In a direct approach you can go right up and ask for a girl's company or ask to know more about her. No apologies. No tricks. Some eye contact first is a help. But if you can't get it, don't worry. Make your move anyway.

Examples:

• "Hi, how about a date?"
• "Hello!" (Pause, then thoughtfully) "You know you interest me. How about a date sometime?" (You can always advance the "sometime" to a more immediate time if she responds.)
• "Hi, would you like to come and have a drink?" (This is a direct approach if it is made in a place other than at a bar or party.)
• "Say! What's your name?"

Since these approaches are somewhat pushy, the girl may tend to balk a little. Be ready to follow-up with some coaxing. You may also need to give your name fairly quickly to reassure her, e.g., "By the way, my name is..."

If it looks like the girl is put off by your strong approach, you may want to back off and apologize for "coming on so strong. " Then, if you are still holding the conversation you can work on another approach.

How to Date Women

A friend of mine once made this observation: "Casual dates are for getting to know a woman, formal dates are for when you're involved in a relationship with her. Most men make the fatal mistake of doing just the opposite. They go on formal dates when they are trying to get to know a woman and then when involved with her in a relationship, he gets lazy and then only takes her out on casual dates. You need to spice up your relationship with her by taking her to formal affairs. Women really love to get dressed up, so let them.

Always remember that your relationship with her will remain strong as long as her feelings for you remain strong. To keep her feelings strong, just keep giving her the things she needs. Her needs and desires won't change just because she's in a relationship with you.

Masturbating After Watching Topless Dancers

Masturbating When Getting Home from Topless Clubs

I'd be willing to bet you that you beat your meat when you get home from a topless club after being around all those naked women. I'm not going to give you a lecture here on masturbation. I'm going to give you some advice on lack of masturbation that will help you score with topless dancers.

Try this: Go a week or two without masturbating before you go to a topless club. What will this do? It will make you more aggressive and hungry to score with the dancers. It will create magnetism on your part and an aura of attraction. You will be hot & horny, but be sure and not express it. Don't act like the other yahoos in the club. Just act cool and confident.

Experiment with this concept. Try it and see if it helps you to do better with dancers.

Give Women Compliments

Warning About Picking a Marriage Partner

Tip #1- The easiest way to impress a woman is not with talk about yourself, but rather a simple and effective compliment such as,"You are dressed beautifully tonight." Choose the proper time to give her this compliment so it doesn't sound like you're feeding her a line of bullshit. The way I do it is to give her this compliment when I pick her up for a date or at the end of the date. Say it with a lot of sincerity, but not too mushy.

Tip #2- Always wear a sexually arousing cologne when you're dating women. The brands, "Lagerfeld," and "Obsession," work great for turning women on. They will usually ask, "Um-m-m, what are you wearing?" If she asks this, you know she's turned on

You Must Take Charge of Your Love Life

How to Take Charge of Your Lovelife

Do you find yourself pondering and stalling when you see a hot & sexy woman you would like to approach and meet? When you experience procrastination that prevents you from making the first move to meet women, repeat this self-starting statement to yourself: "DO IT NOW!" Then immediately take action and approach her.

Guys, I just can't express to you enough how important it is to develop a "DO IT NOW" mentality for succeeding with women. If you can master this habit, it will give you a boost in personal initiative to taking action to meet and approach women.

Plus, by having this "take charge" attitude, you will have an advantage over other guys. Why? Because a lot of guys are passive, shy, reticent, and stand around with their thumb up their ass when it comes to approaching women. Women will admire you for having the balls to take the initiative in meeting them and they like confident men.