How to Ask Women for a Date

There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is, "Would you like to go out with me?" By saying this:

• You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
• You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
• You imply a formal date. You are making a move on her. The pressure is on her.
• If she says "no," you are never sure whether to ask her again for another time. Was it, "No, I don't want to go out with you," or "No, I want to go out with you but I'm busy that night."
• You literally sound like a junior high kid asking a girl out on his first date.

The right way to ask a single girl out is, "Let's get together and do something sometime." Memorize these words. By saying this, you give an impression of a casual meeting. No big deal. Friends getting to know each other. Not a formal date. If you say this, her response will let you know whether she wants to date you or not.

If she is interested, she will respond in the positive, but also her tone will be positive. The expression on her face will be positive. She may even lead the conversation to making a specific time to do something. If you do get a positive response, you can either pursue the conversation and arrange to meet on a casual date or leave it until the next time you meet. You know she wants to get together and she will be waiting, now that you have teased her with talk of a date but offered no specific plans. You are being elusive and playing hard to get. Her anticipation works in your favor.

If she does not want to go out with you, her verbal response may be "no" or it may even be "yes" to save your feelings, but her tone, her facial expression, and her desire to drop the subject will let you know she is not interested. Don't pursue it further.

The beauty of this exact phrase is:

• You are not set up for rejection. After all, you have not really asked her out. You've made a statement.
• You are throwing out an offer. The implication is that you are doing her a favor. She is not doing you a favor by going out with you.
• It implies a casual get-together to get to know each other, not a formal date.
• You know for sure whether she wants to date you or not.
• You aren't asking her. You are making a statement which says something about you. You are the type of person that likes to do things with friends, and of course she would like to participate. After all, there is no pressure. You are a confident, friendly, fun-loving person who is doing things.

Now re-read that phrase. "Let's get together and do something sometime." See how much better it is than asking a question that may get you a wrong answer?

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

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How to Make Single Women Feel Special

The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.

It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.

So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look."

Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate warmth towards you.

So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance,sex, or a relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

 

Some of the Best Opening Lines to Use on Women

Tip #1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless variations. Some men need the support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in approaching and winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of thought to this while you're working, reading, traveling. Formulate a number of possibly effective opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a pencil and paper and write them down. Practice them out loud before a mirror until you get just the phraseology which sounds most natural, smooth, spontaneous and attractive.

Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use it as if it has just occurred to you in response to this particular woman. Go out and practice it, but with the freedom and confidence to vary it imaginatively to fit every new situation and woman.

Here's a few great opening lines to use when you run across a single woman you would like to meet:

• Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she says no, whatever you do, don't just walk away. Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do you mind if I join you for some conversation?"
• Nightclubs with "live" music - "What do you think of the band?"
• Restaurants - "This is my first time here. What's good on the menu?" Another one you could use is, "Would you like to go have a drink after dinner?"
• Beaches - "Would you like to play some Frisbee?" or "I'm going to the store, can I bring you back anything?"
• Supermarkets - "Excuse me, which steak looks better to you?" or "How do you tell which one of these cantaloupes is ripe?"
• Laundromats - "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're waiting for our clothes?" or "Could you tell me if I should wash these clothes in hot or cold water?"

If you want to learn more opening lines, check out our book, "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines." by Don Diebel

Tip #2 - Pick out a successful Don Juan in your crowd and study his style. Don't ask him questions. He probably doesn't know himself how he does it. But try to go on "woman-hunting expeditions" with him. Go to dances, parties, the beach, with him. Try to arrange some double dates together. Take advantage of every opportunity to watch him in action and study intensively, remember, rehearse in your own mind, every line and gesture in his technique with single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

 

Best Dating Tips for Men on Succeeding with Women

TIP #1 - Single women go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious. Keep this in mind and never act serious on the first few dates. If you try to get serious, sexual, and romantic too soon, you will only drive women away.

TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things slightly different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at your place, have a candlelit dinner with fresh flowers on the table. Go to see classic films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other words, try to set yourself apart from all of the other guys. It's easy to tell what she is used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to dinner, to a party. So avoid the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is used to. She will remember it.

TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating, it is important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you "...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is getting late and..." This is going to surprise her because most guys hang on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed for some hot passionate sex with her.

By ending the date before she does, you:

1. Set yourself apart from other guys.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
3. Make yourself hard to get.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must be other single girls in your life and she is going to have to work harder to catch you.

These tips are excerpts from our hot-selling book "A Man's Guide to Women."

 

Tips on how to Get Over a Breakup

Love or lust? Are you sure that you and your partner have been sharing an authentic romantic relationship? Sometimes, a relationship is based more on lust than true love. In this case, it may still hurt a little bit when it's over, but it's much easier to get over the breakup. If it was true love, then the tips that follow should answer your question of “how to get over a breakup?”

It's never pleasant to be in love with another person, only for them to tell you they don't feel the same about you anymore. It's hard when this happens. It's hard to let go of the relationship. When dealing with the subject of how to get over a break up, the first thing you have to do is to switch your way of thinking.

Instead of thinking of your past relationship; learn how to get over a breakup by distracting yourself and shifting your thoughts to some other things. Focusing on your work (but don’t get overwhelmed) may help. If you don't want to throw yourself into your work, then it's time for you to take up a new activity or hobby. Spend some time with friends you haven't been able to hang out with in a long time. Start going to new places, that you may have wanted to go to, but never had the time or the chance to go to.

If you keep an active lifestyle you will be able to forget your ex for a while (and then you will be able to forget them totally). As you allow yourself to be in the company of others and do other activities, you will help yourself heal faster.

Another tip on how to get over a breakup is to talk to someone who you completely trust. You'll be able to talk about all your feelings and emotions with them. Sometimes it helps to just talk and let the bottled up feelings come out. It's better to let your sadness, bitterness, and/or anger come out; instead of bottling it up and letting them eat you up inside. By talking it out with someone you trust, you'll be able to “detoxify” your emotions.

While it's okay to take some time to recoup from a breakup, don't let it ruin your life. It's important that you don't just lie around the house and don't do anything. Use your family and friends as support. Don't beat yourself up mentally over the breakup. The longer you dwell on the relationship and what went wrong, the harder it will be for you to recover and move on.

The best advice on how to get over a breakup, is to make sure you take care of yourself. It may be hard to do, but you have to ensure you're eating properly and you're getting enough rest. Exercise is also a great way to help get rid of some of your negative feelings and will help you feel better faster. If you don't eat properly or get enough rest, you'll feel worse than you already do. After a break up it's hard enough to think clearly, let alone when you are not providing your body with proper sleep and nutrition.

 

How to Get Your Girlfriend Back

One of the most common things people do after they breakup, is try to explain everything to their ex in the hopes that their ex will change their mind. We convince ourselves that if our ex just understood they would realize they shouldn't break up after all. Unfortunately, this is also one of the biggest mistakes most people make. If you want to know how to get your girlfriend back, the right way, read on.

The truth of the matter is that if you are constantly calling or texting your ex to explain everything, you are making yourself look pathetic and desperate...and that is not how you want your ex to think of you.

You need to give her time to really miss you and think that it may really be over. If you're calling her all the time you're telling her that she can take her time since you've made it very obvious that you want her back. She may think of you as her 'backup plan' (without even realizing it) and that may push her to go out and start dating.

If, on the other hand, you keep your distance she will be a little unsure of where the two of you stand and if she has any doubts at all about the breakup, she will give it a lot more thought. So, rule # 1 is keep your distance at first.

Rule # 2 is to live your life. This may seem impossible when you are still in so much pain, but it's important for two reasons.

For one thing, while you may not be able to totally put her out of your mind, you will at least have some distractions if you're hanging out with friends and family.

Another thing is that it is likely that she will hear that you're out having fun and that will remind her of the fun times the two of you used to spend together.

Rule # 3, don't hook up with anyone else. If you're ex hears that you're out fooling around with other women she might be jealous, but she's also likely to get mad and go out and hook up with someone else too. That's not really what you want, is it?

Use these tactics on how to get your girlfriend back. They will work. Just make sure that no matter what you do you are honest. Now is not the time to try to pretend like you don't care or you're not hurting. Don't be a whiner, but if you love her let her know.