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How Your Ego Can Prevent You From Meeting Women
This week we will focus on how your ego can prevent you from scoring with sexy single women in nightclubs and bars:
I will describe what I call the "Nightclub Ego-Man" that you will see at nightclubs and bars. If you're one of these men, resolve here and now that you're going to change your ways and discontinue being the Nightclub Ego-Man which can prevent you from meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing all those hot & sexy beautiful single women you are attracted to in bars and nightclubs.
This is the guy you will see standing around, depending on his looks to meet single women. He may be very handsome or he just thinks he is. He just stands around all night thinking that he's Gods gift to women and he waits for women to approach him. He just keeps on waiting and waiting, never making the effort or going out of his way to approach and meet women. I don't need to tell you that this type of man is not very successful at meeting or attracting single women.
Believe me, you can't depend on your looks to pick up single women. It just does not work that way. You have got to approach women and play the aggressor. You can stand around all night and most likely no woman is going to approach you and start up a conversation or ask you to dance. You have got to take the lead. I will agree that there are aggressive single women who will approach a man, but there are very few of them. I just wish there were more of them because I love being approached by a woman.
You'll pick up as many single women as you want by just being friendly and taking the initiative to meet them. It's really just that simple, so don't go walking around with your nose up in the air thinking you are so good-looking that women will literally fall all over you. I had this problem myself until I wised up and realized what a jerk I was and why I wasn't meeting and attracting very many women. When I cleaned up my act, it made a world of difference and I was meeting and attracting tons of sexy single women.
How to Tell if a Woman is Romantically Attracted to You
If a single woman is not as interested in you for romance as you are in her, then your relationship has a basic weakness that may be an insolvable problem.
In other words, if you are the only one making romantic advances, if you feel as though it's a battle to get her interested or aroused, if she never takes the initiative to make the right time and place for romance to occur, she never initiates spur of the moment romance, then she's probably not romantically attracted to you.
Oh, she likes you fine, and you are convenient to her at this time in her life. You provide security, you are safe, or for any of a thousand reasons she is with you, but she's not romantically interested in you. And that makes your hold on her very weak. When you are no longer convenient to her, or she meets someone who does turn her on, you have no further hold on her and she's gone.
Don't fall for her excuses. The specific ones: This isn't the right time; I don't feel well; not here, someone might come by; that hurts me; I just took a shower; we don't have time. Or the general ones: I'm still suffering from a bad relationship and need time; I have a lot of important things on my mind; I'm overweight and self-conscious about my body.
These are just that, excuses. She may actually believe them but don't you fall for them. If she was really romantically attracted to you, then there would be no need for excuses. Things aren't going to get better. There will always be an excuse.
This situation is bad for you not only because of your frustration, but because of your self-esteem. Constantly being told by someone's actions that you are not sexy is not good for your self-image.
So when there is no sparks, start looking for her replacement. Don't dump her until you've found one because your search is easier when you have a girl - but start looking today.
Fairness with Women
Can't Buy Me Love
THIS is key, and I'll talk about it again and again. DON'T PAY. Especially with a woman you've just met. Paying says all the wrong things.
Women will read it different ways; here's a few.
It says I'm not interesting, so I'm bribing you to spend time with me.
It says I want to prove I'm good mate material by showing off my financial success. Or the corollary: I'm insecure, so like a man with a small penis and a hot sports car, I'm trying to buy myself some confidence.
Worse still: I don't really know you, but I think you're hot so I'm going to try and buy my way into your jeans.
Equally cringe-worthy: I just paid for you. Now, what are you going to do for ME?
Oh, let's not forget the classic: I'm used to paying for women so they'll keep me company. Feel free to take advantage of that and bleed me for all I can handle, regardless of whether you like me or not.
And of course, with a certain sensitive sect of ladies, you're saying I'm a sexist pig. Now cook bitch.
In fact, can you say anything good by paying? Well, you could be saying I'm a nice, generous man. Great. We all know by now how sexy that is.
What Turns Women on and What Turns Women Off
This week we will focus on what turns single women on and what turns single women off. It's very important to know these things so you will know what to do to attract and turn women on. Also, by knowing what turns women off, you can avoid making mistakes that men make which can cause a woman not to be attracted to you.
Listed here are things about men that turns on single women, according to hundreds of single women surveyed:
- Meeting men in a public place naturally and by accident
- Honest men
- Nice men who treat them with respect
- Men in tight jeans
- A man with a good sense of humor
- Men with a outgoing and friendly personality
- A man who is ambitious and knows where he is going in life
- Men who have the ability to be himself and not try to put on an act
- Men who listen to you and try to get to know you
Listed here are things about men that turn single women off, according to hundreds of single women surveyed:
- Men who act "Macho" and have an overinflated ego
- Men wearing too much jewelry
- Men trying to impress you by talking about their material possessions (car, yacht, mansion, penthouse, wealth, etc.)
- Unclean men
- Men obsessed with sports (all they talk about is sports and spend their weekends camped on the couch watching sports)
- Overweight men with a pot-belly
- Show-offs
- Men constantly pawing at their bodies
- Men who give too many compliments
- Guys always looking in the mirror and flexing their muscles
- Men who are too sexually aggressive
- Drunks
- Men who belch and fart in public
In closing, use these guidelines and adjust your behavior accordingly to meet, date, attract, and seduce more single women.
Effective Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women
TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, even slightly sadistic.
Watch her reactions closely when you do! If you see a glint in her eyes, a pleasurable submissiveness, a suddenly more positive response to you - you may be dealing with a single woman who has a masochistic need to be dominated and mistreated. If such behavior comes easy and natural for you, it can be exceedingly effective with such a woman.
TIP #2 - OPEN YOUR EYES TO THE UNCONVENTIONAL BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL of the "plain-looking" single woman. Taste in beauty and sex appeal is often a purely subjective quality. Many single women whose faces and figures attract no public attention or enthusiasm may exert a provocative, tantalizing, even aphrodisiacal effect upon you personally...if you open your eyes and find those subtle elements in her which only you can appreciate and cherish!
TIP #3 - OCCASIONALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE! Many women, however much they value reliability and security in their man, also tend to take for granted, and to undervalue a man who is too ordinary, too conformist, too dependably predictable. Don't do it too often, and don't hurt her needlessly, but occasionally demonstrate unpredictable and unexpected qualities.
Leave at least a slight touch of mystery and romantic secrecy about your innermost self. For example, suddenly take a trip without advance warning and write to her from your temporary distant stopping point. Take her on a date to some place she has never been before and which she could not have expected from your previous behavior.
Use your imagination to display other romantic touches of mystery and unpredictability. For example, you may suddenly send her a present which opens up a completely unsuspected but attractive facet of yourself to her admiring contemplation!
TIP #4 - LOFTY, DRIVING AMBITION IS ATTRACTIVE TO SOME SINGLE WOMEN. Spin beautiful dreams of the future for her, and weave her into them! Express your highest, most dramatic ambitions and goals to her. Express them vividly, as concretely and confidently as possible. Give her the feeling that she will go along with you and share the heights, the glory, the success, and your mutual happiness!
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