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You can expect difficulties and setbacks in the course of meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing single women. Some problems have a relatively simple "fix", while others require careful attention and a great deal of patience. Consider problems as challenges and learning experiences, rather than as painful failures and doors slammed in your face. Here are some common problems you will face in relationships and a trouble shooting guide to fix them:
Dating
Problem: As long as the two of you are doing something, everything is fine, but when you are alone with each other you seem to have nothing to say.
Solution: This does not bode well for your relationship. If you cannot communicate, you may not have much in common.
Problem: The woman you are going with consistently shows up late for dates.
Solution: You are a low priority with her. Reconsider how important she is in your life.
Problem: After meeting a single woman, things usually go well for the first few dates, but then she loses interest in you.
Solution: This seems to be a repeating pattern in your relationships.
- Become a more interesting person.
- Develop your talents and explore the depths of your potential.
- Review basic conversational skills.
- Do you attach yourself to the woman, "smothering'" her?
- Do your constant attentions allow her to take you for granted?
Solution: If it is your life's ambition to be abused and exploited, then you have found your soul mate. Otherwise, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit.
Problem: You seem to be stuck in a rut. Your life has settled into a dull routine of loneliness and even the prospect of a close relationship hardly excites you any more. Solution:
- Try a change of pace.
- Fill up your free time with activities.
- Take classes. Join clubs. Do volunteer work.
- Devote yourself to a hobby.
- Start work on your novel.
- Step out of the role.
- Be a bit more flexible, and less predictable in your behavior.
- Deliberately act out of character occasionally.
- If you are in a permanent state of depression, consider professional counseling.
- Get a good night's sleep.
- Wake up fortified with a teeny bit of optimism, and smile at the people you meet on the way to work.
- Forget about girlfriend hunting for a few weeks, perhaps a month or two, and concentrate on improving your relationships with your family and friends.
- Perhaps it is not a good time in your life to be seeking a relationship.
- You might not yet be ready for one.
- Treat yourself to a six month's breather, a vacation from looking for a girlfriend.
- Enlarge your circle of acquaintances.
- Develop new interests.
- Grow, learn, and be patient.
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- When with a woman on a date, under no circumstances whatsoever, look at and flirt with other women. This is just plain rude and disrespectful. It's very degrading to a woman and makes her feel very unimportant. It really hurts their feelings, especially if she is attracted to you.
- Don't play head games - Don't just use single women for sex and string them along with no intentions for emotional commitment. The worse thing you can do is to tell them that you love them and not even mean it. And, even worse is to tell them that you love them just to get them in bed for sex. Don't get involved with a woman you have no interest in or desire to have a relationship with and suddenly tell her after several dates and sexual relations, "I don't want a girlfriend right now" or "I'm not interested in having a relationship." They will feel used, hurt and abused. If all you want from a woman is just sex, just be honest and up front with her and tell her, "I'm not interested in being tied down in a relationship with you and I would prefer to have a sexual relationship only with no strings attached."
- Don't make women feel self-concious by making comments on things that she is self-concious about such as her weight, her big ass, large nose, small eyes, hairy arms, pale skin, bony legs, big thighs, her protruding stomach, birthmark, stretch marks, acne, blemishes, etc.
- Listen to women when they talk. Focus all your attention on every word she says. Don't talk to her while on the telephone and try to watch television at the same time. Pay attention to her and make her feel important and special. Women do not like to be ignored.
- Be considerate of a woman's family and friends. In this imperfect world, we are not exactly crazy about everyone we meet, but at least make your best effort possible to get along with and form a bond with her family and friends. Here's why: If you get along fine with them, they won't be so inclined to pressure her to dump you. You would be surprised what an influence her friends and family have on her relationships with men. Also, keep in close touch with your own friends and relatives. They will resent her for you forgetting about them and spending all your time with your girlfriend.
- Remember that single women are unique individuals - They are not a combination of all the women that you have dated and had relationships with. Maybe you had women cheat on you or act crabby and bitchy all the time. You think all single women are like this. Get rid of this attitude immediately! You just can't judge all single women by your experiences of the past. All women are different and don't judge all women as being mean because of a few bad experiences. There's lots of sweet and lovely single women out there that will treat you right. You just have to find them.
- Treat single women like ladies - Literally, treat them like a queen. Open doors for them, light their cigarettes, pour their champagne, tell them how pretty and sexy they look, compliment them on their clothes, offer them your arm. Just make them feel special and desirable. And giving her, flowers, gifts, cards, and poetry is a good idea too. Treat a woman like a lady and you will melt her heart and make her want to become intimate with you.
- Act like a human being when around a single woman - Do your belching and farting in private. And don't make sick comments about your desire for killing cats, kicking dogs, shooting animals, and any other off the wall comments.
- Here's a real no-no: If a woman is acting crabby and bitchy, you say, "You must be getting your period." Women are very sensitive to a remark like this and make her resent you. There are other factors that contribute to a woman feeling a little cranky. It can be stress from work, family, friends, and maybe even you getting on her nerves.
- Always apply the Golden Rule around women - Treat her like you want to be treated.
Follow these ten important keys to getting along with women and I guarantee you that you will have more success in getting women more interested in you. Even to the point that she may fall for you and want to share her warm and writing body with you for some hot passionate sex. I'm sure this is one reward you won't mind receiving for your efforts.
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Why a Dirty Car Can Cause Single Women Not Want to Date You
Listen up guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to keep your car clean.
Single women will judge you on how well your car looks on the inside and out. If your car is messy, dirty, and smells bad, it's going to make a bad impression on women. And...guess what happens when you make a bad impression? She will be less likely to be attracted to you and when this happens, my friend, it can severely decrease your chance to score with her.
For you guys that use your car for your occupation, I know you're going to have files, papers, brochures, sales aids, etc. scattered throughout your car. The best thing to do to correct this messy problem is to go out and buy some plastic baskets, containers, and organizers and organize all your things neatly and if possible carry them in your trunk, out of site.
There's another negative aspect of having a messy car. This is going to send a message to women that you are a slob and a disorganized person. Plus, she may think that you don't even think that she's important enough to you to make a good impression on her. And trust me, this makes her not want to date you again.
Be sure and follow these guidelines for a car that makes a favorable impression on single women before picking her up for a date:
1. Wash your car or run it through a car wash.
2. Vacuum the inside and wipe the dashboard and all exposed areas.
3. Spray your car with air-freshener (this is really critical if you smoke).
4. Always keep a fresh air-freshener hanging in your car (you can buy them at auto parts stores).
5. Be sure and empty your ash tray.
6. Have a wide variety of tapes or CD's to play (be sure and ask her what she'd like to hear).
7. Make sure your car is in good running condition. Nothing is more embarrassing than your car breaking down while on a date.
8. Make sure your glove compartment is clean, neat, and organized and be sure and not store your condoms here.
9. Remove the big fuzzy dice hanging from your rear view mirror (this is really tacky).
10. Keep a hairbrush and comb in your glove compartment to comb your hair before picking her up at the door or meeting her somewhere. You want to look your best and not show up with your hair all out of place.
Ok, guys, now promise me you will now go out to your car and look it over to see what you need to improve it to attract single women and make a good impression on them.