Did you know that what you say under your breath before trying to approach and meet sexy single women can really motivate you and give your courage?

Here's what you should say to yourself before approaching her:

"Do it now!"

"If it's going to be it's up to me."

Try this exercise and I'm sure it can help you to be more successful in approaching hot single women.

My focus this week is on pornography. You need to be aware that a lot of single women are offended by pornography and think it is demeaning to women, causes moral decay, rape, prostitution, etc.

So, to be on the safe side early in a relationship with a woman, it would be wise to hide any pornographic photos, magazines, videos, sex toys, etc. from her.

I would advise hiding it in a good place like the attic or locked up in a trunk, file cabinet, etc. Don't hide it under your mattress or under the bed or in your closet. You'd be surprised how women will snoop around while you're not looking.

So what's the point of all this? If a girl you're dating is disgusted and offended by porno and she accidently or purposely discovers pornographic materials in your apartment or house, guess what message that sends to her? She may think that you're some kind of pervert and may be very offended. Offended to the point that she will not want to date you anymore.

So guys, keep your porno out of sight until you get to know a woman better and her viewpoints on pornography, sex toys, etc.

If she has nothing against pornography then you don't have to be so discreet. But, if she is dead set against porno even after you have established a serious relationship, just keep your stuff hidden (you can always break it out when she's not around).

Well, Valentines Day is just around the corner and it's time to get
busy meeting women so when that day comes you will have a sweetheart.
Please keep in mind when you are taking a date out for Valentines Day
be sure a make reservations in advance if you are going to a
restaurant. I screwed up a couple of years ago and did not make
reservations and there was very long waits and lines at the better
restaurants. I ended up eating somewhere where I didn't care to eat.
Plus, it makes a unfavorable impression if you don't plan the date in
advance.

Do you go to topless clubs and get tongue-tied when you try to talk to the topless dancers? Well, here's 25 proven opening lines to use on topless dancers:

"What is your real name?" (If she tells you her real name instead of her stage name, this could indicate that she's interested in you).
"Where are you from?"
"Do you have a boyfriend...How long have you been seeing each other?"
"Don't you get tired of all these horny men with their brain between their legs?"
"You have such a beautiful body, where do you work out at?"
"What do you plan on doing when you get off work tonight?"
"How long have you been dancing?"
"Have you got any children...how old are they?"
"What made you decide to get into dancing?"
"What part of town do you live in?"
"Are you attracted to other women?" This can help you determine if she is a lesbian and if she is, you will be wasting your time trying to score with her."
"How long do you plan on working as a topless dancer?"
"How did you get such a nice tan?"
"When do you work?"
"You are so beautiful, I couldn't help but notice you, you look so nice...my name is..."
"Where do you like to go party?"
"Would you like to go party with me when you get off?"
"What do you like to do on your days off?"
"How do you keep your body in such beautiful shape?"
"What time do you get off work?"
"What do your parents think about you dancing?" If either parent is against her dancing be sure and take sides with her and defend her occupation as a dancer.
"What kind of man turns you on?"
"Do you ever get burnt out on dancing and the topless club scene?"
"Do you have any hobbies?"
"Do you do any modeling?"

This is an excerpt from our best selling book, "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" which was featured in the Playboy Catalog.

“You look so familiar, do I know you?”

“I just got a new kitten/puppy. Can you help me think of a name for it?”

“Did you know you are torturing me by making me all hot & bothered?”

“Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes.”

Here’s one to use when you’re cruising in your car and you see a girl walking or waiting for a bus: “Hi! I know you may be a little scared to accept rides from strangers, but I can assure you I’m a well-mannered gentleman. Can I give you a lift somewhere?”

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I would like to focus this week on some vocabulary habits that can turn single women off and hurt your chances for getting women attracted to you for love and romance.

Some women will judge you by how you talk to them and what you say. Unfortunately some men have a very small vocabulary and use certain words over and over again between sentences that can become very annoying to women.

What are these words that men mistakenly repeat over and over that are a source of annoyment and can actually make you appear to be stupid because you lack a vocabulary? Here are the main ones and you must try to eliminate them from you vocabulary when speaking to single women:

"'you know"
"you know what I mean?"
"you know what I'm saying?"
"do you understand what I'm saying?"
using the word "like" to begin a sentence
"I know that"
"I already knew that"
"umm"
"yep"
"nope"
"and dah"

These phrases are ok to use every once in awhile. What I'm talking about is repeating these phases in almost every other sentence. I'm sure you know people that have these annoying conversation habits. Maybe this is even you?

Also, I might add that you should never use cuss words in your conversation when you first get to know a woman. If she's offended by foul language, this can turn her off to the point that she will have no interest in dating you.

Please don't mumble your words either. Speak clearly and don't talk with your hand over your mouth. And of course, if you're out on a lunch or dinner date, don't talk with your mouth full.

P.S. - In all fairness, if the girl you're with makes these same vocabulary blunders you do, then you will share something in common and your blunders are not likely to turn her off.