Art of Romance With Single Women Using Lighting


Is your house or apartment romance ready for seducing single women by using seductive lighting? Let me explain what I mean:



 Drive Women Wild with Powerful Pheromone Cologne When you have a girl come over to your place you need to make sure that it is romantically ready with seductive and soft lighting. To make sure your place has seductive lighting, take these steps:

  1. Replace all your 100 and 75 watt light bulbs with soft 40 watt bulbs. Those bright 100 watt bulbs will tend to make your date feel more tense. You want just the opposite effect in making her feel relaxed and receptive to your romantic advances towards her.
  2. If possible, replace all your light switches with dimmer switches. This gives you the ultimate control of creating a soft and romantic atmosphere for seducing your date.
  3. Of course, the ultimate lighting for romance, is a roaring fireplace. If you have one, always use it! Even in the summer - just lower the thermostat on your A/C. What I buy is the artificial logs. They make a nice romantic fire quickly.
  4. Last but not least, is the ever popular way of creating romance is with the use of candles. Trust me guys, women love candlelight and it's a great way to get them turned on and ready for intimacy.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

18 Deadly Driving Sins When Dating Single Women


  1. Weaving in and out of traffic.
  2. Speeding 10-20 miles per hour above the legal speed limit.
  3. Not paying attention to the road while talking on your cell phone.
  4. Cussing out or giving the finger to other drivers who get in your way.
  5. Tail-gating other cars.
  6. Not keeping your eyes on the road while talking to her.
  7. When stopping for a red light or stop sign, you apply the brakes at the last minute, jerking your date out of her seat.
  8. Throwing trash, beer cans, or lite cigarettes out the window while you're driving.
  9. Driving while drunk or under the influence of drugs.
  10. Refusing to wear your seat belt.
  11. Running red lights and stop signs.
  12. Trying to impress your date by burning rubber.
  13. Forgeting to clean your car inside and out before picking up your date.
  14. Taking control of the radio and not letting her listen to her favorite radio station.
  15. Lighting up a cigarette without asking your date if she minds if you smoke.
  16. Driving with bald tires, increasing your chances of having an accident in wet driving conditions.
  17. Forgeting to gas up your car before going on your date and you run out of gas on your date.
  18. Speeding through school zones.

If you are guilty of some or most of these driving sins while on a date, you're are in big trouble and I will tell you why. When you're on a date, especially on a first date, you are being judged. Anything that you do that leaves a negative impression will be held against you. And if you're out of control while driving, it can make such a bad impression on her that she will not want another date with you.

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So, guys please don't take the attitude of, "I'll drive as I damned well please and if she doesn't like the way I drive it's tuff shit." This attitude can cost you dates and maybe even your life or others. So, please drive safely!



P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on Cell Phone Etiquette for Dating


Should you take your cell phone with you on a date? Absolutely not! Leave it at home if at all possible.

If you get a call while you're on a date, it is considered rude and bad manners to be talking on the phone while you're with your date. You need to be devoting all your undivided attention on her rather than talking on the phone.

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I've got a male friend who carries his cell phone with him on dates thinking that women will be impressed that he's a businessman who's real important. It's really an ego trip for him. I can assure you that the majority of women could care less if you have a cell phone. It's not a big deal anymore. Lots of people have them now.

Let me lay down a few rules of cell phone etiquette if you insist on bringing your cell phone on dates:

  1. If you have to make a call while you're on a date at a restaurant, just excuse yourself and find someplace private to make your call. Don't make your call at the table. This is inconsiderate and rude and the people at the other surrounding tables won't appreciate it either.
  2. It would be considerate to inform your date in advance that you have your cell phone on in case of receiving an important call or emergency call.
  3. If you absolutely must answer a call, speak softly if you are in public.
  4. If you are at a movie theatre, turn your cell phone off. It is so rude to answer a phone call while others are trying to watch the movie.This is just as annoying as a baby crying in the theatre.
  5. If you are not expecting an urgent call, just turn off your cell phone. As a back up you could keep a beeper in your pocket and set it on the vibrate mode.
I'm sure you have heard of the Zagat Restaurant Guides. According to their online survey of diners they found that cell phone-free dining a top issue for both diners and managers of restaurants. The survey asked about the importance of cell phone-free and smoke-free dining. (The survey did not separate the two experiences.) It found that 95% of respondents wanted a separate section in the restaurant for phoning and smoking.



"It's an issue that seems to be a hot button among dining patrons," said Mike Sheinfield, vice president of corporate communications for Zagat. "The majority would prefer a cell phone-free section."

So, what does this tell you guys? Cell phones are very unpopular in restaurants and you should leave yours at home when out on a date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attracting Single Women for Romance Using Your Bachelor Pad


Yes, the term "bachelor pad" may be a little dated, but the concept is still the same. You're a single guy. You live by yourself, or maybe you have roommates. No matter. The place where you stay is your bachelor pad and eventually, if you're lucky, a woman or two or twelve will be coming by to check it out.

The most important things to keep in mind when designing your bachelor pad are:

  • YOU must be comfortable there.
  • A WOMAN should not be uncomfortable there.
  • It should reveal your personality.
  • It should be a functional place to live.
  • It should look like a MAN lives there.
Whether your pad passes the lady's "test" or not could be the difference between heart-pounding success and mind-numbing failure. Of course, certain things are obvious and go without saying - such as your place should be clean, neat, and smell-free (or preferably smell good). However, keep in mind that it should look "lived in" and not like you just spent six hours cleaning it before she came over. You want her to be "impressed" but also comfortable.

However, the main thing to remember is that when this beautiful lady enters your place, she's looking to make an assessment of your personality, to find out what kind of person you Really are, and trying to decide whether or not the two of you might be compatible (either short-term or long-term depending on her goals).

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The following list, while by no means complete, consists of some of the "essentials" of a dynamic bachelor pad. You may not want or need everything listed here, but try to incorporate as many of the following as possible into your current place... especially before bringing the girl of your dreams over. Some do require you to spend a few bucks. But you should find it to be a good investment...especially if you're following the other love tactics discussed at The Don Juan Center.

Entertainment - Your bachelor pad should be entertaining. By "entertaining" I mean that this is a place where you two will be spending some time (hopefully) so you need, at minimum, a decent TV, stereo, and VCR. You should also have some games available - maybe a deck of cards, a backgammon board, and some other board games you like to play. Conversation is great, but nobody wants to talk all the time. You should have interesting things to DO.

Couch - Large, soft, and comfortable. Your couch is the focal point of your living room. It's the place where you and she will get to know one another, where you two will drink wine and listen to music, where you two can kick back and watch TV, and most likely where you'll make your first "move." Be sure to keep it spotless... which can be tough if that's where you prefer to eat. And please, no love seats. If she has to choose between being cramped with you in a love seat or relaxing in a nice comfortable chair across the room, she just might choose the chair.

Coffee Table - Have an interesting book or two and some magazines lying across it - things that she can browse through while waiting. Books should have great titles or interesting pictures. The magazines you choose to display will help to reveal your personality and solidify the "impression" you're trying to make. So choose them wisely.

Live Plants - Note the key word: LIVE. Not plastic and not dying. Several scattered throughout your apartment. Most guys don't want to deal with the responsibility of plants... but they are essential for adding COLOR and ATMOSPHERE to your place while setting yourself apart from those irresponsible types. Boys don't own plants. Men do. And if you don't have a green thumb don't worry. Simply go to the nursery and ask the guy working there for something that's "hard to kill."

Framed Photos - Maybe in a bookcase or on a table. She will gravitate toward these... looking for clues as to what you value, who you are, and where you've been. Pictures of family members, friends, trips you've taken, and pets are good. Old girlfriends and Ms. July are not.

Framed Art - On the wall in the living room, bedroom, and maybe even the dining room and bathroom depending on how big your place is. Cheap posters are not allowed. Ideally this art will have a SUBTLE sexual aspect to it... to create the right mood. This is your "bachelor" pad after all. Pick out something that you not only like but that also says "a suave, worldly gentleman lives here."

Music - Music should be easily available in most every part of the house or apartment. If you have an impressive CD collection, this should be displayed prominently in a nice CD rack. She'll enjoy browsing through these. Having a VARIETY of music is a plus as it indicates you are both worldly and complex. And make sure you have some smooth jazz for those romantic, candlelit dinners. You might also want to compile a special cassette of soft romantic dinner music.

Atmosphere Lighting - Your living room light (and ideally dining room and bedroom too) should dim to help create a soft and sexy atmosphere. And when you turn the light on, make sure not to turn it on "full blast." Nothing kills a romantic mood like bright light shining in your eyes.

Bathroom - If she's in your apartment for more than ten minutes, she WILL go to your bathroom... and check it out. (If she doesn't go to your bathroom, then you just might have yourself one of them there transvestites on your hands. Proceed with caution.) Needless to say, the bathtub, shower, toilet, and sink should be spotless. You might also add one of those cleaning balls to your toilet to make the water colorful. That's always a nice touch. You may also want to add some type of scent to your bathroom by placing a couple of "stick up" type things in out of sight locations.

Big Fluffy Towels - She'll be repulsed by those small, thin towels with all the carefully crafted holes that you've been using for the last 14 years. BIG and FLUFFY will get her purring as she starts imagining herself draped in them... after a hot relaxing shower...with you. And dark blues or dark greens tend to convey more of a "manly" impression.

Extra Toilet Paper - In plain view... so she doesn't have to go rummaging through your cabinets. But it shouldn't just be sitting there. The extra roll should be set up as almost a decoration in the bathroom... maybe in a little basket with some other interesting things.

Around The Sink - Most guys keep every type of personal item that they've used since the last time they moved piled messily around the bathroom sink. Needless to say this is not good. Most of your stuff should be kept in the bathroom cabinets out of sight. You'll want to place only a few select things around your sink. And you choose these carefully in order to convey the proper impression. A couple different types of cologne (expensive not cheap), aftershave lotion, liquid hand soap, box of tissues, a nice toothbrush holder (with a new-looking toothbrush), expensive hair gel, and a couple other things of your choosing should do the trick.

Shower Curtain - A shower curtain can make or break a bathroom as most bathrooms are pretty small. Spending a few bucks here would be a great investment.

Tissues - Boxes of these in the living room, bathroom, bedroom, and everywhere else. Women love tissues. And if she decides she wants one, and happens to find a box nearby, she'll be mighty impressed.

Extra New Toothbrush - In case things go well and she decides to spend the night. A nice extra touch that is sure to impress her the next morning. However, you might want to fall a little short of hinting that she use it.

Prestigious Shampoo and Conditioner - Even though you prefer rubbing your head with a bar of Dial, don't let her know that. Make her think you actually care about yourself and treat yourself well. Have a nice bottle of shampoo and conditioner prominently displayed in the shower. (Paul Mitchell is great.) As with all personal products, the idea is to create the impression that you actually care about and respect yourself. Cheap personal products, even if you prefer them and think they're better, will create the exact opposite impression.

A Man's Bed - Queen is probably the best size. Big enough for two, but not so big that it looks odd in a single guy's place. And make sure that you have the bed on a nice frame. An old mattress in the corner may have been fine when you were a college freshman, but you're a MAN now. And real men sleep in real beds, preferably with real women beside them.

Big Fluffy Pillows - Again, women like big and fluffy. If you can't sleep with big and fluffy, have a different one that you use when sleeping alone.

Cool Sheets and Comforter - When she walks by your bedroom door, she's going to look in and check out the bed. Whether or not she can VISUALIZE herself sleeping there is of the utmost importance...unless, of course, you're satisfied with just being friends. Your sheets and comforter should be attractive, comfortable-looking, and INTERESTING. Plain, boring, and dull has no place in your bedroom. Do you really think she wants to sleep with a guy who's plain, boring, or dull? Again dark colors convey that "manly" impression that you want to make.

Condoms - Keep a variety of kinds in your nightstand or dresser near the bed. Always be prepared. You might actually one day somehow someway manage to get lucky. Yeeehaaa!

Wine - You should have at least one good bottle of wine available...to drink with dinner, after dinner, or just because. Good doesn't necessarily mean expensive. You can get a great bottle of wine for $10 or so (such as Napa Ridge Pinot Noir or Chardonnay). Wine glasses, though not required, would really frame you as a man of taste. Ask advice from the guy at the wine store if it's not your area of expertise. Or better yet, buy a book and become an expert.

Beer - If your potential squeeze likes beer. And not just any beer. You can drink that cheap crap when you're by yourself or watching the game with your buddies, but when she's over you need something different. It should taste great and ideally be something she's never had before... to set yourself apart from all the ordinary guys. (Rolling Rock is great and fairly inexpensive in the USA.)

Non-Alcoholic Beverages - A variety of beverages including orange juice, soda, milk, tea, and bottled water. Variety is the key so you're sure you've got something she might like.

Ice Cream - And not the Food Lion brand either. Dove Bars, Haagen Daaz, or some other delicious, expensive treat will really "warm" her up.

And last but certainly not least...



A Vacuum Cleaner - Buy one and learn to use it. Most guys NEVER vacuum. If your lady has a sensitive nose she'll be able to sense this as soon as she enters. This can be an especially bad problem when pets are involved.

So there you have it. The essentials of a swingin' bachelor pad. We could, of course, add a number of other things. But if you focus on those things listed above, not only will you pass her test, but she may not leave for days!

This article contributed by Allen Thompson. He is the proprietor of The Don Juan Center, where you'll find tons of free and useful information on meeting, dating, and attracting women. heck out all the goodies at: http://www.globalmarketing.nu

Adult Education Classes to Meet, Date Single Women


Most good-sized communities in the United States offer adult education courses. The courses are varied and offer something for everyone. The classes are held at convenient times for full time workers and are available at no cost or for a small fee. A good example of these courses are the ones sponsored by the organization called Leisure Learning which are located in most large cities in the United States.

These courses are an excellent channel for meeting single women.The key to it all is to take courses that appeal to women. Let me offer some suggestions of courses that will be made up of mostly women: Interior decorating, arts and crafts, cooking, ballet, astrology, handwriting analysis, tarot, tennis, writing, etc. By taking these courses you will be one of the few men in the class. You will be surrounded by single women and you will get all the attention and you will be in demand. The women will be literally fighting amongst themselves for your attention.



Let me tell you about my friend Bill who took a cooking class at my urging. This is what he told me about the class: "Well, there were fifteen women in the class and I was the only guy. Most of them were single and most of them were around my age. Now, I've only been to three of the classes and have three more to go and I've already dated four of the women...and I'm becoming a great cook on top of it. You know Don, this was a really great idea of yours. Probably none of these single women would have talked to me if I had approached them in a supermarket or on the street, but no woman refuses to talk to you over a pasta."

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A word of advice. Arrive at the classes early. Everyone sits around and shoots the bull and the atmosphere is very relaxed and there's no pressure to meet someone like in a singles bar. By arriving early you can make the rounds and converse with the women before class.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Are Single Women that Dress Sexy Whores


Has this ever happened to you? You've met a single woman that you're attracted to and have made plans for your first date.

You arrive at her place and she opens the door. Then you are blown away by what she is wearing. She's got on a tight short skirt that hugs her body. Also, she's got on a sexy tight top revealing some of her cleavage.

If you're a typical male with his brain between his legs, you're going to be thinking to yourself, "Wow, this girl is going to be easy and she's dressing sexy to turn me on so I can jump her bones."

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Sorry, guys...you are Wrong, Wrong, Wrong! Don't fool yourself into thinking that just because a woman dresses sexy on a first date she's doing this to send a signal that she wants to have sex with you. Quite the opposite.

The reason she is dressing sexy is because all single women want to be admired and like to attract attention from the opposite sex. And they enjoy feeling sexy and attractive. Some single women are very proud of their bodies and want to show it off. Keep in mind that she's not dressing that way to look like a hooker or a whore. She simply wants to be admired. That's all, guys.



So, when you see your date dressed like this, just hold your raging hormones in check and be sure and tell her how lovely she looks. Compliment her clothes, hair, and sexy and sensuous lips. Please guys, if she is showing cleavage or showing off her breasts with a tight top, don't say, " You have nice tits." And if she is showing off her nice butt with a tight skirt, don't say, "You sure have a nice ass." These comments are real turnoffs, coming from someone she does not know well.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Kissing Guide for First Dates With Single Women


At the end of a first date comes that awkward moment when you must decide if you want to kiss her or not.

Also, if you do kiss her it had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some single women will judge you on your first kiss as to whether she would be attracted to you want to date you again. In other words, she must feel some chemistry when she kisses you.



If you are a lousy kisser, then you're going to be a failure at creating good chemistry between you and your date. Is chemistry important on a first date? You bet it is! And if you're a great kisser, you're going to turn her on and have an edge on the other guys that date her that are lousy kissers.

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So, just exactly what makes a good kisser and kisses that single women that you go out with won't forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow her lead...that's all there is to it.

If you really want to turn her off and blow your chances for more romance and future dates with her, do these things:

  • Drooling all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet or sloppy kisses.
  • While kissing, you keep your lips stiff and rigid. You've got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips. If they are hard as a rock it will feel like kissing a rock to her.
  • Keeping your lips closed. Please guys, open your lips! Women don't enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
  • And most importantly, don't be stingy with your tongue. Give it to her and play tongue hockey with her. Let her suck on your tongue if that's what she likes. Whatever you do, don't try to gag her with your tongue. Just use it gently and don't try to stick it down her throat.
  • If you don't know how to kiss properly, I would suggest practicing on the back of your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman that you're dying to become intimate with. You could also practice kissing yourself on the mirror.

In closing, if you really want to succeed with single women in the love and romance department, you must be a good kisser.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com