Know That Women are Not a Porn Star

The Reality is That Women You Meet Are Not Porn Stars

Guys, you must be realistic about women. Even though they may like watching porno movies, in the real world:

• You are never going to walk in on us, our two girlfriends and the pizza guy.
• Our boobs are real, They flop around.
• We have pubic hair.
• We really don't like it when you spray your love juice on our face and in our hair.
• We generally like to kiss or talk before we get down on our knees to pleasure you.
• We did not talk our way out of that speeding ticket by having sex with the police officer.
• We don't enjoy having a fist or anything else, for that matter rammed up inside us.

Praying for a Special Lady for Dating

Keep the Faith When Praying for a Girlfriend

Have you been praying for a special lady to come into your life and it seems like it's taking forever and you are getting frustrated and ready to throw in the towel?

Some guys miss out on God's opportunity to find someone special because they give up before they see the answers to their prayers come.

Guys, don't let that be you. Don't give up hope because your answer is a lot closer than you think.

If it seems to you like your dating life is getting more and more difficult and frustrating, just remember this, that when things intensely heat up, that simply means that you are closer to your victory in finding someone for love, happiness, and romance.

As the old saying goes, "It always seem darkest just before dawn appears.

For those of you that believe in God you must remember that he is always faithful to you. When you constantly pray for someone to come into your life, just remember he is working in the background to line up meeting that special lady.

Don't get impatient waiting and lose confidence because meeting her is just around the corner. You just have to be faithful with expectancy and wait on God's time table, not yours.

Look at it this way; you just can't imagine how painful for a mother it is when giving birth to a child. When she is holding that child right after birth she forgets all about the labor pains she went through. And you too will forget all the pain and struggles you went through when you are holding your new love.

Forgetting the Past to Create New Future in Dating

You Need to Stop Dwelling on the Past

A lot of guys spend way to much time and energy focusing on their past negative experiences in dating women. They think about all the mistakes they have made. They think about all the disappointments they have with women. They may not be aware of it, but dwelling on the past is interfering with them moving forward in their dating life.

You have just got to let go of all the negative experiences in dating to make room for the new positive experiences. Trust me, there will be ups and downs in dating. Not everything goes according to plan and sometimes things just don't work out in relationships. We all get hurt when playing the dating game. You just learn from it and move on.

If you are living trapped in the past as far as dating goes there is always a new beginning and the best way for you to prepare for it is by getting rid of the old past. Don't spend time dwelling on where you have been. It's time to focus on where you are going in dating today. Don't worry about the past. What is done is done. Don't allow the past to dictate your future in dating. Begin today by making a commitment and declare that your negative dating experiences are over and forgotten.

Dating Tips for Men

Some Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

Usually, after a man approaches a strange girl in public it takes longer to reach the point where he can suggest making love, because it takes longer to gain her trust than it would if they met at a party or at work. However, many women are now accepting men as lovers, after much shorter courtships than they were a few years ago.

Another modem feature is that girls sometimes approach men to pick them up. But don't get lazy and depend on this. The really attractive girls aren't the ones most likely to do this, so you still have to get out and make your own opportunities.

Men can be attractive to girls. This is an obvious fact. Whether it is a combination of looks, mannerisms, personality (or whatever else), the end result is that special magic called sex appeal.

You must become a believer in yourself. You must believe that you too can have sex appeal. And of course you can. You simply have to improve and cultivate the assets you already possess.

How to French Kiss a Woman

A Guide to French Kissing a Woman

1. PLEASE DO NOT START OFF WITH A FRENCH KISS, use a proper move and the way to do a regular kiss above.

2. Ok, now you have done a regular kiss and you have pulled away.

3. Instead of just leaving, you go back in and start off again with a regular kiss…note..that is two regular kisses now!

4. During your regular kiss you will turn your head sideways.

5. Then, once your head is slanted you can put your tongue between her lips. NOTE: GRADUALLY AND GENTLY PUT IT IN!

6. Do not put your tongue in very far, you don’t need her choking on your tongue. After you feel your tongue touch hers, just stop and let them touch.

7. After you and your partner have French kissed a few times, then you can start in movement with the tongue.

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How to Give a Relaxing Massage

How to Relax Your Partner's Body When Giving a Massage

Start by connecting with your partner. There may be specific ways you and your partner prefer to do this. If not, try kind words, soft gazing into each other's eyes, synchronized breathing, and/or caressing each others' faces or hands.

When both of you are ready, have your partner lie face down, naked, on the massage table. Start by quieting and focusing your mind while resting your hands on the receiving partner's upper and lower back. Then, perform a relaxing massage on the back, legs, and feet. Basic principles of relaxing massage include keeping your hands in contact with your partner, taking your time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones. When giving a massage be sure to use good body mechanics: use your body weight rather than arm strength for deep strokes, during gliding strokes keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don't lean over the table.

After relaxing your partner's back, legs, and feet, have him or her turn over. Massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. It can feel good to brush the genitals when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This teasing process can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.

Especially if this is your first massage with this partner, it's a good idea to look into your partner's eyes while cradling his or her genitals, and somehow ask his or her permission to go further. The rest of the massage will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations. One of the skills that comes with practice is being able to read the energy and arousal levels of your partner, and smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual.