How to Talk to Women About Getting Intimate

Coversations for Intimacy

When a man verbally makes a suggestion of sexual activity to a girl, it is usually preferred that it not be too explicit. Years ago it was fashionable for a man to invite a girl to come to his place to see his etchings, or to see his new wallpaper , or a special painting. When the girl accepted the invitation, the real plan was obvious, but this little pretense made the whole thing sound more respectable.

Today you can invite a girl to "sip a nice wine, while you put something relaxing on the stereo." Or you can ask her to "come and join me for a candlelight supper." Other simple invitations are to "come over to my place for a while" or to "stop in for coffee." Or even to "see my water bed."

If you take a girl home (to her place) you may ask if you can come in for a drink, or she may invite you in herself. Her hospitality does not necessarily signify her sexual willingness, but if she agrees to show you her bedroom you can feel fairly sure you've reached home base.

Another approach might be to ask, "What do you say we go somewhere now, I mean somewhere private?" If she agrees, you could check into a motel or find any other suitable place.

If you invite her to "go away" with you for a weekend (or overnight), and she accepts, it is a fair assumption she is accepting your invitation as a sexual proposal, unless she plainly insists on separate rooms. Even that arrangement, however, might be negotiable later.

Online Dating Defined

All About Online Dating

Online Dating

Online dating is becoming more popular everyday. There are more and more people that are turning to the online world for their dating and relationship needs. Some people simply do not have time to go on dates or to try to meet people. Others have social phobias or they are shy and have a hard time approaching people. Then, there are people that have had bad luck with the dating scene and have given up on finding happiness within the dating world. They do not think that they are meant to be happy or find the person that they are meant to be with. In all actuality, the reasons for people to turn to online dating are as varied as the daters themselves.

Online dating is not a very new concept. There have been dating sites on the internet for quite some time now. But, recently these sites have started gaining more popularity and have been advertised more. This is due to the fact that more people are utilizing these sites now days. They have realized the potential that exists in the online world and they are harnessing that power and using it for their own good. For some people, it is simply a matter of convenience.

You have the ability to input your information about yourself. You take personality quizzes and fill out your profile information. Then, the site compares your results with other people and works to find the matches that are best suited to your particular personality and lifestyle. You do not have to go on many different dates and find that you are just not compatible with the people you are dating or do not have any common interests. You are not wasting your time or the time of others. You are matched with people that fit you. You are much more likely to have a meaningful date and possibly work toward a relationship if you are compatible with your partner.

There are some potential risks or downfalls with online dating. You do not truly know the person that you are setting up a date with. They could seem to be a wonderful person and then you meet them and there are issues with your safety. There are also some people that are very misleading in their profiles and information. They may post false pictures of themselves. You get an idea of the person that you will be meeting and going on a date with and then when you get there, you find out that they are a completely different person. It is much easier to hide your identity online. You are able to mislead people and to hide who you truly are. You can get away with pretending to be someone you are not. One of the greatest appeals of the internet is the ability to alter who you are and make yourself the person that you desire to be.

All in all, internet dating is a positive thing. There are wonderful people waiting to meet others who are compatible with them. They want to find love and happiness. For many of these people the internet is the doorway to a new world and new relationships.

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How to Express Yourself Sexually to Women

Expressing Yourself Sexually

Here are a few of the sexy expressions you can toss into the conversation to liven it up. Mostly they should be used when telling stories and kidding around.

Hot and heavy, stripped for action, hot little hand, kiss her 'til her toes curl, kissed from head to toe, shacked up, stripped and ready, hot to trot, charm the pants off, ready for the sack, hot and bothered, all worked up, magic fingers, touch the spot, bare assed naked, hot little number, got a chest that won't quit, the most fun I've had with my clothes on.

These of course are only typical examples. There are many others you can think of. The use of expressions like these can be compared to the use of spices in cooking. It makes the end result more exciting and colorful. But, as with spices, don't overdo it. In any case you don't have to talk that way at all if you don't want to. Nevertheless, outrageous speech and behavior are effective attention getters, and they probably will not offend a girl so much as you might expect. And they do produce excitement, which is a very desirable result. You may want to experiment in this area.

5 Top Sexy Topics to Talk to Women About

5 Great Sexy Topics of Conversation

Nude photography. Most women secretly would like to pose for nude pictures, photographs or paintings. How does she feel about the idea? Discuss the erotic effects of a nude girl wearing only a neckband or other single item such as a belt, a waist chain, high-heeled shoes, a large bracelet, a hat, or other accessories. The subject of women photographing nude men is also quite provocative.

Escort services. You might speculate and discuss how some escort services are really genuine services providing attractive partners strictly for company and prestige, while others are a front for prostitution. Interesting situations must develop between girls in the legitimate services and their customers. The whole idea of people using their money to buy other's time (for personal company) is an interesting subject.

Skinny Dipping. Has she ever done it? It is such fun and such a thrill. Also underwater petting, Jacuzzis, hot tubs and saunas.

Wet Tee Shirt competitions and girls' mud wrestling. These crazy sex-oriented shows take place in some parts of the country and can be discussed. Also in some seashore resorts they have girls' erotic banana eating contests with prizes for the most suggestive performances by girls while eating a banana. These are really wild, and a good subject for a fun discussion.

Striptease. Has she ever been to one, with either female or male strippers? They are a lot of fun. They really get the old blood pumping.

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What to do When You Buy Table Dances from Strippers

Accept this as something you have to put up with in topless clubs. You will constantly be hustled for table dances! Don't hold this against the dancers. This is how the dancers really make good money. So, if she's not doing dances she's not making any money. They have bills to pay just like you and me and she will spend most of her night hustling men for dances.

Always remember that you're under no obligation to buy a dance from her. If she's really crazy about you, she will even dance for you free. If this happens, you've got a real good shot at scoring with her.

Back to the dancers soliciting you for dances. As you are sitting at your table you will be approached by dancers with their standard line of, "Would you like some company?" If you say, "yes" right after she sits down, she will hit you up for a dance. You can stall her with small talk after she joins you, but eventually and real soon she's going to ask you for a dance.

So, what do you do? Always say, "I'd rather buy you a drink and get to know you better. I know the ropes of your business, so if you need to go make some money, I understand. Just come back and party with me after you make your money." If she never comes back, you'll know she's not interested in you, because you won't buy a dance.

Topless Dancer Table Dances

What to do When You Buy Table Dances from Strippers

I don't know about you, but if I'm going to be dishing out $20 for a stripper to turn me on, I want to get my money's worth. OK, let's say that you have bought a table dance. What do you do during her dance routine? Well, for starters whatever you do, don't try to grab her or fondle her. She may tell the bouncer and he will throw your ass out of the club. Before the dance begins, a lot of the topless dancers will remind you not to touch them.

During the dance, just relax and act like she's driving you up the wall. Smile at her seductively, lick your lips, make a lot of eye contact, wink at her, lift your eyebrows in approval, make noises like "Umn," and "Wow," etc. Tell her, "You're so sexy," or "OK, I like that." Focus your eyes on her body like it's the most sexy and beautiful body you've ever seen in your life. When it's over, put the money in her G-string. Observe her reactions to you while she's dancing. Is she focused on you and showing interest in you? Does she look you in the eye? Or does she appear to be not interested in you, not having fun and looking around the club while performing? These can be bad signs for you and you're not going to get anywhere with her. You're just a customer to her and nothing more.

A word about paying for a table dance. Always pay cash if possible. Why? Because if you use your credit card, they usually charge you a processing fee of $5. This is a rip off to me. Also, you might want to offer her a barter deal for a dance. Offer to wash & wax her car, change her oil & filter, lottery tickets, jewelry, gift certificates, any services related to your business, etc.