How to Dress Around Women

Dress for Success with Women

Perhaps the most important reason for being well dressed is the effect it has upon you. Certainly you are aware of how much better you feel when you are dressed up. Your confidence really soars. If you know you look sharp, your self-esteem is increased dramatically.

I have noticed that when I am well dressed, people definitely are friendlier and more receptive to me. Whether it is their favorable reaction to my appearance, or a reflection of my own confidence, I can't be sure. But the effect is very real, and a very important asset.

Nevertheless, you may sometimes find an opportunity to pick up a girl when you are in working clothes (and with some occupations you may get quite dirty). You should try anyway. Men are often quite successful in these situations. In fact sometimes the only opportunity you may get with a particular girl may be while working (or just after work). But we still feel that being well dressed and clean is an advantage; and you should strive for it if you have any choice in the matter.

Figuring Out Signs From Women

Trying to Figure Women Out

Some men spend so much time looking and trying to figure out if the girl will give them a smile of encouragement (sometimes even without their making a move themselves) that they are actually staring at the girl. The girl does not like that at all, and gives them a hostile look, which can really scare them off.

Or, a man sees an good looking girl on a number of occasions. He smiles at her each time. She doesn't smile back, but he keeps smiling at her each time, and looking, looking, looking. She thinks, "Who is this creep that keeps leering at me every time I see him. I wish he would stop staring at me. " You should not do any of this. Simply decide you like the look of her, and approach her. Develop the idea of being a doer and not a watcher. While you are holding back, trying to be sure you won't be rejected by waiting for encouragement, you are only annoying her. Better to jump in and say something. The girl will like that a lot better. Shake things up. Something will happen!

There is an interesting experiment you can perform, which will show you some parts of this principle. Select a girl, in a public place, who is quite attractive, but who does not appear to want to be friendly. Let us say that when you look toward her with a slight smile on you face, she turns away looking quite serious. Then approach her with a simple request for help. Ask directions, or some other simple thing. That is all; you do not have to do more than that. Don't worry, you are not trying to pick her up.

Usually, her face will become very animated as she tells you the answer to your question. She will usually act in a much friendlier fashion. The "hands-off" sign will be taken down. No doubt, as you thank her and walk away, she will smile at you. You have shaken things up, a little. You have at least cracked that hard protective shell she placed around herself. You have at least become a person to her, and not a vague threat. It is a good idea to repeat this exercise a few times. It gives you a feel for approaching girls. It is quite educational.

Expecting Too Much on a Date

Never Expect Something Afterward

Men and women are both guilty of this: expecting a little more from a date than just a fun evening. If your only objective on a date is to get sex, you will not get to know the person and you will not be forming a meaningful relationship.

That's fine, but make sure the other person is fully away of the relationship's limitations as well. Another dating tip: The best way to make your date a great one is to go into it with optimism and a smile!

Succeed with Women with Your Imagination

Imagine Success with Women

When was the last time you imagined yourself meeting and seducing a lot more women? If there were no limits to the women you could meet and date what would you be willing to imagine?

My friend, the only limitations there are for your dating life are the limits that are in your mind and thoughts.

If your dating life right now is in the pits why don't you at least start imagining something. Imagine yourself meeting, dating, and seducing the women of your dreams. Take that step of faith today that love and happiness with a woman is coming your way.

See in your mind yourself meeting and dating lots of hot and sexy women. Just take the limits off of your thinking so you can fulfill your desire of finding someone special.

Dating Topless Dancer

Dating Topless Dancers Advice

Stay on your toes! More so when you're dating a topless dancer, because of all the competition and all the guys vying for her affections. Don't be a stupid ass fool and think that just because you are in a relationship with her now you can just relax and stop courting her, take her for granted, romancing her, and being the guy she fell in love with in the beginning.

Excuses Men Make That Hurt Their Dating Life

Making Time for Dating

Hello my friends, let's talk about some excuses we have that prevent us from meeting and scoring with more women:

Please don't let these three words prevent you from meeting lots of women. What are these three words that can really screw up your lovelife? - "I don't have time" is the culprit.

Whatever the circumstances are (busy with your career, education, caring for a parent or children, etc.) do not allow a supposed lack of time to prevent you from enjoying love and romance with women.

Maybe you need to step back and evaluate better ways to organize your time so you can have more time to socialize and meet more women.

And whatever you do, don't fall into the trap of becoming a workaholic and lose your ability to enjoy life. Life is just to short to spend all of your time working. You've got to balance your life with work and pleasure. Trust me, real pleasure in life is being with a woman you're really attracted to that turns you on.

Saving Money at Topless Clubs

Saving Money in Gentleman's Clubs

Tip - When you drink, order a glass of wine. Just sip the wine slowly and it will last for 1-2 hours. Beer gets flat when it sits for a long time and mixed drinks get watered down when the ice melts. So, if you want to save money on your bar bill, just order wine and sip on it.