Let me give you some valuable advice about problem relationships and marriage. If you ever get involved in a incompatible relationship where all you do is fuss and fight, break up several times, and the whole relationship is nothing but one big emotional roller coaster, and you think that if you get married things will get better and you will be able to work things out you're making a big mistake!

Trust me, I know from experience that things will only get worse! When you start living together on a permanent basis all these problems will only get worse. And don't ever think that you can change her ways once you get married. You can't change a person. You have to accept them as they are or just move on.

I don't mean to scare you about the institution of marriage. It's a wonderful experience if you choose the right partner. If you don't, your life can be a living hell. Please please please take marriage very seriously. Don't go into a marriage thinking that if it does not work out, I'll just get a divorce. Divorce leaves emotional scars and if there are children involved, it really makes it difficult.

So, to wrap things up, I just want you to be selective in your choice for a lifetime mate. If you are incompatible and it's a very stormy relationship you may be making a big mistake by marrying her.