Problem: You are going out with a woman who shows you no affection at all, who constantly criticizes you, who shows no interest in the things that are important to you. She permits you to take her to dinner and entertain her, and makes you feel that this is what you owe her for being with her. You are nevertheless overwhelmed and grateful to be near her, and if you could only get her to return your love, it would make your life complete.
Solution: If it is your life's ambition to be abused and exploited, then you have found your soul mate. Otherwise, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit.
Problem: You seem to be stuck in a rut. Your life has settled into a dull routine of loneliness and even the prospect of a close relationship hardly excites you any more. Solution:
1. Try a change of pace.
2. Fill up your free time with activities.
3. Take classes. Join clubs. Do volunteer work.
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4. Devote yourself to a hobby.
5. Start work on your novel.
6. Step out of the role.
7. Be a bit more flexible, and less predictable in your behavior.
8. Deliberately act out of character occasionally.
9. If you are in a permanent state of depression, consider professional counseling.
You have answered a personal ad of the single woman of your dreams. From the description of her ad she seems like a perfect match for you for romance and a possible serious relationship. You write her a letter and anxiously wait to hear back from her. And you wait...and wait...and wait and you never hear from her.
So, you wonder what went wrong? Is she rejecting me? Did I say something in my letter that turned her off? Why won't she write back? Most likely you made some common mistakes that turn single women off or caused them to lose interest in you. Listed here are some things that may have gone wrong so you can take corrective measures on the next personal ad you answer:
1. Your letter was too sexually suggestive. When writing to a woman for the first time, never write anything of a sexual nature. It's a big turn off.
2. All you did was brag about yourself, your accomplishments, and your possessions in your letter.
3. You forgot to give her your phone number in case she may want to call you instead of writing you back. Some single women prefer to do it this way. If you just write back with your address, she may get letters from guys who include their phone number and she will pass you up in favor of calling them. There's another factor to consider. If you won't give out your phone number, she may think that you are married or living with another woman.
4. The letter you sent her looked like it was zeroxed. This is a real big no no.
5. You forgot to send her a stamped reply envelope with your letter. A stamped reply envelope helps to ensure an answer back and it shows the woman that you are very thoughtful. This makes a very good impression on single women.
6. You forgot to mention what is was in her ad that attracted you to write her. Single women love compliments and they want to know why to chose to write her.
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This week I want to focus on a problem for a lot of men that interferes with their chances for finding love romance, and relationships.
A lot of guys fall into the trap of thinking that there's only one girl out there in the whole wide world for them and when they find her it will be the key to their happiness forever. The real truth is that you could be perfectly happy with any number of women that come along in your life at the right time. It's all a matter of both parties being willing to commit to building a relationship built on love,
commitment, compromise, and trust.
Another mistake is to think you can find the perfect girl for you. When I say perfect, I'm saying a girl with no flaws or shortcomings. There has never been a perfect person on earth except God. We all have flaws in our makeup and personalities. We just can't be perfect every day to everyone. At some point we are always going to do something or say something that the opposite sex does not agree with.
If you can accept the fact that no one woman is perfect, you'll have a lot easier time accepting her as she is and not try to change her or criticize her for being the way she is.
1. THEATRE (LIVE) -Most larger towns offer live theatre performances that can be just as good as a Broadway play in New York City. Attending live theatre on a date ranks at the top of the list for things to do on a date in my opinion.
2. THEATRES (MOVIE) -This is probably the most popular thing to do for entertainment. However, I don't recommend it for a first date. You can't really get to know someone while you're watching a movie. May I suggest, on a first date, go to the most romantic restaurant you can find.
3. TOURS -Discover your area by going on any sightseeing tours. You would be surprised to find out that there are a lot of things you have not seen in your area.
4. TRAIN RIDES -If there are any scenic train rides available in your area, this would be a great idea for a date. Here in Houston we have a train that goes on a scenic tour to Galveston.
5. VIDEO DATE -Why not visit your local video store and rent some movies. This makes a great date and don't forget the popcorn! You may not be aware of it, but some libraries offer free movie rentals. Also, may I recommend renting, "Body Heat" to get her in a hot mood.
This week I want to focus on a problem for a lot of men that interferes with their chances for finding love romance, and relationships.
A lot of guys fall into the trap of thinking that there's only one girl out there in the whole wide world for them and when they find her it will be the key to their happiness forever. The real truth is that you could be perfectly happy with any number of women that come along in your life at the right time.
It's all a matter of both parties being willing to commit to building a relationship built on love, commitment, compromise, and trust.
Another mistake is to think you can find the perfect girl for you. When I say perfect, I'm saying a girl with no flaws or shortcomings. There has never been a perfect person on earth except God. We all have flaws in our makeup and personalities. We just can't be perfect every day to everyone. At some point we are always going to do something or say something that the opposite sex does not agree with.
If you can accept the fact that no one woman is perfect, you'll have a lot easier time accepting her as she is and not try to change her or criticize her for being the way she is.
Trust me, you will go through some storms in your relationships. It's all part of playing the dating game. The main thing is to not let it get you down.
You need to be like the palm tree during storms and hurricanes. Let me explain why:
Have you ever watched a palm tree in a storm or hurricane? They will bend so hard they almost touch the ground. Then when the wind subsides they bounce right up.
You need to be just like that palm tree after you go through some dating storms. You need to bounce right back up and be stronger than ever.
Make yourself comfortable. Put on some of your favorite music in the background. Soft music, music with a romantic undertone, as you prefer. Dim the lights (but not so low that you are unable to read your project book, wall chart, or index cards). Have a glass of water within reach. Take a deep breath and punch those numbers.
"Hello, I'm John Smith. No, I'm not peddling insurance, just my own sweet self. I'm the fellow who asked you for your phone number last night at the art gallery. Time to let her talk. Keep enough presence of mind to make the appropriate noises and grunts at the right times to let her know you're still there. Laugh at her funnies. Encourage her. Administer verbal strokes and smiles, as necessary.
Speak in your natural voice... you need not strain. Take care not to dwell overly much on yourself. I, I, I, I... talking about I and me constantly is boring, boring. Ask her about herself, question her *gently*. Let her talk. Listen. Listen. Respond. Pepper the conversation with humor, genuine good humor. Humor is the saving grace of human discourse.
There is an abundance, a veritable universe to talk about, to share:
1. Tell her about the time you almost skidded off the overpass because you were trying to juggle a soft drink and a baloney sandwich.
2. Share your most embarrassing moments growing up.
3. Explain why the sky gets dark at night (Olber's Paradox).
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4. Discuss the implications of not helping the refugees of Kosovo.
5. Discuss whether cats make better pets than dogs, or vice versa.
6. Give her your favorite exotic scrambled egg recipe.
7. Play her a song from your favorite album.
Avoid like the plague politics, religion, and conspiracy theories. There will be plenty of time to argue about these later in the relationship. Iffy topics include demonic possession and the occult, UFO's, and the weather. Subject that tend to arouse strong negative feelings or conversely, that evoke no feelings at all, are best left alone.
When the conversation starts to wind down, when you both run out of things to say - this is a signal to sign off. Tell her how much you enjoyed speaking with her, that her company, even at a distance, has enlivened your evening. Ask her, gently, if she would care to repeat the experience (assuming it has not been too painful for either of you). Hang the phone up and have a cold beer or glass of wine to celebrate.
If emotional blocks to meeting single women are too strong for self-help, don't be afraid to try psychotherapy or tranquilizers! Also, if you are suffering from depression, seek help from your doctor who can prescribe you some really good antidepressant drugs to help you fight and overcome feelings of depression.
Some of you single men who read our dating tips archive may be so shy, inhibited, and psychologically blocked that you will be unable to truly profit from the advice contained in our archive or our books, CD's, DVD's, cassettes, and videos on meeting, attracting, dating, and seducing single women. I beseech you not to come to any such conclusion until you until you have first made a strong, persistent effort to practice the methods and techniques in our dating tips and advice in our products. Remember that the overwhelming majority of single men who read our tips, books, listen to our tapes, and watch our videos will be able to use this advice effectively to meet, date, attract, and seduce single women without outside professional help.
But if you have powerful blocks, can not bear to start a conversation with a woman, or face the company of a date, no matter how hard you try, then you probably need psychotherapeutic help.
Get in touch with the nearest mental hygiene clinic, or ask your family physician to recommend a good psychiatrist or psychologist. Your physician may also prescribe one of the many, very effective tranquilizers, not as a cure-all but to help reduce your anxiety, embarrassment and fear sufficiently for you to begin going out, meeting single women, talking to them, and developing promising relationships.
Here are some more great pick up lines:
“Excuse me, do you have a moment?”
“Do you know what the weather report is for this weekend cause I’m going to the beach. Would you like to come along?”
“I know you, I dreamed about you last night.”
“Didn’t I used to pull your ponytail way back in grammar school?”
“I seem to have lost my phone number. Do you mind if I borrow yours?”
Let me give you some great tips that will help you score a lot of points with women. When a woman invites you over to cook you dinner, be sure to:
1. Ask her if you need to bring something like wine, bread, covered dish, beverages, champagne, desert, etc. This is a very thoughtful gesture on your part.
2. Offer to set the table.
3. Before you sit down to eat, pull out her chair for her and give her a soft and gentle kiss on the cheek and say thank you for the dinner.
4. After you have finished eating offer to help her clean up, put the food away, and clean the dishes.
And don't worry about coming across as a sissy for doing this. Forget about being a macho man. Doing these things are going to make a very favorable impression on her..and that's the whole ball game here..to score points and don't worry about your masculinity.
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PISCES (February 19 - March 20) - If you want a loving, devoted, affectionate, sympathetic woman to cater to you're every need, this is the woman for you.
This woman need lots of affection and attention. The more romance you can give her the better! She's got lots of love to give in return. She's very emotional and moody, so you will have to help keep her balanced emotionally.
Here's an easy way meet and entertain single women and it's great to use on women you have just met or approached:
You will need a small box of crayons (you can find these in drug stores, supermarkets, toy stores, etc.) that contain only 8 colors. When you first meet a single woman you are attracted to, simply ask her, "Can I show you a magic trick?" She will ask, "What is it?"
Hand her the closed box of crayons and tell her to select a crayon when you turn your back towards her. With your back turned towards her and your hands behind your back, tell her to put the crayon in your hand. Now turn around and face her with your hands still behind your back.
Now, tell her to think of the color of the crayon. As she's thinking of the color, scrape the crayon with your right thumbnail. Then tell her you need to touch her head to "read her thoughts." Now, simply look at your right thumbnail discreetly to see the color of the crayon. Now, tell her the color of the crayon she picked.
I guarantee you that she will be amazed. Now, you've opened the door to get better acquainted that can lead to intimacy and seduction. I used this method successfully to meet and attract tons of beautiful and sexy single women in bars and nightclubs. You can use them on single women everywhere and anywhere. It works to really capture their attention!
After you have attracted her, then you can ask her for a date.
Listen up guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to keep your car clean.
Single women will judge you on how well your car looks on the inside and out. If your car is messy, dirty, and smells bad, it's going to make a bad impression on women. And...guess what happens when you make a bad impression? She will be less likely to be attracted to you and when this happens, my friend, it can severely decrease your chance to score with her.
For you guys that use your car for your occupation, I know you're going to have files, papers, brochures, sales aids, etc. scattered throughout your car. The best thing to do to correct this messy problem is to go out and buy some plastic baskets, containers, and organizers and organize all your things neatly and if at all possible carry them in your trunk, out of site.
There's another negative aspect of having a messy car. This is going to send a message to women that you are a slob and a disorganized person. Plus, she may think that you don't even think that she's important enough to you to make a good impression on her. And trust me, this makes her not want to date you again.
Be sure and follow these guidelines for a car that makes a favorable impression on single women before picking her up for a date:
1. Wash your car or run it through a car wash.
2. Vacuum the inside and wipe the dashboard and all exposed areas.
3. Spray your car with air-freshener (this is really critical if you smoke).
4. Always keep a fresh air-freshener hanging in your car (you can buy them at auto parts stores).
5. Be sure and empty your ash tray.
6. Have a wide variety of tapes or CD's to play (be sure and ask her what she'd like to hear).
7. Make sure your car is in good running condition. Nothing is more embarrassing than your car breaking down while on a date.
8. Make sure your glove compartment is clean, neat, and organized and be sure and not store your condoms here.
9. Remove the big fuzzy dice hanging from your rear view mirror (this is really tacky).
10. Keep a hairbrush and comb in your glove compartment to comb your hair before picking her up at the door or meeting her somewhere. You want to look your best and not show up with your hair all out of place.
Ok, guys, now promise me you will now go out to your car and look it over to see what you need to improve it to attract single women and make a good impression on them.
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