A very important time for making beneficial changes in your love life and relationships with single women is coming up. And it will be a golden opportunity to turn your love life around.
What is this special time? It's the upcoming New Year 2011. This is the perfect time to make resolutions for the New Year to make changes and make commitments to meeting, dating, and seducing more single women.
As the New Year approaches, reflect upon the changes you would like to make. Here are some suggestions:
1. Take a long hard look in your closet. Is it full of old and out of style clothes and faded and worn out pants and shirts? Well, make a commitment to buy some new, up-to-date, and stylish clothes. Don't know what to buy? Just go to your better department stores and ask your sales clerks (preferably a female) to help you pick out some clothes. Tell them you want some stylish clothes that would look good on you and clothes that single women would be attracted to.
2. Maybe it's time to try a new hairstyle. Find the best hair boutique in town you can find. Make an appointment with their very best hair stylist and don't be be concerned about how much they charge, because this is an investment in your looks, which will help you attract single women.
Tell her you want a new look and ask for her opinion. While you're waiting for your appointment, you can look through their hairstyle magazines for some ideas. If she's a top-notch hair stylist, she will be able to pick out a hairstyle, which will make you look your best.
3. Are you driving an old clunker for transportation? Or even worse, a station wagon or an old folk's car such as a Buick or Oldsmobile? Maybe it's time for a new or slightly used sports car. Something that will attract single women. I just can't begin to tell you how much I improved my love and sex life when I bought a Corvette and got rid of my old Dodge Colt. Another good choice would be a luxury car such as
a Lexus, if you could afford it.
4. And last and most important is to make a commitment to get off your ass and start meeting some new single women instead of just staying cooped up at home whining and bitching about how lonely and horny you are and how there are no single women around to meet. You've got to take action to turn your love life around - Always remember that single women, as a general rule, are very passive. You're the one who has to make the first move. You've got to take the initiative to meet them!
Let me tell you about a golden opportunity that comes up quite often for meeting and making a good impression on single women.
Whenever you see a single woman about to light up her cigarette, offer to light it for her. And whatever you do, don't use a match or one of those cheap lighters you bought at the convenience store.
Buy the nicest and most elegant-looking cigarette you can afford. You can find some really impressive and attractive cigarette lighters at:
1. Your better department stores in the watch section.
2. Cigar and tobacco stores.
3. Luggage stores.
4. Jewelry stores.
Why am I stressing to you to buy an upscale cigarette lighter? Because when she sees it, it will make a good impression on her. She will think you are a man with class. And, succeeding with women is all about making good impressions, even with trivial little things like a cigarette lighter.
And don't forget - if you're giving a girl, who is a stranger, a light, be sure and introduce yourself and ask her if you can join her for some conversation. Whatever you do, don't just walk away!
Always light a girl's cigarette for her if you're on a date. This shows her respect and it's good manners that will leave a lasting impression on her. Single women love a guy who has good manners and who is a gentleman.
P.S. I would recommend buying the gold-plated lighters to make the best impression.
Here's some more great tips to do better with single women:
Tip #1 - Seeing a single girl that you have just started dating, more than once a week is pushing it. Any more than once, and you may be appearing overly anxious. Even if she is the one calling you and initiating the effort to see you more often, don't. If she is calling you, then you are in the driver's seat. Play hard to get and make her work for your time. She'll appreciate you more when she has it. And don't feel guilty about turning her down. Simply say, "I'd love to but I'm busy tonight." No more explanation should be given. Let her sweat it out. It is important that when you turn her down, you express the fact that you definitely want to do things with her, but you are just too busy with prior obligations to see her that night.
Tip #2 - Never hang on the phone for hours as if you have nothing better to do. Call, be pleasant, get the purpose of the call over, and excuse yourself.
Tip #3 - Flowers and small gifts, candlelight dinners, and romantic notes and cards are all great touches. Small in the time and money it takes, but large in their effect. It is important that all of these are out-of-the-blue and a surprise to her. For Example: Sneak over to her house and leave flowers and a note at her door. Again, use these romantic touches, but do so sparingly so that you don't come on too strong.
Tip #4 - Use imagination for your meetings - not just the same old date. Go for walks in the rain. Have picnics in the park. Go to showings of old classic movies, etc. Above all, do anything that is romantic.
For those of you that celibrate Christmas, I wanted to wish you a belated Merry Chritmas. I hope you enjoyed your time with family and friends.
This week let's talk about finding the right woman for you.
Do you have a strategy for finding the right woman for you? Or, are you just settling for any woman that comes along?
There's a lot of competition out there for what I call, "The Cream of the Crop" women. These are women who have it all: Good looks, brains, romantic, affectionate, good-hearted, good communicator, ambitious, caring, etc.
The woman I just described, you'd probably die for. Can you find her? Yes, you can. Will it be easy? No, it won't but it will be worth the effort when you do.
And to find this woman of your dreams, you need to have a plan. Don't chance it to fate. The winners in the game of love and romance know the rules of the game and have a plan.
Do you have a plan? Are you just sitting around complaining about how you don't have someone special in your life? Well, it's time to get off your dead ass and do something about it!
YOU CAN NOT LEARN MERELY BY READING, YOU MUST GO OUT AND PRACTICE THIS: If you see a single woman on the street, looking in the window of a store, waiting for a bus, sitting on a train, in the next aisle of a movie, shopping in a department store, and for any reason this woman appeals to you, strike up a conversation, start talking to her about anything that comes to mind.
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MAKE YOURSELF SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS. Try to feel and understand just what makes her "tick." Try, occasionally, to put yourself in her shoes mentally and empathize with her attitudes and view of life. As you sense unfulfilled needs on her part, really try to satisfy them. Does she want tenderness? Companionship? Boldness? Does she urgently want to get married and will an early subtle indication of serious intentions create the best impression?
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1. If you are eating soup, please do not slurp your soup. This is bad manners and will turn off your date.
2. If you do talk on your cell phone (which is rude when on a date) do not talk loud. This will annoy your date and the other patrons in the restaurant.
3. Do not talk with your mouth full. This is gross and who wants to look at someone's food in their mouth.
4. Do not flirt with your waitress. This could make your date never want a second date with you.
5. If you bring a kid or kids with you on a date, do not let them run wild in the restaurant. This will disturb others and prevent them from enjoying their meal.
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So, what is the technique and how can I use it to get my fair share of all those hot & sexy beautiful single women of my dreams?
The technique is called, "The Guitar Technique." Women just love a guy who can play the guitar and if you can sing too, all the better.
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This week I just had to share with you an article from the Ann Landers column. It's a very insightful article about life and how you should live it.
The article is called, "The Station" and was written by the late Robert J. Hastings:
Tucked away in our subconscious is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves on a long trip that spans the continent. We are traveling by train. Out the windows we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a hillside, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of row upon row of corn and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains and rolling
hillsides, of city skylines and village halls.
But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a certain day, at a certain hour, we will pull into the station. Bands will be playing and flags waving. Once we get there, so many wonderful dreams will come true and the pieces of our lives will fit together like a completed jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for loitering - waiting, waiting, waiting for the station.
"When we reach the station, that will be it!" we cry. "When I'm 18." "When I buy a new 45o SL Mercedes Benz!" "When I put the last kid through college." When I have paid off the mortgage!" "When I get a promotion." "When I reach the age of retirement, I shall live happily ever after!"
Sooner or later we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.
"Relish the moment" is a good motto, especially when coupled with Psalm 118:24 "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." It isn't the burdens of today that drive men mad. It is the regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.
So stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, go barefoot more often, swim more rivers, watch more sunsets, laugh more, and cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station will come soon enough.
Here are my experiences with long-distance relationships and why I prefer not to get involved in them:
1. Sooner or later, it's going to occur to the girls that she is missing out on a social life because of a spoken or implied commitment to you. She will subconsciously begin to resent you and trouble will follow.
2. You are probably passing up opportunities for involvement with other single women.
3. You are spending a fortune on phone bills and travel.
This invariably breeds aggravation, frustration, suspicion, anxiety and trouble. All this for a romance with less than favorable odds?
If you do become involved in a long-distance relationship with single women, then follow this advice:en
1. Don't forget. Your fidelity does not insure hers. Continue to pursue your social life and sex life. See other single women. Make yourself available.
2. The more intensity there is in the long-distance romance, the higher the likelihood it will burn out. Keep it casual and friendly. Friendships by mail can last a long time and who knows? Someday, circumstances may bring you together. It never hurts to keep your irons in the fire.
3. If necessary, pay her way to visit you. Never travel to where she lives. If you go to where she lives, you lose the home-court advantage. You are in unfamiliar territory around people you don't know, and you are being judged by her family and friends. It is a difficult situation to be in when you're trying to present your best side.
1. If you are eating soup, please do not slurp your soup. This is bad manners and will turn off your date.
2. If you do talk on your cell phone (which is rude when on a date) do not talk loud. This will annoy your date and the other patrons in the restaurant.
3. Do not talk with your mouth full. This is gross and who wants to look at someone's food in their mouth.
4. Do not flirt with your waitress. This could make your date never want a second date with you.
5. If you bring a kid or kids with you on a date, do not let them run wild in the restaurant. This will disturb others and prevent them from enjoying their meal.
Try these opening lines guys:
“I’m writing a book on opening lines. Which ones would work on you?”
“You look like someone I would like to start a conversation with.”
“Excuse me, do you have a moment?”
“Do you know what the weather report is for this weekend cause I’m going to the beach. Would you like to come along?”
“I know you, I dreamed about you last night.”
