The best way to flirt is to look at her long enough to make it clear that you acknowledge her presence and then immediately look away. This sends her the message, "I know you are there and I would not dream of invading your privacy. The key to success in flirting with topless dancers is to keep looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange warm smiles.

Some guys go to topless clubs and don't even flirt with the dancers. If they meet a dancer they stare into space, look down, and don't even hardly look at the dancer in the eyes. If you're like this, make it a point to start flirting with every dancer in sight. It's a good way to attract and meet topless dancers.