One of the cardinal rules in your
search for the well-to-do woman is to forget the bars. The person
you're looking for isn't wasting time in them. You have to go where
the rich and soon to be rich spend their time. If you like boating
and water, many yacht clubs allow people to join on social status
who don't even own boats. What better way to meet a well-to-do woman
than to be a member of this club and be present at the various
social functions the club provides. This allows you to mingle with a
lot of people of means without having a large cash outlay
yourself.
If you're a horse lover, find an
exclusive stable or riding club and join up. This doesn't mean you
have to have a horse of your own to learn to ride.
If you can afford the membership
dues in a country club or if you can afford to borrow the money to
join up, do so. If you are an aspiring golfer, most areas have
places you can even rent the clubs. On public courses without restrictions, make sure
you're playing during the middle of the week whenever possible.
It's a common joke your doctors and lawyers are on the course during
this time. Usually they play the country clubs but they have been
known to play on public courses. The private clubs often have
"men only" during certain hours. Find out if this
includes the club house as well. If the restriction lifts at four
or five in the afternoon, make it your business to be there.
Better supermarkets are excellent
meeting places for the upwardly mobile, as are better department
stores. You can be working there or shopping there, just as
long as these eligible women see you. Some of the really large
stores such as Bloomies in New York have entire departments devoted
to party needs such as wine, cheese, crackers or hors
d'oeuvres, etc. Want to meet a nice on-the-way up type of woman,
she's here buying for a fun party. It's a sure bet if you're
looking around this type of party center,
conversation will
develop if you let it or even better, start it.
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