Self Esteem

You should be convinced that you really are an interesting person. There is an old sales axiom: You must believe in what you are selling. You must believe you can be attractive to a girl. Then you can go about convincing her. Don't think of yourself as a nobody. If you think that way, it will show, and the girl will think you are a nobody also.

Inexperienced men attempting to pick upgirls are their own harshest critics. They tend to downgrade their own efforts. They usually think they are doing much worse than they actually are. If you can realize that you are probably making a much better impression than you had thought, your confidence will be greatly improved. So think positively about your efforts; you will be closer to the truth, and a lot more confident.