Probably
the biggest mistake that men make in understanding women is
underestimating just how important sex is to women. It is easy to
see, however, how men would fail to recognize sex as being a major
motivation to women. It has always been socially acceptable for men
to desire sex, and even to be open to others about their desires. A
woman who lusted for sex as considered a whore or slut. Women were
even afraid to admit to themselves that they had desires because of
feelings of guilt that society heaped upon them.
Thus,
the female sexual desire is not something that has been talked about
openly, and for this reason men have been lulled into thinking that
since it is not talked about much, it must not be a very strong
motive in women.
The
fact of the matter is that female sexual desire does exist. And, it
exists in women every bit as strongly as it exists in men. We will go
so far as to say that the real, unspoken motive behind the women's
movement was sexual freedom. Not freedom to have sex necessarily, but
that it is okay for women to admit that they enjoy it, and want it,
and have it with more than one man if they want. The women's movement
was saying, "Hey, we enjoy sex just as much as men do, and that
shouldn't be a sin. We are tired of the double standard."
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