The
word "relationship" encompasses everything from a marriage
to a junior high steady. Even if we were able to narrow our scope to
one type of relationship, the myriad of people, personalities and
situations would make it impossible for us to write a fool proof
formula on "maintaining a relationship." What we have done
is compiled a list of hints and advice to help you keep a
relationship strong, and we start the list with the most important
hint of all: "Stay on your toes. Complacency has killed more
relationships than any other sin."
Don't
forget, she has fallen for you, but also she has fallen for an image
she has of you. This image of you may have been formed because you
were putting your best foot forward, or it may even be thru no fault
of your own. It's common for people to want to see their partner in
as good a light as possible in the early stages of a relationship,
preferring to dwell on that person's attributes and ignore their
shortcomings. In other words, she may have been hoping for Prince
Charming, and you happened to walk into the room. Regardless of how
she formed her image of you, she has one. And at the early stages
of a relationship it is probably good. It now is your job to make
sure that you maintain a good image in her eyes. We are certainly not
advocating that you base a relationship on a facade. What we are
saying is that you have to be infinitely aware of how a woman sees
you, and what it is about you that have attracted her. Most
importantly, as time goes on you must make sure that she does not
become disenchanted because you have failed to present your best
side.
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