The following is a guide to use in overcoming your shyness at nightclubs. Follow these steps and you can overcome your shyness and start meeting women instead of standing on the sidelines watching other men meet women at nightclubs.

1. One the biggest roadblocks to a shy man meeting women is fear. Fear that he will be rejected, fear that he won't know what to say, and fear that he won't know how to act.

Believe me, there is nothing to fear but fear itself. Fear and anxiety will produce distinct psychological consequences and if there's anything that's going to hinder your success in meeting women, it is going to be fear.

The fear of being rejected by a woman can paralyze your attempts to meet women. Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected some of the time. Just because you get rejected by a woman it does not make you worthless. There can be many different reasons why a woman may not be interested in you at a given moment. Most of these reasons have little or nothing to do with you as a person. Being rejected by a woman is just a risk you will have to take and if you do get rejected by a woman, it's certainly not the end of the world.