How to Get More Love and Romance

This week I want to focus on your own personal methods of meeting and attracting single women for love and romance.

I know it's a jungle out there in the dating world and at times you just feel like giving up on the dating game. Sometimes your fear of failure holds you back and you don't do a damn thing to improve your love life.

If you're in a dating rut, let me suggest some ways to get you back on track and get the love and romance in your life that you deserve:

1. The most important thing you can do is to force yourself to take action and follow through on meeting and approaching women.

2. It's very important to monitor your results and progress. Keep track of what methods you are using to meet new women and notice if they are working or not. I would suggest keeping a journal and put it in writing.

3. Whatever you do, don't feel sorry for yourself if what you're doing is not working. Don't give up hope and drop out of the dating game.

4. My last suggestion is the most important of all. If what you're doing to meet single women and find romance is not working, try something else. And if that doesn't work, Don, what do I do? Try something else! You just keep trying until you finally succeed. And trust me guys, if you're persistent and take action, backed with faith and belief, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams. Guaranteed!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Places to Meet Single Women

This week I would like to pass along some tips on meeting single women from some of our subscribers from the Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter:

First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single (<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet single women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning Spas - Women are their biggest clienteles, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

The Local Theater or Youth Theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to.

The Youth Theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

I'm DJ and I discovered that the best place to meet single women is the big bookstores with coffee shops. Like Barnes and Nobles or Books-a-Million. You can casually look around and pick out good-looking women. about 80% of the time, women go to bookstores alone! Their minds are open to creative things. Women respond very well to strangers coming up to them and starting casual conversation. Anything from, are you interested in that subject too, to, I think your really cute, want to go out for coffee some time? I'm running a 90% success rate at getting numbers from women at bookstores. That is a lot better than the grocery store, the club, or a shopping mall. Which I average about 60%

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great System for Meeting Single Women

This week I would like to share my secrets on taking action to approach single women that you are interested in meeting and getting to know on an intimate basis.

I'm sure this has probably happened to you. You see a gorgeous woman that you'd give anything to meet and get to know. All you've got to do is approach her and introduce yourself. But, something holds you back. You procrastinate and put it off. Then, before you know it, she disappears and you've lost your opportunity to meet her because you didn't act fast enough.

There's a good solution to this problem of not taking action if you will do what I did to overcome procrastination when it came to approaching single women immediately that I was attracted to. Follow these steps and you will be much more successful with women:

The secret to getting things done is taking action. And you need to take action immediately when you see an opportunity to meet women that you are attracted to. You must not stall, ponder, and worry about if she will accept your advances. You've got to approach her then and there or you may have lost a golden opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true.

And to motivate yourself to take action you need to ingrain in your subconscious mind these three words, DO IT NOW! You need to program your subconscious mind to react to these words that you repeat to yourself which will direct your conscious mind to take action to meet women.

Repeat in your mind, DO IT NOW! And then follow up by approaching women immediately! With practice, you will develop the habit of approaching women right on the spot without hesitation. But, I must warn you that you've got to back up these words when you say, DO IT NOW! You've got to do it! If you don't, these words will be meaningless.

Trust me guys, this system works. Memorize these words, DO IT NOW! They can do wonders for your love life. Once you train you mind to approach women immediately after saying to yourself, DO IT NOW!, meeting single women will be so much easier.

It will become automatic. No more mulling over and over in your mind if you should approach that hot & sexy beautiful woman that you are attracted to. You just take action and do it after you say to yourself, DO IT NOW!

In closing, I would highly recommend that you write in big bold letters on the back of a business card, DO IT NOW! Put these cards where you will see them daily. Put one on your desk, tape one to your bathroom mirror, put one on your nightstand, tape one to your car visor or middle of your steering wheel, etc.

By seeing these three words constantly you can connect them in your mind to taking immediate action to approach and meet single women. Also, I recommend that when you see these three words that you visualize yourself approaching and meeting women.

Ok, the rest if up to you. I've given you a great system to get you up off your ass to take action to approach and meet single women. Try this system and I'd love to hear about your success stories after using the DO IT NOW! System.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

17 Great Places to Take a Date

This week I want to pass along to you some unique dating ideas to make a great impression on women:

1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.

5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a dancer over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

7. DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

9. HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.

10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.

11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

12. ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Make a Good Impression on Single Women

Here's a tip that will help you to make a good impression on single women that you are dating:

A lot of women take pride in decorating and furnishing their apartment or home. Just the opposite of a lot of single men. A lot of single men's apartments and houses are simple and plainly furnished with not many decorations such as pictures, plants, vases, nice wallpaper, elegant furniture, flowers, silk plants, curtains, etc.

The point I'm trying to make here is that the things that she has in her apartment or house are very important to her. By knowing this, you can use this to your advantage. Let me explain how:

As soon as you step into her apartment or house, look around for something to compliment her on such as:

• "I really love this picture - you really have good artistic taste."
• "I really love your couch - it really blends in well with the rest of your furnishings."
• "Your apartment really looks nice. Are you an interior decorator?"
• "Where did you get those lovely plants? They really brighten up the place."
• "Did you pick out those curtains - they really look nice."

She will really appreciate your compliments directed towards the things that are near and dear to her in her environment.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Understand Single Women

Do you sometimes have a hard time understanding single women? How they act and how they think? Does it sometimes seem like they are from another planet?

Well, let me give you some advice to help you out in understanding single women and people in general.

The first mistake you're making is expecting her to think like you and be like you. You expect her to see the world as you do. This is a big mistake! She will never be like you or think like you. She will not be a clone of you.

We are all unique individuals and not alike. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all-alike and thought alike. We all have different opinions of things and see the world differently based upon our upbringing, experiences, knowledge, etc.

And don't make the mistake of trying to change a woman that you are dating into someone like yourself. Sorry, it just won't happen. Accept her unconditionally with her faults and all.

People are resistant to change and if you're constantly trying to change her, you are just going to end up alienating her.

So in closing, remember this: Any woman you meet will not exactly think like you and be like you. If you can accept this statement it will go a long way in helping you to understand women and people in general.

P.S. I'm sure that you've heard the old saying that opposites attract. Well, I don't agree with this. If you don't have a lot in common, I think that this hurts a relationship. You need to share common interests and if you disagree on everything, all this does is create friction and is detrimental to creating a loving, harmonious, and long term relationship.

If you have ever been in a relationship in which you have nothing in common, I sure you can relate to this. All you do is fight and disagree all the time. It's just not worth it and this sure is no way to be happy. Don't you agree? Things go so much smoother when you are compatible.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How Watching Sports can Ruin Your Dating Life

This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"

Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports Potato" is a guy who spends all of his time watching sports on TV. He literally spends his whole weekend watching sports on TV.

So what does this have to do with succeeding with women? A whole lot and I'll explain why:

Let's face it guys, most single women are not obsessed with sports and they don't spend their weekends on the couch watching sports on TV.

When you first start dating she might not mind or rather I should say, put up with you wanting to spend all your time watching sports. But, eventually and sooner than you think, she's going to get pissed at you wanting to spend all your time watching sports instead of spending quality time with her.

This conflict of interest could even cause her to dump you and find someone else who can fulfill her needs that you are neglecting.

So, what's the solution if you refuse to change your habits? Try to find a woman who is just as obsessed with sports as you are? (Good luck on this one).

Or, the smart thing to do is to cut back on watching sports and spend more time taking her places and spending quality time with her. I'm not suggesting that you give up your interest in sports. Just balance your time to include her. That's all.

There's another drawback for men when they are watching sports on TV that turns women off. Men don't want to be bothered when they are watching sports and if a woman tries to talk to them, they don't listen very well or not at all. And this upsets women when you ignore them and don't listen to them.

What would be ideal is to be dating a woman who is understanding and accepts the fact that some men are obsessed with sports. After all it's no different in women being obsessed with watching soap operas. If you try to talk to them while they are trying to watch their soap opera, they won't be listening to you while you're trying to talk to them and they really don't want to be bothered.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Technique to Turn Single Women Off

This week let's talk about what I call the "smothering technique" to turn women off and drive them away from you.

This is how I describe this technique: After first meeting a girl, you call her all the time, sometimes twice or more a day at her work and at home. And when you can't reach her, you get all upset.

You keep thinking to yourself, where in the hell is she? Is she seeing someone else, is she trying to avoid me, has she lost interest in me, etc. You just keep worrying and worrying. When you do get in touch with her you ask her, "Where have you been, I've been trying to get in touch with you!"

And you keep repeating this pattern of calling her all the time to where it reaches the point where you become a pest. She is totally turned off and needs her space and all you are doing is driving her further away from you.

Please, guys don't do this! It's only going to backfire when you try to smother her. How often should you call? Just call her every other day will be just fine and don't linger on the phone for hours as if you had nothing better to do with your life and your whole world revolves around her. Just keep it brief and say what you have to say.

By not calling so often this will make her think about you. She will be wondering what you're doing and she might even wonder why you haven't called and that's good because it gets her to thinking about you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How Not to Talk to Single Women

This week I would like to focus on a couple of deadly conversation sins that will cause you to strike out with women. You must never commit these deadly sins:

SIN #1 - Bragging about yourself and your accomplishments. There's no faster way of driving single women away from you than by constantly talking about yourself and your own great accomplishments.

Forget about yourself. The whole art of conversation with a woman is to become interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you. Remember that most people are interested in themselves morning, noon, and night. Never forget this fact. After all, why should a woman be interested in you unless you are interested in her first? Just put your ego aside and concentrate solely on her and her interests.

SIN #2 - Talking too vulgar and crudely. In the beginning, when you meet a woman and you start talking sexual and making vulgar remarks, you are going to turn her off and you will get nowhere with her.

Don't tell her things like, "You sure have a great set of tits." or "I'd love to lick your pussy." This is showing her lack of respect and she won't appreciate it. They want to be treated like a lady and not some whore.

Another mistake is propositioning her for sex in a crude manner with statements like, "Let's go f--k," or "I sure would like to f--k you." Treat her like a lady and don't act like a horny dog with uncontrollable hormones. You'll make a lot better impression on her by keeping cool and calm and non-sexual and non-threatening. You will stand out favorably from the other guys she's used to being around that act like animals.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great Date Idea Involving Golf

Do any of you guys play golf? If you, do have you ever considered taking a date to a golf driving range to hit a few balls?

Most single women don't play golf, but most would be willing to give it a try with a little coaxing.

The reason I'm writing about a golf date has a special meaning and advantage for you. Being that most likely your date does not know how to play golf, you will be able to be her teacher!

What's great about this is that there will be a lot of physical contact while teaching her to hit the ball. You will have your arms around her from behind showing her how to grip and swing the club. This can be a very erotic experience for you if you know what I mean! I don't know about you, but I just love the feeling of my crotch up against a woman's butt, even with clothes on.

If you don't have your own set of golf clubs, that's no problem. A lot of driving ranges and golf courses with driving ranges has clubs available for rent.

So in closing guys, consider going on a date to the driving range. It's a lot of fun!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

The Power of Positive Thinking to Get Single Women

Why do some men succeed with single women while others fail time and time again? You should know the answer by now. What's the major difference between the man with all the beautiful girls and the guy with none? What's the difference? The way the man thinks! That's the difference.

Start Thinking Right and You'll Succeed with Women Beyond Your Wildest Dreams

The man who is successful with women thinks in terms of 100% success at all times. While the guy who fails with women thinks in terms of failure most of the time.

Perhaps, in your case, you've been having a hard time meeting, dating or seducing girls (or all three) because you subconsciously expect to have a hard time! When you try to meet a girl, you fail. Why? Because you subconsciously expect to fail. When you ask a girl for a date, you get turned down. Why? Because you subconsciously expect to get turned down. And it's the same story all the way into the bedroom.

Women easily sense this lack of confidence in you and react accordingly. Actually, you are beaten before you even start!

So, guys it's time to change your attitude. Think positive and expect to succeed with every woman you meet or approach. It will make a world of difference in your love life.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Action Strategies for Meeting Single Women

This week I want to focus on opportunities to meet new single women. If you will just open your eyes, you will see numerous opportunities to pursue women. Here are a few tips to help you take advantage of those precious opportunities: 1. Will every opportunity to meet single women be successful? No, but when you develop the attitude of refusing to allow temporary setbacks to defeat you, you have what it takes to successfully meet and attract women. Persistence always prevails in the end when it comes to scoring with women. 2. Never, never wait for something to happen to help you meet women - You make it happen! You take action! Always be prepared to take action when you see an opportunity to meet girls. You will be amazed at how your luck will change when you have this mindset. 3. Success with women always involves risks. You must take that chance in approaching women. Doesn't let shyness or fear of rejection holds you back. Go for it! You can do it! You must actively seek opportunities to make a love connection! 4. This last tip is the most important one of all: You've got to be prepared to act as soon as you recognize opportunities to meet single women. Don't put it off. Approach all those hot and sexy honeys as soon as the opportunity presents itself. In closing, I know this has probably happened to you. You see this gorgeous babe you'd love to get to know better, but you can't get up your nerve to approach her. Then she disappears and you could kick yourself in the ass for not having the balls to approach her. Well, don't let this happen again. Make a personal commitment that from now on when you see a woman that you'd love to meet, you will take action and meet her. No more procrastination! P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com Share2 Gemini Publishing Co., PO Box 57931, Webster, TX 77598Phone: (281) 741-4424...Fax (281) 316-1024...Email: Click Here Copyright © 2004 by Gemini Publishing Company

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Advice for Men on Pursuing Single Women

What is it? It's called the, "I Love You Too Soon Method."

Let me explain how this failure with women tactic will drive women away from you. In the beginning you start calling them names like, sweetheart, darling, or honey. (Don't call any woman these names in the beginning of dating someone - they are reserved for when you have established a relationship. Women don't like to be called these names by someone they don't know yet).

Then after only 2-3 dates you tell the girl that you love her. Trust me guys, love takes time to develop. It just doesn't happen after only 2-3 dates. What you've really fallen in is lust, especially if she is pretty and or has a beautiful body.

Also, women are more cautious in affairs of the heart. They want to take time to get to know you before committing to an exclusive relationship. So, when you profess your love for them so prematurely, they just want to run. They feel like you are putting too much pressure on them so early in the relationship. Coming on too strong early in a relationship is too overwhelming for her and she is going to want to dump you.

Some good advice is to take things slow and let love develop on it's own pace and time table. Don't rush her or it will backfire by scaring her away.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attitudes That Prevent You From Meeting Single Women

This week I would like to focus on bad attitudes when going to bars and nightclubs to pick up single women. I know there are a lot of guys out there that hate going to bars and nightclubs. I leave home with a bad attitude and when they get to the bar or nightclub they stand around all night with a glum look on their face. They keep saying to themselves, "I hate this place and I wish I didn't have to be here, but this is the only place I can meet some women."

I will admit myself that bars and nightclubs are not the best places to go to find the woman of your dreams. But, you never know you just might get lucky and meet someone special. Don't give up hope and give yourself a chance.

Anyway, let's get right to the point of this article. It's very important that when you are at a bar or nightclub, to look like you are having a good time. If you look lonely, desperate, and depressed, women will pick up on this. It's like they have a sixth sense about picking up negative vibes.

So, wear a smile on your face and act happy, even if you have to fake it. And if you are standing near the dance floor, act like you are really getting into the music and ready to dance. Women pick up on this and may actually ask you to dance. It's happen to me many times.

And here's another tip that will really help you to attract single women. If you are going to a bar or nightclub with a buddy, be sure and go with a guy that's a lot of fun to be with. Don't go with guys who have negative attitudes and always bitching and complaining about how women are such bitches, there's no women to meet, bars and nightclubs suck, and they stand around all night and take no action to meet women. Plus, they are boring, don't laugh, and act like they are at a funeral.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Single Women that Use You for Free Drinks

This week I want to warn you guys about a certain type of single woman you may meet in bars and nightclubs. I call them, "Drinkaholic Women."

This is a single woman who uses men to support a drinking habit. She may even come right out and ask you, "Would you buy me a drink?" upon meeting you. Most guys won't say no, especially if she is attractive. After she finishes her drink she will say, "Can I have another drink?" One drink leads to another and before you know it, you have dished out a lot of money on buying her drinks.

This all can sure be to your advantage or disadvantage. On the positive side, she may go home with you in exchange for buying her drinks. She may even get so drunk it may be necessary to take her home and put her to bed. Of course, on the negative side, she may just use you to buy her drinks and then blow you off and leave the nightclub or even move on to the next fool who will buy her drinks.

In conclusion guys, use your better judgement before you start dishing out a lot of money on buying a woman drinks. You could be taken for a ride. Fortunately, you won't run into the "Drinkaholic Woman" very often.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great System to Use for Meeting Women

Here's a system you can use to successfully meet tons of single women. I call it the "Dare System." It works really great using it with you buddies. Here's how it works:

When you are out with your male friends, what you do is dare each other to approach a hot & sexy babe. For instance, let's just say that you are with your friends at a bar or nightclub. There's this really gorgeous girl across the way and you and your friends are a little shy about approaching women. What you do is pick out a member of your group and say, "Don, I bet you don't have the balls to go over to that knockout sexy blonde over there and meet her and get a date with her. I dare you to do it!

This will put Don on the spot and he will not want to feel like a wimp. This will motivate him to take action. And what's great about this system is that you can take turns in your group daring each other.

I like this system because it is such a good motivational tool to get a guy off his ass to take action to meet and approach women.

So, what I want you to do now is get together with your male friends and tell them about this surefire system to meet new women and put it into action. You'll be glad you did and you will thank old Don for turning you on to this new way of meeting and succeeding with single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Plan to Succeed with Single Women

Well, here it is another year has gone by and my birthday is coming up next month. Looking back on my life, I just can't believe all the years that have gone by. And it's been such a good life. I have done so much in my life and been all over the world and most of the States. Enough about me, let's talk about succeeding with women.

To succeed with single women you must have a plan. You just can't leave things to chance and hope some gorgeous babe is going to drop out of the sky and jump your bones. You've got to come up with strategies to meet and approach single women. You can try all kinds of plans. Dating services, meeting women through friends or at work, personal ads, going to nightclubs, concerts, volunteer work, church, chat rooms, etc. just to mention a few plans for meeting new women.

Find the plan that works for you. If your first plan fails, try another plan. If that plan fails, try another and so on and so on. Keep trying until you find a plan that works.

Right here is where a lot of guys fail to succeed with women - because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans in the place of those that fail. Some guys just give up and say to themselves, "What's the use, I'm just a total failure when it comes to meeting women."

There's nothing wrong with temporary failure in meeting the women you desire. This is just a learning lesson in teaching you that what you're doing is not working.

And you must never get down on yourself when things are not working out in your dating life. No guy is ever defeated in the dating game unless he quits in his own mind. Never, never give up in your pursuit of love and romance with all those hot & sexy honeys that you desire!

We all go through a lot of trials and tribulations before we find someone special to love. Love doesn't come easy and sometimes it doesn't come at all, as the old saying goes. We must be patient and turn our defeats into victories in the game of love.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Solution to Overcoming Worry

Let's focus this week on something we all fall victim to at some point in our love life or pursuit of single women. What is it? Worry.

This is probably the most useless activity to occupy your mind with. I liked the way humorist Will Rogers described worry as, "Worry is like a rocking chair. It keeps you busy, but it doesn't get you anywhere." How very true this statement is.

Will worry help you to solve your problems in getting a woman? No it won't solve a damn thing. It will only place additional pressure on yourself. Worrying over things will just create a vicious cycle of creating more worry. Before you know it, you will get yourself into a rut.

The best way to worry is to do it constructively with a positive approach. Think of potential problems in meeting, dating, and attracting single women advance and develop solutions to them. Develop an action plan for each problem that may develop.

When you've mapped out strategies and plans in advance of every possible problem, then you don't have to waste your time with useless worrying. You'll know exactly what to do.

In closing, keep in mind that your mind can be your worst enemy at times. You can exaggerate things that you think that you should be worrying about. You can actually trick your mind into thinking things are much worse than they really are. Your perception of reality can be distorted by your own mind, which can cause needless worry.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Solution to How to Have More Energy

Has this ever happened to you? You've got an important date with this hot & sexy girl you've been dying to go out with. You want to make a good impression on her and win her heart. You want to look and act your best.

The day of the date finally comes, but you've got a problem. You feel like crap! You've had a hard week at work and you haven't been getting enough sleep. You feel tired and have no energy. You're not in the mood to go out on a date much less trying your best to make a good impression on her.

What can you do? Should you cancel the date you've been looking so forward to?

The answer is no...no...no! There's no need to do that and I'll tell you why.

There's a high-energy drink on the market called, "Choline Cocktail" made my TwinLabs that is available from GNC Health Food stores. It's a powder you simply mix with water or fruit juice. All you have to do is drink it just before going out on your date and I'll guarantee you that you'll have more energy than you know what to do with and you'll be in such a good mood that you'll swear that you're high on drugs.

What's great about this stuff is that it's legal and 100% natural with no side effects.

So, the next time you're feeling tired and exhausted before going out on a date, take a Choline Cocktail. You'll be feeling at your best and this will help you to seduce more women.

Try it guys. I use this stuff myself whenever I need a super-charged boost of energy.

In closing, keep in mind if you go on a date feeling tired and exhausted, the woman you're with is going to pick up on this. You may even come across as boring to her because you're tired and don't have much to say because of your mood. If you're feeling like a zombie, it can interfere with you making a good impression on her. And in the dating game you must make a good impression on women.

P.S. I have no affiliation whatsoever with the company that makes Choline Cocktail. I just wanted to share this information with you to help you do better with women and that's what this newsletter is all about.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Woman's Favorite Color Reveals Her Sex

Well, summer is almost upon us once more. And it is time to plan for a summer romance. Do you have a plan yet? Have you set your girl-getting goals for the summer yet? If you haven't, it's time to get with the program! Make your plan and then work your plan. Keep in mind that the single women out there are looking for you too! Summer is the time for romance...make it happen!

This week I will focus on favorite colors of single women. Did you know that by knowing and determining her favorite color will give you clues to her sexual nature?

The color of the clothes she wears, her home furnishings, and her car gives clues to her sexual personality. The predominant color that appears most frequently is the one that mirrors her real sexual self.

A panel of psychologists, speaking at the Home Interior Design Forum, explained the association between color and sexual patterns. For an explanation of the sexual findings linking colors, please visit: http://www.gagirl.com/quiz/red2.html - Here you will find out about her sexual nature according to the colors of red, yellow, pink, purple, black, green, orange, brown, blue, and white.

You will find some very interesting evaluations here and you can put it to use by asking her what her favorite color is. The answer she gives will give you an idea of her sexual nature and you can act in a way to fulfill her desires.

If she says she does not have a favorite color, just ask her what color most of her clothes are and the dominant color theme in her home decor.

Also, when you are with her observe the predominant colors of her clothes and the color theme in her house or apartment. This will give you clues also.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Date Young Women

Here's some tips to succeed with younger women 18-25 if you're over 35:

1. Be very casual in your approach. Strive to make her feel safe and comfortable with you because at first she is going to feel suspicious of your intentions. Whatever you do, don't lust after her. Just act friendly and make her feel relaxed.
2. What can you expect when dating younger women: cancelled dates, picks fights to break up with you, and she's unstable.
3. Don't be possessive and jealous with her. This will really scare her away. And don't be concerned if she has a boyfriend.
4. You will have better success pursuing the average-looking single women. Avoid the beauty queens.
5. Try to hook up with a rebellious type of young woman. They are more inclined to date older men.
6. Remember that they might be attracted to you out of just pure fantasy. They may curious what if would be like to be with an older man. Accommodate their desires and enjoy it while it lasts.
7. They might be interested in you for sexual reasons because their male lovers their age or younger are more interested in satisfying their own sexual desires. They would welcome an older lover who would be concerned in giving her pleasure.
8. Suggest out-of-the-way date where there is more privacy. She may have fears of being seen in public with an older man or where her friends might see her.
9. Get slim and trim. Young single women are not attracted to balding men with a potbelly.
10. Take classes where you are likely to be exposed to young single women. Get to know the younger guys too - they can introduce you girls they know.
11. Always keep in mind that your relationship may come to a sudden end if Mr. Right comes along.
12. When with her: Be funny, light-hearted, silly, and laugh a lot.

 P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attracting Single Women with Your Hair Style

Now, I'm sure that you're aware of how single women make such a fuss over their hair. They are always looking at their hair in the mirror, trying to get every hair in place, experimenting with different colors and styles, different lengths and textures, etc.

In other words, they are obsessed with their hair and appearance.

So, what does this have to do with attracting and succeeding with single women? A lot my friend, and I will explain why:

Let's face it guys, women will judge you on your looks and your hair has a lot to do with your looks. And being that single women are so obsessed with their hair, they notice how a guy's hair looks and if it's a great style and cut, it will make you more attractive in her eyes.

So, how do you determine what style and cut looks best on you? I'm glad you asked. Here's a couple of websites that can help you out:

1. Go to: http://www.hairdos.com - Here you will find samples of the latest styles for men. Choose the ones you think you would look best with and print them out. Then take them to the best hair stylist in town you can find and tell them to cut and style your hair like the photo. Also, he or she can help you pick which cut and style would look best on you.

2. Go to: http://www.makeoverstudio.com - This is really the best way to see how you look with different hairstyles and it's absolutely free.

You will need to create an account with a password. Also, it would be best if you had a headshot photo of yourself in a file format (jpeg or gif). This way you can use your face and experiment with different cuts and styles using their website. When you decide which ones you would like to try, just print them out and take them to a good top-of-the-line hair stylist.

Then ask his or her opinion of which one would look best on you and have them make you look like the photo.

In closing, you'd be surprised how drastically you can change your looks to make you more handsome just by wearing the right haircut and style for you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Words That Cause Failure with Single Women

Don't use the words, I WISH - As an example, do you ever say these things to yourself:

• "I wish I had a girlfriend"
• "I wish I had somebody to love"
• "I wish I could find someone to date"

The words I WISH can be very dangerous to you succeeding with single women because subconsciously you are saying to yourself, "I can't" or "I won't be able to do it" and this can set you up for failure.

Instead say to yourself:

• "I will have a girlfriend"
• "I will have somebody to love"
• "I will find someone to date"

The absolutely worst words you can say to yourself is, "I'll try." When you say this to yourself it's just an excuse for failure. And this will program your subconscious mind to accept that you will fail. Here are examples of things you say to yourself that you must totally eliminate from your thinking:

• "I'll try to meet more women"
• "I'll try to take action when I see a woman I'd like to date"
• "I'll try to overcome my shyness with women"
• Instead of saying, "I'll try" just say, "I'll do it" or "I can." And never, never tell yourself, "I can't."

 P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Action is What You Need to Pursue Single Women

This week let's talk about procrastination and how it can hold you back from succeeding with single women.

You know in your heart you need to get off your dead ass and start taking some action to meet, attract, and seduce women.

But, you have fallen into a pattern of putting it off until another day. Then another day rolls around and you put it off again. Then it becomes a habit of putting it off and it robs you of your initiative to do something to turn your love life around.

So, what's the cure for procrastination? Why, action of course! You've got to take action to meet and date more women. The women you desire are not just going to drop out of the sky. You've got to pursue them.

And when you start to make some moves on all those sexy honeys you're dying to date, you will feel so much better about yourself. It will build your self-confidence too.

So, to sum it up, get something going in your pursuit of single women. Do whatever it takes and for goodness sake, do something no matter what it is. Guess what happens if you do nothing? You'll be spending lots of lonely nights at home that's what!

Sometimes you've just got to take control of your life and force yourself to do something. Something like getting up your nerve to approach women, for example.

Remember when you took your driving test to get your driver's license and how nervous you were? This is a good example of when you forced yourself to take action to get what you wanted (your driver's license so you could drive). And forcing yourself to approach women is no different. To get what you want, you've got to take action my friend!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Using Persistence to Succeed with Single Women

As a good example of what it takes to succeed with women, let's talk about Mark McGuire who hit over 70 home runs to establish himself in baseball history. He makes it look so easy when he stands at the plate and effortlessly hits the ball out of the park.

The point I'm making here is that what you saw when he broke the records is the result of many years of hard work on his part to develop the skills to accomplish such a feat.

If you could talk to him one-on-one, I'm sure that he would tell you that the secret to his success was persistence.

So, what does all this have to do with you and succeeding with women? Persistence is the key to helping you score with all those hot & sexy single women you're dying to get intimate with.

From the dictionary here's the definition of persistence: 1. to go on resolutely or stubbornly in spite of opposition, importunity, or warning. 2. To remain unchanged or fixed in a specified character, conditions, or position. 3. to be insistent in the repetition or pressing of an utterance (as a question or an opinion). 4. to continue to exist esp. past a usual, expected, or normal time.

Are you practicing persistence in your pursuit of women? Are you doing whatever it takes to get lots of dates for fun and romance despite some temporary setbacks, rejections, and failures? A rewarding lovelife comes to those who persist and never give up.

Persistence is the key to succeeding with women. Now that I have revealed this secret to you, use it and you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A TV Show Helps Men Succeed with Single Women

Have you heard about the new TV show called, "Blind Date?" Look for it in your TV guide.

Be sure and watch this unique show to learn how to succeed with single women, how to act on a date, and how to win at the dating game.

If you haven't watched this show, let me describe what it's all about and how it can help you out. The show is about couples that go out on blind dates and their date is filmed live. The next day the couples are interviewed to see how the date went, if they were interested in dating the person again, what went wrong with the date, etc.

What's really great about this show is that the women tell you in their very own words the mistakes the men make while on the date, things men did to turn them off, things men did to impress them, what they like in a man, etc.

You can learn a lot from this show to apply in your own dating life to make your dates more successful. You learn first hand what women are looking for in a man and what turns them on and what turns them off.

So, be sure and watch this show every day for some great dating tips on how to score with women. And if you can't because you're working, be sure and record it on your VCR and watch it later.

Also, this show will give you some fantastic and unique ideas for what to do on a first date to really capture a woman's heart and make a lasting impression on her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Art of Seduction with Foot Massages

Let me tell you about a couple of the most sexiest and erotic things you can do for a woman to really turn her on, even without having sex with her.

First of all, most women spend a lot of time on their feet. At the end of the day their feet ache. And keep in mind too, that women are much more aware of their feet than men are. Women take care of their feet by keeping them clean, applying lotions to keep them from getting dry and chapped, painting their toenails, etc.

So, what does all this have to do with you succeeding with women? I'm glad that you asked...

First of all, women love to have their feet massaged. They just love it! So, buy you a small bottle of massage oil and carry it around with you. Then offer the single women you meet a foot massage.

Also, what would be a great turn on for her is to offer to paint her toenails. Also, carry around a small bottle of red toenail polish around with you for this purpose.

Please don't get the idea that doing these things are for sissies and wimps. The women are not going to judge you as being not being masculine for doing these things to her. Trust me, doing these things are going to turn her on, relax her, and make her more receptive to your advances.

In closing, try these two techniques to seduce single women. You'll be glad you did because they work like crazy!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

What are Single Women Interested In

Are you aware of the best way to find out what a single woman is interested in? Just take a look around at her library of books and magazines in her house or apartment. Observe what subjects they focus on. This will tell you a lot about what her mind is focused on.

So, how is this going to help you in succeeding with single women? By knowing what she enjoys talking about will give you an edge over other guys. You will know what her hot buttons are that makes her want to share the same subject with you.

And when you are sharing a conversation about a subject she is interested, she will in turn think that you are an interesting person. Also, it will create a bond between you when you discuss something that she is highly interested in.

So, let me give you a hint. When you are first dating or even on your first date, when you are at her place, be sure and look around at her books and magazines. This will be a dead giveaway about the things that she's really into.

Hopefully, her library will be about upbeat subjects and not something off the wall like devil worship, etc. Also, once you find out what subjects she is interested in, you will know what to give her as a gift in the form of a book or magazine. She will really admire you for getting her something that she really loves.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Eat Italian Food on a Date

This week I want to focus on table manners while eating Italian food. Believe me, if you're out on a dinner date and you have bad table manners, you're going to make a bad impression on your date.

I know this is not fair, but sometimes when you're out on a first date, especially, and you turn your date off with your bad table manners, she may not even want to date you again. You have been pre-judged as a person that was not raised right, eats like a pig, and a person that shows lack of respect for your date.

I eat a lot of Italian food and I always look around at the guys that are with dates. And sure enough, you will see guys stuffing a fork full of pasta into their mouths and biting off the strands with their teeth and letting the remainder of the pasta fall into their plate.

This makes you look like a pig and turns off your date! Let me tell you the proper way to eat pasta so you don't embarrass yourself and your date. It's called the "Twirling Method" and here's how to do it:

1. Just grab a few strands of your pasta with your fork and twirl the strands using the end of your fork against your plate. This way you will end up with a bite size portion to put into your mouth.

2. This is a variation of the above method using a spoon: Instead of twisting the pasta around your fork against your plate, you put pasta in your spoon you are holding in your left hand, and twirl your fork around the pasta in the spoon and take a bite size portion.

So, the next time you are eating pasta with a date, please remember to use the "Twirling Method" to eat pasta. Also, never wear a white shirt when eating pasta, because it never fails that you will get the sauces on your shirt.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Date From Hell You Won't Believe

If you are playing the dating game, chances are you will have a date from hell. It's just part of dating jungle out there. You're going to meet some pretty strange and weird women.

One of the worst dates you can have is these women that flirt and come on to other guys while you are on a date. They are so full of themselves and love to be the center of attention. Nothing can be so rude and such a turn-off as your date throwing herself at other guys.

While we are on the subject of dates from hell, let me tell you about one of several of mine:

I met this really fine girl at the beach that had the best body I had ever seen in my life. I was just driving around on the beach in my Corvette with the T-tops off and this beautiful girl in a hot bikini flagged me down and said, "That's really a find Corvette, can I go for a ride in it?" Of course, I took her up on it.

We seemed to hit it off really well and she asked me if I could give her a ride home (she came to the beach with her brother in his car). She seemed a little drunk and later I found out that she was an alcoholic.

Anyway, we stopped by my place on the way to her apartment that late afternoon. It had been a very hot day and I looked in my backyard to check on my German Shepherd. He was lying there lifeless and his body was very warm. There had been a thunderstorm earlier in the day and I know from experience that when this happens he freaks out and paces back and forth endlessly. Also, he had turned over his water bowl and had no water. So apparently he had literally run himself to death in the heat with no water.

I rushed him to the vet and on the way the girl kept crying and giving my dog mouth to mouth resuscitation (can you imagine this?). It was too late and there was no hope for the dog and he died of a heat stroke.

To make a long story short, I dated her a couple of more times and she was always drunk and she confessed that she had a drinking problem. So, let me tell you what happened on our last date from hell:

I took her to a nice romantic Italian restaurant and then we took a helicopter tour of Houston, TX. Later that night we went to a nightclub. All she did all night was flirt and talk to other guys. I let her know I didn't appreciate it either. So, I finally got her to leave cause I couldn't take it anymore. We were on our way back to my house and she wanted to stop by the lake. So we were walking along the pier and insisted that she wanted to jump in the lake.

I told her not to jump in the lake because she was drunk and may drown. We argued back and forth and before I knew it she jumps in the lake with her clothes on. She swam out about 50 yards and then I saw her struggling and started going underwater. So, I had to jump in the lake to save her. There was another guy on the pier and he helped me bring her up on the pier. She was ok, thank God.

So, there we were both soak and wet and I was pissed. I took her home so she could put on some dry clothes. While I wasn't looking, she had taken some of my antidepressant prescription pills and passed out. She was like a corpse. I loaded her up in my jeep and took her back to her apartment. She slept all day and didn't show up for work.

I learned later that she was suicidal and that was the reason she jumped in the lake and took my pills. Needless to say, I never dated this mental case again.

So, the moral to this article is that there's a good chance that you will have a date from hell. Just chalk it up as experience and as the saying goes, "shit happens."

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Myths About Relationships

This week I want to focus on the myth of someone fulfilling 100% of your needs:

Are you aware that you're hurting your chances for finding true love if you're searching for a woman who can give you everything you need and you can be everything to her? You're looking at the world through rose-colored glasses if you believe that this is true.

Trust me, nobody will get 100% of all his or her needs fulfilled from one person. Consider yourself lucky if you're getting 50% of all needs met by one person.

And don't make the mistake of making your whole world revolve around being with one person. Be involved in a variety of activities apart from your relationship and don't give up your friends just because you're heavily involved in a hot romance.

We all need friends to make our life more fulfilling and happy. When committed to a relationship full-time you'll have less time to spend with your friends, but don't forget them and keep in touch. Your true friends will be able to understand that you don't have as much time to spend with them.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com