Art of Conversation with Women

Advice for Men on How to Talk to Women

Now I will teach you the art of conversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you.

People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you unless you are interested in her first.

It is very important that when you're talking to a woman that you face her and look her squarely in the eyes. When talking or listening to her, don't look off to the side or at the ground. Maintain constant eye contact. This gives her a feeling that you care about what she has to say.

During your conversation encourage her to talk about her-self, her career, and accomplishments in life. Find out the things she's really into such as sports, cooking, hobbies, art, music, etc. and really zero in on these subjects. This will make her feel closer to you while she's pouring her heart out about her favorite subjects. Just concentrate on talking about herself and forget about yourself. While she's talking, acknowledge her with statements like, "Oh yea", "Is that so?", "Wow", "You're kidding." Also, while talk-ing to her, wear a pleasant smile on your face.

To sum it up, the secret to getting a woman to fall in love with you is to talk to a woman about herself. Try it and see how she will rattle on and on talking about herself.