Surefire Tips on How to Talk to Women

Words of Wisdom About Sex and How to Talk to Women

Let me tell you about the aggressive conversational approach that doesn't work. Initially, after just meeting her, you ask her to go to bed with you. I just can't understand why many men will rush, push, and expect sexual favors too soon based on some inflated image of their own masculinity or what "real" conversation is all about. All they can think about is GET LAID NOW! Coming on too strong after just meeting scares the hell out of some women, especially if she is the shy type.

One of the most common complaints I hear from women is that men want to go to bed right away. They complain that the men have their brain between their legs. Sex is a private and delicate event for many women.

Expecting sex immediately after just meeting puts unnecessary pressure on yourself. It pays in the long run not to rush or expect sex too quickly or easily.

Of course, there are women out there who will go to bed with you at the drop of a hat, but with the threat of aids and other diseases, a lot of women are particular with who they go to bed with.

So take your time and offer sex with gentleness and quietness. Don't force or demand sex. Let it happen naturally, with the two of you exchanging willing bodies.

If possible, use your hands, and particularly the tips of your fingers, when talking to a woman. The light touch of your fingertips transmits electrifying signals to the other person which will support your thought messages with physical touch.

When touching her while you're talking, be sure it's in a subtle way. Don't do it in a way that would indicate a sexual advance because it may work against you. Just do it casually, like a touch over her hand or on her knee. She will notice these little gestures and slight touches and this will make her feel closer to you.

Finally, your voice is very important when talking to a woman. Don't talk in a boring monotone voice. Put emotional emphasis on each and every word you say. Be sure and speak up and don't mutter your words quietly.