Making the First Move on Women and Them Approaching You

Approaching Women and Women Approaching You

The first major concept you must acquaint yourself with is empathy - "putting yourself in another persons shoes."

If you stood in a bar or a nightclub etc. think how you would like to be approached and spoken to. If a woman marched over and said "Can I buy you a drink, darlin!" how would you feel?

Women do appreciate the fact that men can be very intimidated by the pressure of having to make the first move. Unfortunately even in today's "women friendly" society, generally women do prefer men to approach them in the first instance. This is the first flattering step to success.

Conversely don't be put off by women who may want to approach you. Again this is the finest form of flattery and takes confidence and courage to carry out.

Let's assume that you will be initialising the first contact. You must be aware of the "ABC" of successful dating:

• A = Appearance
• B = Body Language.
• C = Conversation.