Now, I will discuss the
best place to meet flight attendants, and that's on the ground. Particularly in
the bars of hotels that have regular limousine service to and from the local
airport.
Where do flight
attendants hang out
between flights? It may surprise
you but usually they stick
around the hotels they stay in. You might think they would be out partying
till the wee hours between
flights. This is just not so and here
are reasons for this.
Being a flight attendant is not all glamour. It's a
hectic physical schedule and it takes its toll on the
body. For example, a flight
attendant typically works only a couple of weeks out of a month. She will spend
up to six to eight days at a time flying
here and there which includes
within the United States or internationally. Then she
will be off another six to eight days to recuperate her body from jet lag.
When she's
working the stretch and she
gets off work, she's usually tired and
catches a limo for the hotel and
then straight to the bar. This is where
you want to be to approach her.
OK, now you're in
the hotel bar and a couple of
flight attendants walk in. By the way, I
might mention that flight attendants are
usually paired together when staying in hotels. Take your pick of the
one you want to approach
and approach her. Keep in mind
that they are there for a few quick drinks and then it's
off to the
sack for some shut eye and relaxation. You've approached her and you open up with, "Hi my name is Can I join
you for some conversation?" In most cases she will say yes. Now you will follow up with
your conversational skills. Follow my techniques described in my chapter on
conversation. Be sure and don't
come on with a lot of
B.S. about yourself. Revolve the
whole conversation around
herself and her interests. Try to avoid talking
about her job. This will probably
turn her off because it may just seem like one big long drag for them.
It certainly won't hurt to sympathize with her hectic schedule and duties such as cleaning up air
sickness bag overfill.
You're hitting
it off real well with this flight attendant now. Hopefully, if she is with
another flight attendant, the other attendant
will excuse herself to head for
the room to get some sleep. Once she's out of sight say, "I have a nice warm bed, clean sheets, and a
potent nightcap at my place. So why
don't you stay over at my place
tonight?" "I'll sleep on the couch and you can have my bed if you
like."
Your own your
way now to
total heaven now, providing she
accepts your invitation.
The next morning you'll
probably be up early. Don't be
surprised if she's
a little grumpy
and irritable when she gets up in the morning. Her body and mind are just depleted from jet lag and being on
her feet. Just be warm and affectionate towards her.
When you drop her off at the airport, be sure and
give her your business card (if you have one) and your home phone number.
This way the next time she is in town she can give you a call if she would like a nice warm bed for the night and some
hot passion.
One sad final
thought. She may disappear out of your life for long periods of time. Just accept this because it's a fact
of life. When you least expect it, she
will call and say, "I'm in town on a layover and I'm just dying to see
you!" What she probably
really wants is some good food, conversation, and sex. So why not give it
to her, even though it's most likely not going to lead to something
serious.