So, you have finally worked up the courage to call the woman you met last night, have you. Why, then, does your hand tremble when you reach for the phone? Don't clutch that handset any tighter, or it just might shatter. Does the icy grip of the sweat running down your brow weaken your resolve just a bit?
Rejoice, my good fellow, this can be a uplifting experience, a fearful delight, an opportunity to begin a exalted relationship, a chance to make a fool of yourself.
If, indeed, heaven and hell can coexist in the exact same moment, and they can, it is right here, here and now.
There is a rhythm and flow to a good telephone conversation. A rhythm and flow. As in any contact between people, a connection must be made, a rapport established. It is akin to climbing a perpendicular rock wall, to catching the rising tide and taming the howling winds, to walking barefoot over broken glass. Once the initial resistance (pain) is overcome, everything goes easier. It flows.
Plunge in, immerse yourself and set free your voice, let it express your feelings, let it sing for you, let the telephone wires carry your message, and at some point (perhaps) there will be a "click". That is the resonance point, the place where things fit together. The channel will be open, and the words will come, they will come of their own accord, and flow, smoothly they will flow, as though destiny itself had written them in fire.
Tips on Calling Single Women on the Telephone for the First Time
Wednesday, March 24, 2010 | Dating Tips | 0 comments »1. “I could give you a pick-up line like some guys do, but I’m not going to do that. May I just talk to you instead?”
2. “You have my permission to make a pass at me.”
3. “Don’t you know me from somewhere?”
4. “Where are you going? Can I offer you a ride?”
5. “Excuse me, but I think it’s about time we met each other.”
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This week we will focus on proper dining etiquette when out on a date with a woman. Correct table manners are very important, especially on your first and second dates with a woman. You will be judged and if you have bad table manners, she may not even want to date you again. Don't let anything spoil your chances with scoring with single women such as bad table manners which are easily corrected.
Listed here is the proper dining etiquette when on a dinner date with women:
1. Be sure and make reservations if you are going to a fancy or popular restaurant. It's very embarrassing to show up without reservations and having to wait an hour or two for a table. Also, be sure a check to see if they have a dress code and dress properly. Be sure and tell your date in advance what to wear.
2. When your food comes don't gobble your food down like you haven't eaten in a week. Eat at a moderate pace so you will have more time for conversation. It makes a bad impression if you gobble down your food and you spend the rest of the time watching your date eat.
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3. Be sure and use your napkin and place it in your lap. Do not tuck it in your belt or use it as a bib.
4. When being seated do not allow them to place you in "bad" spots such as noisy areas, next to the restrooms, by the front or back door, areas with a bad atmosphere, etc.
I know you probably don't want to hear this advice if you own a rodent or reptile, but just by having one it can turn women off that you are dating (especially on a first date). Keep in mind that a lot of women are scared of mice, rats, snakes, etc.
So, what to do? I would recommend not having these if you are trying to date women. Anything that would possibly turn my date off, I would eliminate. After you have been dating awhile, then you can bring up the subject of having these for pets. If she does not care, then go for it.
How to Overcome Fear in Approaching Hot Single Women
Saturday, March 20, 2010 | Dating Tips | 0 comments »
When fear raises its ugly head when you are thinking about approaching that hot single woman you are attracted to do you dwell on those self-defeating thoughts of rejection or shyness that prevents you from approaching her?
When you choose to focus on all the reasons why you can't approach sexy single women this is going to cause you to have a negative mindset when it comes to meeting women. This mindset is going to hold you back from meeting and approaching women that you are attracted to.
You just can't sit on the sidelines watching other men meet and attract women. You must refuse to let fear hold you back anymore. You've got to take a leap of faith, be bold and resolute, and focus on a vision of victory in meeting new single women.
I suggest that you develop a new mindset that this is a new day and a new beginning for you. Let go of the chains of the past. In the future, when you feel fear when wanting to approach women, doesn't mena you have to act on it. When you feel fear when you want to meet and approach women that you are attracted to, don't give in to that fear. Stay in faith that you can meet and approach any woman you desire. Say to yourself that you are full on confidence and fear nothing or anyone.
Trust me, you will go through some storms in your relationships. It's all part of playing the dating game. The main thing is to not let it get you down.
You need to be like the palm tree during storms and hurricanes. Let me explain why:
Have you ever watched a palm tree in a storm or hurricane? They will bend so hard they almost touch the ground. Then when the wind subsides they bounce right up.
You need to be just like that palm tree after you go through some dating storms. You need to bounce right back up and be stronger than ever.
LEO (July 23 - August 22) - This woman is very charming, has lots of sex appeal, and loves to party. She's a very social person and loves to be on the go. If you're a couch potato, you're not the man for her.
Very passionate and affectionate and has lots of love to give to the right guy. Attracted to unusual, dynamic men who are often a bit eccentric. You must be well-dressed and treat her like royalty because she has a strong ego. She's a real tiger in bed and rules the bedroom.