The way you ask for a date with single women can make a big difference in whether she accepts or declines. Also, it's very important that you feel confident in advance that she is going to accept your invitation to get together for a date.
Whatever you do, don't expect a "no" answer in advance of asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence around women. If you expect rejection, it can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way of asking single women for a date. These negatively phrased questions can set you up for failure in trying to get a date:
1. "I know you're probably busy Friday night, but if you're not busy would you like to go out with me?"
2. "I don't suppose you're free to have lunch with me on Friday are you?"
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3. "You wouldn't want to meet me for a drink Thursday after work, would you?"
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a "no" answer. Plus, she might think that you have already asked someone else out and you got shot down, so now you are trying your luck with her. Her thinking this, even though it might not be true, puts you in a bad position.
It's best to make it easy for the woman you're asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say, "yes." Also, think positive when asking her out. Believe that she is going to accept and there's no way that she will say, "no."
In my opinion, here's the best way to ask a woman for a date:
1. "My friends have been raving about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I've never been there. Would you like to try it out with me?" (This really doesn't have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date).
2. "There's a good symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing to attend. Would you like to join me?"
3. "Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and party. They have asked me to come along. I know it would be a lot of fun. Would you like to come along with me?"
I'm sure you get the idea now. These are non-pressured and direct questions for asking for a date. They sound so much better than the negative examples I gave you to not use for asking for a date. Don't you agree?
I hope this advice helps you to get more dates and happy hunting!
Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.
You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance and a potential relationship.
You arrive right on time at the time you both agreed upon. And you're waiting and waiting for her to show up. Ten minutes goes by...then twenty minutes...then thirty minutes.
What should you do? Leave in a fit of anger and never see her again? Call her up later and cuss her out?
Here are my recommendations:
1. Never wait more than 30 minutes for a date to show up.
2. Give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she has a valid excuse for not showing up such as traffic, sudden illness, emergency at home, problems with her kids, car trouble, etc.
3. Call her the next day and see if she offers an explanation. When you first call, act like nothing happened and let her bring up the subject of your dinner date first. If she offers no explanation, then do not pursue this woman. She may have purposely not showed up because she has no interest in you.
4. You can try another tactic that could make her not feel so bad about not showing up. Just tell her you're sorry you didn't show up for your dinner date because you had a personal issue to take care of. This may be a little white lie, but it takes the pressure off of her. Just reschedule another meeting.
5. Whatever you do, don't call her up and start cussing her out. This serves no purpose and there are some single women out there that enjoy making men upset by standing them up.
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I would suggest rescheduling another meeting for dinner. If she doesn't want to, then just take the hint (she's really telling you that she's not interested in you). If she agrees to meet you again and doesn't show up again, then forget about her. Don't let a woman humiliate you twice.
In closing, remember that being stood up is part of the dating game. It happens to everybody. Don't let it get you down. Let it be a lesson...if a single woman stands you up on purpose, then you don't want to be with a woman who is not interested in you anyway.
Does this describe you?
1. You don't feel you're capable of love because you don't believe that you're good-looking enough, intelligent enough, successful enough, or interesting enough to meet or attract any women.
2. If a woman shows interest in you, you believe yourself to be not worthy of her attention.
These characteristics are classic examples of low self-esteem. And low self-esteem can be a major roadblock to finding and experiencing romance.
In his book The Psychology of Love, the psychotherapist Nathaniel Branden makes an excellent point about low self-esteem: "It has been something of a cliche to observe that, if we do not love ourselves, we cannot love anyone else. This is true enough, but it is only part of the picture. If we do not love ourselves, it is almost impossible to believe fully that we are loved by someone else. It is almost
impossible to receive love. No matter what our partner does to show that he or she cares, we do not experience the devotion as convincing because we do not feel lovable to ourselves."
So, to overcome your low self-esteem, you've got to learn to love yourself. It won't be easy in the beginning, but with a lot of practice and emotional support from friends, relatives, etc. you will gain self-confidence with women and experience love and romance.
Here's more pick up lines to use on women:
“Are you familiar with the TV show “Love Connection?” After she says yes you reply, “Well, would you be my love connection?”
“What are you doing later today - tomorrow and the next day in my life?”
“I just came into a large inheritance. Would you like to help me spend it?”
If there’s a girl walking behind you, turn around and say, “Are you following me?”
“May I join you?” (This simple line ranks as one of the top 10 pick-up lines to successfully meet women.)
I need to alert all single men to a scam that goes on in some singles publications, swingers magazines, etc. that feature photo personals of beautiful single women that look like a Playboy Centerfold and the ad describes the woman of your dreams you have been looking for.
Here's how the scam works to rob you of your hard-earned money: Men buy sexy and beautiful models photos and place these pictures in publications and magazines with a personal ad. The personal ad describing her will really capture your attention. It goes something like this: Sexy, beautiful single long-haired, blue-eyed blonde,
buxom, 5' 5", 110 lbs., beautiful figure, long legs, 38-24-36, looking for serious relationship with older man, willing to travel or locate. Please write, I'd love to hear from you.
Then, unsuspecting men will answer these ads thinking this ad is for real and the beautiful and sexy photo of the single woman in the ad and the description is really her. NOT! This is really a guy that will write you back when you answer the ad.
So, what's the purpose of all this? I'm glad you asked. What he will do is pretend to be the woman in the personal ad and write you back coming on all hot & heavy to you in the letter and without even knowing you they will want to fly down to meet you. All you have to do is send them airfare and travel money. Do you smell a rat yet?
Some lonely desperate suckers fall for this scam and send the money. Guess what? The woman of your dreams never shows up and you've just thrown away several hundred dollars right down the toilet.
There are men out there pulling this scam and making a lot of money. It's not rampant, but I wanted to warn you that this type of scam does exist.
Don't be discouraged though because most personals with photos are legitimate. I just want you to use good judgement when answering personals of single women, especially the ones that look like beautiful models.
A real good dead giveaway that a personal is not for real in a lot of cases is that they will not give you their phone number and their address is a post office box. But, the main alert is if they come-on very strong in the beginning and ask you for money.
In closing, use common sense when playing the personals and take every ad and photos of sexy beautiful centerfold-type single women with a grain of salt.
1. When on a first date, please don't brag about yourself. This is a turnoff for your date. Just focus on her and her interests.
2. Also, when on a first date do not pretend to be someone you are not. Just be yourself.
3. And last, do not pick your nose. If you have to, just excuse yourself to go to the restroom.
