You've got to take action to get the things you want out of life! Don't sit around waiting for "the woman of your dreams" to come into your life. If you leave the business of finding love with the right woman to chance, chances are it will pass you by.

Sure, this is going to involve some risk-taking and courage to be aggressive in meeting women. With practice, it will come natural and besides, this is an investment in your future happiness.

When you are approaching a strange girl, whatever your intentions may be, any person watching, or the girl herself, really does not know what your intentions are. They cannot know if you are interested in getting her to bed. Not for sure anyhow. You can make your intentions known to the girl when you choose.

This takes a lot of pressure off of you. You are not appearing in public, proclaiming to everyone that you are out looking for sex. You are simply a friendly, courteous individual saying "Hello" to a girl.

I have found that women fully expect a man to be a master of the art of understanding a woman's needs. Women expect a man to know exactly what to do in every situation. After all, "Humphrey Bogart" knew how and you should too. And if you aren't perfect, if you don't know exactly the right thing to do, you are being judged. And one of the truly unfair things in life is that there is no defense for failure. It's part of filling the man's role and that's that.

So where do you learn this art if you aren't born with it? How do you learn where on the spectrum to be for any one situation? We learn from women. But, what women do and what women say has been confusing men for centuries. Our book, "A Man's Guide to Women" is meant to translate female behavior so that with an understanding of women, you can master the art of dealing successfully with them.

Let's talk a little bit about the topless dancers. Why do they take their clothes off? The main reason is for money. These girls can make $20 every ten minutes doing dances and they can make $200-$400 a night. On a good night they can make $500-$700 a night at the upscale clubs. They can get some really nice tips.

Their attitude towards topless dancing is that it is harmless, temporary, good exercise, and easy money. They consider their occupation as entertainers and part of the "showbiz," industry. If you try to condemn their occupation they will be very offended and will defend themselves. They're not ashamed of what they do.

Also, most dancers are just interested in your wallet and not you personally. It's a business to them.

If you make it your goal to constantly go where and be where many women congregate, and if you put all your efforts into trying to meet and pick up as many women as possible, you will sooner or later meet a woman who will fulfill all your dreams. A woman capable of intimacy, not afraid of commitment, communicates, and will fall in love with you exactly as you are.

Why Men Pick Up Girls:

1. Some men are just plain horny, and looking for new playmates. It is a wonderful world for such men. They can go out in a shopping mall, beach, or any public place, look over the crop of lovelies parading about, take their pick, make their moves, and (if the girl is willing) proceed with some kind of romantic adventure. What a fantastic opportunity. And men are doing it all the time. The only catch is that they have to know how to make those successful moves.

2. But all the men who make a move to contact a strange girl (in a public place) are not after one night stands, as you, the reader, may not be. With many men the main idea is to meet an exciting new girl. What develops out of the meeting, they can't predict. But it might end up being a meaningful relationship.

3. Still other men are just being friendly, with no immediate intentions further than that.

Throughout the book, you find changing moods and tones in how a man is to deal with a woman. At one end of the spectrum, a man is to be romantic, tender, loving, understanding, appreciative of her, and etc. At the other end, a man must be hard, macho, decisive, firm, unwilling to accept any form of negative behavior. If you read the book trying to find one type of person to be in order to please a woman, you will never be completely successful with women. At different times, a man will find himself at opposite ends of the spectrum or somewhere in between to properly deal with a woman and her changing moods and needs. Sometimes women need to be babied; sometimes they need to be given their independence. Sometimes they need to be loved; sometimes they need to be scolded.

The most successful men I have observed were successful because they had the ability, the perception, and the sixth sense to know when to be hard with a woman and when to be soft. They understood a woman's wants, needs, desires and motivations. When a woman needed to be loved and cared for, she was. When a woman needed to be put in her place, she was. And throughout it all these men were loved for this ability. This perception of a woman's needs and the ability to deal with those needs is far more an art than a science, but it is something that every man can master.

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