Now let’s find out what women are really attracted to.
Much is being written about women wanting sensitivity, love, understanding, and romance. Women's talk shows go on the air daily, discussing a woman's need for caring relationships. They all make it sound so simple - all you have to do is care about a woman, tell her you love her, show your affection, and she will be happy. We agree that women want love and caring. But what about the men who are saying, "Hey, I'm loving, romantic, sensitive, and caring. If that is what women want, then why aren't they throwing themselves at me?" Sensitive, loving men are sitting home alone because there is a catch. Yes, women want to be loved but they are choosy as to whom they want that love from.
What we are telling you is that offering a girl love and affections is fine, but she only wants it from that certain man that she is attracted to. And in order to be found attractive by a woman, in order to be type of man that she wants to have love her, you must address yourself to the eight elements that make up this chapter. Power and leadership, what she can't have, what other women find attractive, affirmation of powers of seduction, something different, romance, sexuality, sensuality, and sex are the things in men that are found attractive by women.
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Loving a woman and following all the hints you learn from the "how to be sensitive" books will help you only after a girl is attracted to you. They won't help you get that girl attracted to you in the first place, and they won't help you keep her attracted to you.
It would be nice if life were such that love was all women were looking for. But you know this isn't true. You know it, and we know it. There would be no need for this book if it were. What this book tells you is what no one else will. We have no intention of sugar coating reality. In reality, what women find attractive is all of the things that make up this chapter.

A word about VIP Rooms. Some clubs offer what is called a VIP Room. This is just a gimmick for them to charge more money. The cover charge is higher to get into the VIP Room. Don't waste your money! There is nothing going on in the VIP Room any different than the regular club. There are no wild orgies or topless dancers pulling down their G-Strings. The only advantage to the VIP Room is a little more privacy (This is especially important if you're a well-known celebrity). Also, you will see the same dancers because they rotate between the VIP Room and the regular club.

You are going to see some really "Hot" bodies in the topless clubs. A lot of these girls work out and take a lot of pride in their bodies. A beautiful body can help them make more money and better tips. Then there's the pposite end of the spectrum.You will see unappealing bodies (flat-chested, sagging breasts, stretch-marks, flab, big hips, big ass, tattoos, ugly faces, etc.). You will see a variety of bodies of which I'm sure you'll find one that turns you on and want to share your bed with.

You've got to take action to get the things you want out of life! Don't sit around waiting for "the woman of your dreams" to come into your life. If you leave the business of finding love with the right woman to chance, chances are it will pass you by.

Sure, this is going to involve some risk-taking and courage to be aggressive in meeting women. With practice, it will come natural and besides, this is an investment in your future happiness.

When you are approaching a strange girl, whatever your intentions may be, any person watching, or the girl herself, really does not know what your intentions are. They cannot know if you are interested in getting her to bed. Not for sure anyhow. You can make your intentions known to the girl when you choose.

This takes a lot of pressure off of you. You are not appearing in public, proclaiming to everyone that you are out looking for sex. You are simply a friendly, courteous individual saying "Hello" to a girl.

I have found that women fully expect a man to be a master of the art of understanding a woman's needs. Women expect a man to know exactly what to do in every situation. After all, "Humphrey Bogart" knew how and you should too. And if you aren't perfect, if you don't know exactly the right thing to do, you are being judged. And one of the truly unfair things in life is that there is no defense for failure. It's part of filling the man's role and that's that.

So where do you learn this art if you aren't born with it? How do you learn where on the spectrum to be for any one situation? We learn from women. But, what women do and what women say has been confusing men for centuries. Our book, "A Man's Guide to Women" is meant to translate female behavior so that with an understanding of women, you can master the art of dealing successfully with them.

Let's talk a little bit about the topless dancers. Why do they take their clothes off? The main reason is for money. These girls can make $20 every ten minutes doing dances and they can make $200-$400 a night. On a good night they can make $500-$700 a night at the upscale clubs. They can get some really nice tips.

Their attitude towards topless dancing is that it is harmless, temporary, good exercise, and easy money. They consider their occupation as entertainers and part of the "showbiz," industry. If you try to condemn their occupation they will be very offended and will defend themselves. They're not ashamed of what they do.

Also, most dancers are just interested in your wallet and not you personally. It's a business to them.

If you make it your goal to constantly go where and be where many women congregate, and if you put all your efforts into trying to meet and pick up as many women as possible, you will sooner or later meet a woman who will fulfill all your dreams. A woman capable of intimacy, not afraid of commitment, communicates, and will fall in love with you exactly as you are.