Accept the fact that some topless dancers are lesbians and when you find this out, drop them like a hot potato. Move on to greener pastures. They are interested in other women and not you. They will just milk you for all the money they can make off of you and you get nothing in return. And don't even think about getting her to change her ways. You'll just be wasting time. Some of the dancers may swing both ways. They are attracted to and make love to both sexes. Should you pursue them if you find out they are bi-sexual? I'd say no. Do you want to compete with another woman for the object of your desires & affection? Probably not. Plus, you have the competition of other men also.
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Use your own judgment, but I would avoid bi-sexual dancers.
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This woman goes to nightclubs with one purpose in mind. To meet men and get approached by you. This is one of the easiest types to meet because there are no hassles involved. You meet, have a couple drinks and dance, and she's ready and willing to pursue the relationship further and she may even go home with you. She may come right out and tell you, "I want to make love to you" (don't get your hopes up on this one, it's very unlikely ) or "Lets leave and go to your place." An aggressive woman may scare some men off but don't let it bother you. Admire a woman having courage to go for what she wants.

Some of these women may be very active sexually and like to play musical sex partners. They need sex constantly and with a variety of sexual partners. It's nice to meet a woman like this sometimes, but most likely it will turn into a one-nighter. She wakes up the next day and gets dressed and walks right out of your life.

One possible drawback from meeting a sexually active woman like this is contracting a social disease. Of course, how are you supposed to know she has been sleeping with every Tom, Dick, and Harry in the city. You just have to be careful who you sleep with these days.

These types are usually easy to spot. They actively flirt and smile at the opposite sex and are extremely friendly. They will just stand around the dance floor where they encourage men to ask them to dance. They of course, may ask you to dance. I really admire a woman who takes the initiative to ask a man to dance. Some men are so shy about asking a woman to dance in the first place.

Also, I might add, these women usually come to the nightclubs alone. However, they come with a girlfriend occasionally. A woman alone will get approached more often by men. So, for the Man-Hunter, it's really an advantage for her to go to the nightclubs alone so she will be approached more frequently.

These are the things you should not do to be successful in meeting and impressing girls:

1. Don't be afraid of rejections -some are inevitable.
2. Don't hold back from approaching a girl because she hasn't smiled at you.
3. Don't give up too easily if she says "No."
4. Don't be a bore in conversation.
5. Don't be over-awed by a girl.
6. Don't be self-conscious.
7. Don't worry if you are shy.

To be more correct, women don't want sex - they want good sex. Women's sexual desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very, very discriminating and choosy in picking partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that 1) sexually arouses them, and 2) promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed." Women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.

The fact that women are choosy about who they go to bed with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because of sex exists only as long as the sex is good.

These are topless dancers that hate men for various reasons. If they hate men so much, why would they be involved in a occupation where they are constantly exposed to men? They do it for the almighty dollar. That's why. I will explore the various reasons why they hate men.

1. Quite simply they are burnt out on men. They get tired of all the men talking crude to them, propositioning them as if they were whores, men acting like animals and showing them no respect, etc. Not to mention, having to put up with drunks and men with their brain between their legs daily. It all takes its toll over a period of time and they begin to hate men and don't even care to date men. Sometimes they even loose respect for themselves, which in turn makes them lose respect for men.

However, if you're patient and show them that you're different than the other guys and gain her trust maybe, you can undo some of the damage that has been done by all the jerks proceeding you. Just don't get your hopes up too high. You're better off pursuing the desirable type, described later.

This woman is mainly interested in how much material wealth and money you have. Upon meeting you, she will ask personal questions like, "What do you do for a living?", "How much money do you make?", "What kind of car do you drive?", "Do you own your own home?", or "Do you have a boat?"
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If you're not a man of financial means, she won't have anything to do with you. She will consider you too low-classed to associate with. If you are a man of financial means, then you will probably hit it off real well with this type of woman. This can have its drawbacks though, because she may just like you for your money and not for yourself.

1. Use compliments whenever they are appropriate.
2. Try to be exciting, and not dull.
3. Get introduced and call her by name as soon as you can.
4. Be polite and apologetic in FIRST PHASE. Be more positive in SECOND PHASE.
Talk more in FIRST PHASE. Listen more in SECOND PHASE.
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5. Remember, you can ease into it, and put the pressure on later.
6. Be ready to respond if a girl gives you a "come on.”