If you hang out in topless clubs and try to pick up topless dancers, this is the type you will most likely date. They will frustrate and disappoint you.

I'm not saying you have to accept it, but if you want to date these girls you're going to have to tolerate it. What I'm trying to say is topless dancers can be some of the most irresponsible and undependable women you will ever meet in your life.

This has happen to me many times in my encounter with topless dancers. You give them your phone number and they never call or they forget to call. She gives you her phone number, but you can never get a hold of her. She says she will meet you for lunch, but never shows up. She says she will meet you after she gets off work to go party, but disappears. She makes plans with you, but constantly cancels the date. So, what's a guy to do with all these frustrations and disappointments? There's not much you can do. It's their nature. Just be patient and don't take her irresponsible nature to seriously. Accept the fact that some topless dancers aren't very dependable.

Too much alcohol, drugs, and partying can take its toll on a dancer mentally and make her irresponsible. This can certainly explain why some of these girls act like bimbos and airheads. The body and mind can only take so much abuse.

Quite simply, all it takes to meet a woman in a nightclub is to just walk up to her and start talking to her or by asking her to dance. There's a lot of men who just stand around all night too scared to approach a woman or they think they will be approached themselves. Believe me, I know from experience that sometimes you will rarely meet any women just standing around waiting for them to make the first move. You have to make the first move and it comes quite easy after you practice at it. Enough about shy men at clubs. I'm devoting two chapters on shyness and how to overcome this problem.

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You're probably wondering "What do I say when I approach a woman?" Here are just a few simple opening lines which work well. Feel free to make up your own.

1. "Hi! My name is________."
2. "Why are you flirting with me?"
3. "What's your name?"
4. "Are you having a good time?"
5. "What's that perfume you're wearing?"
6. "I love your hair. Where do you have it done?"
7. "Would you like to dance?"
8. "Are you a model?" (Quite a compliment to women)
9. "What kind of drink is that?"
10. This one really works well. Try it and see for yourself. "Excuse me for being so forward, but I could not help but admire the way you danced. Where did you learn to dance like that?" This lays the foundation for starting a conversation. Then you can ask her, "What do you think of this place?",and so on. Then you can ask her to dance.

If the girl is waiting at a bus stop, in a line at a bank, or seated in a bus or plane, and you are similarly waiting or traveling, you can join her without even asking. But then you have to find a reason to start talking to her. This is usually not difficult. A request for help or any casual remark can be a starter. The weather, something she is wearing, or any well or any well-known current event will do the trick.

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Then casually say, “By the way, my name is…What’s yours? After all, you are both just killing time. If you have a long wait, everything should be fine. But if the waiting time is brief (5 minutes or less) you will have to arrange an extension of time.

A good idea is to ask, “Where are you going when you leave here? How about joining me for a cup of coffee?”

Another variation on the “waiting” situation is when the girl is seated with plenty of empty seats all about. Then, if you want to sit near her, you should get her approval.

You can say, "Excuse me, but do you mind if I sit here? I'd like to have someone to talk to."

But even better is, "Excuse me, but I saw you sitting here, and I decided I'd like to meet you. My name is ..., what's yours?"

Of course with all the “waiting" situations you don't have to be really waiting yourself. It is usually easy to join a waiting group to get near the girl. If you are really inspired by her, you might even take a bus trip you hadn't intended, though a plane trip might be a bit much.

There is a movie called, "Magic Mike" which starts tomorrow. Be sure and take a date to see this movie. Why? Because it is a movie about male strippers and when she sees these hot guys stripping it is going to get her in the mood for sex after the movie.

These are the topless dancers right out of the pages of Playboy that you would die for and the kind of bodies men drool over. I'm sure when you look at these girls you have all kinds of fantasies and your hormones are raging out of control. Can you score with these dancers? Yes. Will it be easy? No. You're going to have to have something these dancers want and need. And what can that be? Material things, money, gifts, trips, something to further her career, cars, pay her rent, etc.


Will she date you if you have a lot of charm, good personality, and good looks or average looks, but not a man of financial means or material things to offer? Well, maybe. The main thing is to give it your best effort to get a date with these centerfolds. So what if you get rejected. It's not the end of the world. Just move on to the next beautiful playmate. Just look at it as a numbers game. The more times you come to bat, the more chances you have to hit a home run.

While you  are cruising the  nightclub, keep your flirting eyes out for  the woman  that is  alone. She is usually the easiest  to meet and attract.  She is there for a reason and you can be the lucky man to fulfill that reason.

               

Also while walking, keep  that sexy-looking gleam in your eye. Literally try to melt women with your eyes. If you make eye contact with  a woman, make sure you give her a friendly smile and if she is close enough to you, simply  say,  "Hi."  That  is  all it  takes and with practice it will come easy.

               

If  you make eye contact with some woman across the way from you and she turns away, don't give up on  her. Try  to make eye contact again and smile at her. If she smiles  back,  approach her  immediately!  This is an opportunity that must not be passed up because it's an open  invitation for  you to  come over  and introduce yourself or ask her to dance.

               

Whatever you  do, don't stare  at a woman.  This is impolite and nobody likes to be  stared at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her  and  then  immediately  look away.  What you are saying with your  eyes when you  look at her this  way  is,  "I  know you  are there  and I  would not dream of invading  your privacy.  Just keep  looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange smiles.

               

So, there you have it, the art of flirting. What  really  amazes  me  is  these guys at the nightclubs that don't  even flirt with women.  They just stare into space or look down at the floor. If they do accidently catch the eye  of a woman, they look  away as quickly as possible and let  it go at that. They  just don't  know what  they are  missing and  what they are missing out on is meeting women the easy way.

               

So  my  friend,  if  you're  like this, make it a point to  stop staring  into space  and start flirting with women. Flirt with every woman in sight. It's a lot of fun  and  you  will  be  attracting and meeting more women than ever before.

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A girl sitting on a park bench, in a restaurant or bar, lying on the beach, or in any other similar "stationary" situation, is engaged in a recreational activity, and can easily be approached by a man (in a friendly way), saying, "Excuse me, but do you mind if I join you?"

The girl can simply say, "I'm-sorry, but I'm waiting for someone," if she is not interested. Such pick-ups are among the easiest to make. In fact, I am sure that girls in such situations are expecting (and probably hoping for) men to approach them. But they are ready to use the “waiting for someone" excuse if they do not fancy the man approaching them. It is really quite a painless rejection for both the girl and the man.

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It is amazing that many men think nothing of approaching a girl at a party, but would be afraid to approach a girl in a park, restaurant, or beach in the manner described.