Take It or Leave It

Men sometimes do pull off a "moving" pick-up line, with just a few words like, "Hi! Do you want to go to a party?" and other similarly direct approaches. But we feel you will ruin a lot of good opportunities that way, even if you might be successful sometimes. But it is up to you, the reader, to decide. Maybe you want to try such direct approaches a few times and see how you do. At least it is very simple and easy to do.

We think that the chance of success of a direct approach depends more on the appearance of the man than other approaches. If a girl is very impressed by a man's appearance, she may well go along with it. But if a man is more ordinary looking, she may not. Such a man would do better to build up his case more slowly, in the more conventional way.

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We will dwell a little more on these signs, since most men find it hard to recognize or just plain don't want to recognize these signs:

1. She won't make herself available. Even though they may sound like valid excuses, if she were interested, she would make herself available to see you. If arranging a date to get together becomes a struggle and you are the only one working on the problem, move on.
2. Conversations will be awkward and forced. After all, you are the only one trying to keep it going.

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3. Conversations and the tone in her voice will be neutral. Not necessarily negative, but they will be absent of that up-beat, positive mood.
4. The important thing to remember is that most girls don't want to hurt your feelings. So if they aren't interested, they will be just neutral in their tone and expect you to pick up the fact that there is an absence of a "come on" in their manner. Many men will assume that since a girl hasn't come out and said "drop dead," then maybe she is interested. Don't forget, if you aren't sure whether or not a girl is interested in you, then she probably is not. When a girl is interested, she will let you know.

Can you meet and pick up touring feature entertainers? It's possible, but not likely. All you can do is try and you might get lucky. Look for these touring entertainers featured in topless clubs in your local paper or entertainment papers. They will list the show times and days of the show. These girls usually have shows that last a week and then travel to the next city.

Are these shows worth seeing? Yes, they can be very exotic, sexually stimulating, and very professionally choreographed. Sometimes, depending on the entertainer, the show can be long. Each of her shows generally last around 30 minutes. After each show she will usually have a booth or table set up to sign autographs, hand out her photos, take pictures with you, etc. You may even be able to arrange a private table dance for a inflated price. If you're really serious about trying to score with feature entertainers, go to her last showing which will be a little after midnight. Go directly to her booth or table after this last show and talk and flirt with her. If she has a boyfriend or husband on the road with her, forget about trying to score with her. You don't want to put yourself in danger.

If things are going well between you and her, just ask her out for breakfast or to join you for lunch the next day.

When I wrote my book called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" I interviewed lots of women about meeting men in nightclubs.

These interviews can be summed up as follows:

1. Women go to nightclubs to dance and meet people.
2. Women like to be approached in a respectable manner. They don't like the aggressive approach

and don't like to be treated like just another piece of meat.
3. Women like well-groomed, well-dressed men, with a pleasing personality.

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4. Women dislike conceited, drunk, forward, and obese men.
5. A woman will leave the nightclub with you if you get her to like you.

If you deliver your opening line to the girl knowing you have plenty to say afterwards (until you introduce yourself) you will be much more confident in both your initial approach and your opening line.

Now don't get the wrong idea here. We do not mean you have to ramble on at length before you introduce yourself. It should be a very short speech, at most 10-20 seconds. Sometimes it will not be necessary at all; it all depends on the girl's reaction. In many cases she will respond immediately to your opening line, in a friendly, warm way. You should then introduce yourself immediately. We are concerned more with the occasion where the girl is a little hesitant. You should only continue with the "filler" until she seems to be accepting the idea of meeting you.


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If your “filler" attempt makes you sound like you are struggling with the situation, it doesn't matter. If you are squirming somewhat, trying to justify your actions in trying to pick up the girl, this is fine. You are talking - that is the main thing -and she is listening. You are really not trying to convince her. She probably agrees with you anyway. When she shows signs of accepting your attempt to meet her, you should then proceed to introduce yourself. Your looking a little worried after your opening line is actually very good for your case. It makes you look more real, more believable. The girl tends to think, "This nice guy is worried about my being offended when he is trying to meet me. Yes! I do agree with him. He should be able to talk to me if he wants to." It tends to put her on your side, with the conventions of society the villain. She should then give you some encouragement, and you can introduce yourself. Unless she is unavailable, and she should tell you that quickly enough.

Really! Talk, talk, talk. Keep talking. That's what it's all about. So have your ammunition ready.

1. She will put herself in your way - she will make herself available. If she says no to a date, she will go out of her way to make sure you know she wants you to ask again.
2. Conversations will continue and flow even when you don't have things
in common.

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3. She will be looking at you - making eye contact and smiling.
4. She will initiate conversation, make compliments, and say positive things about you.
5. The tone in her voice will show interest and excitement.
6. In general, the mood when she is with you will be up and positive, instead of just neutral.

Always have a game plan for what to do if you pick up a topless dancer or topless dancers if you're with a buddy. Have everything planned out in advance such as:

1. Where are you taking the dancers after they get off?
2. If after closing time, where are you going to eat breakfast?
3. Where are you going to party at? Who's place, etc.

It's always better to have plans already thought out so there will be no confusion and things go smoothly.