A word about paying for a dance.  Always pay cash if possible.  Why?  Because if you use your credit card, they usually charge you a processing fee of $5.  This is a rip off to me.  Also, you might want to offer her a barter deal for a dance. Offer to wash & wax her car, change her oil & filter, lottery tickets, jewelry, gift certificates, any services related to your business, etc.
           
Accept  this as something you have to put up with in topless clubs.  You will constantly be hustled for table dances!  Don't hold this against the topless dancers.  This is how the dancers really make good money.  So, if she's not doing dances she's not making any money.  They have bills to pay just like you and me and she will spend most of her night hustling men for dances. 
              
Always  remember  that you're under no obligation to buy a dance from her.  If she's really crazy about you, she will even dance for you free.  If this happens, you've got a real good shot at scoring with her.

Back to the dancers soliciting you for dances.  As you are sitting at your table you will be approached by dancers with their standard line of, "Would you like some company?"  If you say, "yes" right after she sits down, she will hit you up for a dance.  You can stall her with small talk after she joins you, but eventually and real soon she's going to ask you for a dance.

            
So, what do you do?  Always say, "I'd rather buy you a drink and get to know you better.  I know the ropes of your business, so if you need to go make some money, I understand.  Just come back and party with me after you make your money."  If she never comes back, you'll know she's not interested in you, because you won't buy a dance.

 

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This is what I refer to as the "Circular Method." It's a very unique way of advertising for  romance and several nice and attractive women will contact you. What you will be doing is  simply  putting  circulars  on windshields  of  cars  in  nightclub and singles bars parking lots.

This is how to do it. Have  500 circulars printed at your  local print shop. Here's a  sample of what to say:

"Single  bars  are  great  if  you  want  to stay single. I don't. And I want  a woman who doesn't either. So, if you'd like to meet and get together and you are disappointed in  what you've  had up until now and are ready for a first  class man to come into  your life and extend to you  first class treatment, just  send a photo and short note to:"

The upper  part of the circular contains a  black and white photo of yourself. The printing is  done  in large  letters so it would stand out  and is  done on pink paper. Another option would be to list your phone number.  Also, you could use a  post office box if you want complete privacy. Just use your own judgement.

 If  you don't  want  to   do  the  distributing yourself,  you might consider hiring someone to do it. This could  be a  friend, teenagers  looking for  some spending  money,  etc.  Also,  if  you live in a large city,  look  in  the  yellow  pages under distributing services. They might be able to help you.

The best time  to do this is between 10 and 12 PM when  the parking  lots  are  full, preferably on the weekends  or  ladies night.  What  you might consider doing also is leaving some inside the club.  Just talk to the  manager and  get his  permis­sion. They usually don't care. Just leave some near the entrance or where you pay to get in. This is what I did.

In  conclusion, feel  free to  use the wording on the sample circular or make up your own. So why not be brave,  daring, and different and  give it  a try. It sure works and  what a thrill  it will be  having your mailbox stuffed with lovely  letters from the opposite sex.

1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation.
2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh.

3. Act like you are genuinely interested in what she is saying. Even to the point when you have to fake it. She will be impressed that you're such a good listener.
4. Don't act too serious. Act carefree and light-hearted and don't give a long and boring monologue about yourself.
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5. You will be judged on how you look and your behavior. So, wear your best-looking clothes and be immaculately groomed. And be on your very best behavior!
6. You may not think this is fair, but a lot of single women will judge you by the way that you tip. Always tip generously, especially on your first date. This will make a very favorable impression on her. If you leave a cheap tip or even worse, no tip at all, she will judge you as a cheap person. Also, if she has ever been a waitress, she will really look down on you for tipping cheaply or not at all. Waiters and waitresses depend heavily on good tips to make a decent living.
7. Revolve most of your conversation around her interests, hobbies, career, goals, vacations, etc. Forget about yourself and focus on her.
8. Act as if you've known her all of your life. This will make her feel comfortable around you. Also, it will make you feel comfortable and help eliminate any first date nervousness or anxiety on your part.
9. Be sure and bring your business card with you and give it to her at the end of the date. It will make her feel that she's important to you.
10. Maintain good eye contact throughout the date and wear a smile on your face. A good smile has a very seductive effect on single women.

Your conversation is the SECOND PHASE of your approach to a girl has three basic objectives:

1. Killing time by "small talk" to make the girl more at ease in your company.

2. Drawing the girl out to speak of herself.

3. Impressing the girl by talking in an exciting, interesting manner.

Generally, correct, polite, logical and serious conversation is best in business situations. But aggressive, frivolous, showy conversation is usually more effective when talking with girls. You should tend toward being an extrovert. If you can remember a time when you were very outgoing at a party or other occasion and impressed people, try to recapture that same spirit.

 It is a good idea to watch other men in conversations to see which tactics are most effective. Notice how many men talk too much on uninteresting things, and try to avoid this fault in your own conversations.

Also it is a good idea to note (even write down) effective jokes and expressions you may hear. Your source might be TV, comedy records, or other people you meet.

Your conversation should be a mixture. You should mix small talk, exciting subjects, interesting serious subjects, and sexy talk. Don't talk too long about serious subjects; break into something lighter. Be on the move all the time in your choice of subjects.

Now, I will discuss the best place to meet flight attendants, and that's on the ground. Particularly in the bars of hotels that have regular limousine service to and from the local airport.

Where  do  flight  attendants  hang  out  between flights? It may surprise  you but  usually they stick around  the hotels they stay  in. You might think they would  be  out  partying  till  the wee hours between flights. This is just not  so and here are reasons for this.

Being a flight attendant is not all glamour. It's a hectic physical  schedule and it  takes its toll  on the  body. For example, a  flight attendant typically works only a couple of weeks out of a month. She will spend up to six to eight  days at a time flying here and there  which  includes  within  the  United States or internationally. Then she will be off another six to eight days to recuperate her body from jet lag.

When  she's working  the stretch  and she  gets off work, she's usually tired and  catches a limo  for the hotel and then straight to the bar.  This is where you want to be to approach her.

OK, now you're in  the hotel bar and a  couple of flight attendants  walk in. By  the way, I  might mention  that  flight attendants  are  usually paired together when staying in hotels. Take your pick of the one  you want  to approach  and approach her. Keep in mind  that they are  there for a  few quick drinks and then  it's  off  to  the  sack  for  some shut eye and relaxation. You've approached her  and you open up  with, "Hi my  name is                Can I   join  you for  some  conversation?"  In most cases she  will say yes. Now you will follow up with your conversa­tional skills. Follow my techniques described in my chapter on conversation. Be sure  and  don't  come on  with a  lot of  B.S. about  yourself.  Revolve the  whole conversation around herself and her interests.  Try to  avoid talking  about her job. This  will probably turn her  off because it  may just seem like  one big long drag  for them.  It certainly won't hurt to sympathize with her hectic  schedule and duties such as cleaning up air sickness bag overfill.

You're  hitting it off real well with this flight attendant now. Hopefully, if she is with another flight attendant, the other attendant  will excuse herself to head  for the room to get some sleep. Once she's out of sight say, "I  have a nice warm bed, clean sheets, and a potent nightcap at  my place. So why don't  you stay over at my place tonight?" "I'll sleep on the couch and you can have my bed if you like."

Your  own  your  way  now  to  total  heaven now, providing she accepts your invitation.

The  next  morning  you'll  probably be up early. Don't  be surprised  if  she's  a  little  grumpy  and irritable when she gets up in the morning. Her body and mind  are just depleted from jet lag and being on her feet. Just be warm and affectionate towards her.

When you drop her off at the airport, be sure and give her your business card (if you have one) and your home  phone number.  This way  the next  time she is in town she  can give you a  call if she would  like a nice warm bed for the night and some hot passion.

One sad  final thought.  She may  disappear out of your  life for long periods  of time. Just accept this because it's a fact of life. When you least expect it, she  will call and  say, "I'm in  town on a layover and I'm just  dying to see  you!" What she  probably really wants is some good food, conversation, and sex. So why not give it to  her, even though it's most  likely not going to lead to something serious.

Avoid Dull Subjects

Sometimes it is the girl who keeps the conversation on a subject uninteresting to you. If she is really interested in it herself you can cater to her for a while, but you should eventually try to change the subject rather than suffer too much boredom yourself. You can probably find something interesting to both of you.