I highly recommend that you play the personal ads for dating, love, intimacy, and romance. And when you answer a woman's ad for the first time here's a great letter to use. Just edit it to use for yourself. This letter will really make a good impression on single women and make her want to write you back. Try it, it works!:

Dear...

Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.

I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life.

My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single lady who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you.

If you feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.

Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (five years ago), Caucasian, dark brown hair, blue eyes, 6' 3", trim 175 lbs., clean-cut and a healthy gentleman. I am self-sufficient, handsome, self-employed (businessman), happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.

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I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.

I am comfortable in jeans or a nice Italian suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.

I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way.

I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.

I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?

Well, what do you think? Isn't this a great letter! You could also use this for online personals too. The next step is up to you...Try the personals, they sure worked for me!

Do  you need to be tall, dark, and handsome to attract and meet women? The answer may surprise you but it's a definite no. With a man, a woman's looks are of critical importance. Not so with a woman because they are much more interested in what you're like on the inside than on the outside. Your personality and warmth of character are of paramount importance to them.

Some  women  even  prefer  a  man who is not very handsome, as they usually have  a better personality and are more interest­ing. Just like a lot of beautiful women,  a  real good-looking  man  may  just sit back passively depending on his looks and are so hung up on themselves they haven't even developed a  personality. They're just plain boring and unexcit­ing.

If you do happen to be good-looking, it will be to your advantage though. Good looks and a good body do attract a woman's attention. Just remember that they're more interested in your personality and not hung up on beautiful faces the way you are, as a general rule.

 Yes, some topless dancers do drugs or drink alcohol to get high and use it as a crutch to make her more comfortable in taking her clothes off.  The topless club scene lends itself to the drug scene.  There are guys trying to score with topless dancers by offering them drugs, dancers sharing drugs with other dancers, undercover agents trying to sell drugs, etc.

 Some clubs monitor the dancers for drugs and they will fire you if you're caught.  Other clubs just don’t care what the dancers do.  Should you reject a dancer that appears to be drunk or high on drugs?  No, because she may be feeling rather loose and perhaps even horny and this can be to your advantage by making your prey easier to catch.  Plus, you may be able to talk her into a free table dance.

 

That's why it's better to go to topless clubs just before closing time.  Later in the night the dancers may be drunk or high and under these influences they may shed their inhibitions.  Also, if they appear to be drunk or high while giving you a table dance, be sure and ask her to show you her bush.  Legally she's not supposed to do that in a topless club, but being that she's under the influence she just may do it.

One final word of advice.  If it's obvious that she's drunk or high don't come on real strong and be sexually aggressive with her.  She may think you're trying to take advantage of her because she's loaded.  Just be friendly with her and treat her with respect.

TIP #1 - Have every detail of the date planned, but make it seem spontaneous. Try to go somewhere familiar to you so you'll know what to expect. Even go to movies you've seen before so you know it's a good one.

TIP #2 - End the date before she does. Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this night, but you hang on till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a million shot will come through. Wrong! Instead you alertly perceive that the evening is still going well and is positive, so you politely explain that you have to go, assure her that you had a great time, and tell her you'll have to get together again. Take her home and say, "good-night."

Most men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough, they'll get the girl in bed. As the evening drags on, the mood of the dates starts to drop and the girl ends up having to announce it's time for her to go. By ending the date before she does you surprise her and set yourself apart. You imply that you are hard to get, and not desperate. And believe us, if the girl is interested in going to bed, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you. So if she hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at her own game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.

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Goal Setting System for Scoring With Women:  Goal-setting is a powerful system in getting what you want, and this is, scoring with hot & sexy beautiful women. "As you think, so you become." If you focus on a goal with determination, backed with a burning desire, you'll experience it. Setting a goal to meet and pick up women is acknowledging to your conscious and subconscious minds that where you stand as far as scoring with women is not where you want to be. Having a goal creates positive pressure on yourself, which is necessary to move you forward and motivate you to pick up women.

Now, I will explain the following steps to goal-setting to meet and pick up women. Step 1- The first step in goal-setting is desire. Desire is the great motivator, the powerful force that drives you toward your goal. Step 2- The second step is belief - you must believe with all your heart and no doubts that you have the ability to achieve your goal. Step 3 - The third and most important step is to write your goal of meeting and picking up women in complete detail, exactly as you wish to have it. Until your goal is committed to paper by you, it is not a goal; it is simply a wish backed by perhaps a lot of sexual fantasies. Step 4 - The forth step is to determine all the benefits you will receive by achieving your goals of scoring with women. Write out on paper all the benefits you will enjoy by accomplishing your goal. You should really enjoy this step. Just let your imagination run wild and put it on paper.

 Step 5 - Step number five is to set a deadline- decide exactly when you are going to accomplish your goal of picking up women and put it on paper. Step 6 - Step number six is to identify the obstacles you will have to overcome to achieve your goal of picking up women. You will discover that any major obstacles lingering in your mind and preventing you from picking up women will become small when you write them down on paper. Step 7 - Step number seven is to clearly define the knowledge you need to learn in order to accomplish your goal. All the knowledge you need for meeting, attracting and seducing women is right in my tips of week archive located at: http://www.getgirls.com/archive.htm - Study it and put it into action. Also, our books at our website will help you gain all the knowledge you need. Step 8 - Step number eight is to take all the details that you have identified in step 6 and 7 and make a plan. Be sure and make it complete in every little detail, with all the things you need to do to accomplish your goal. Step 9 - Step number nine is to get a clear mental picture of your goal as already attained. Picture in your mind over and over seeing yourself scoring and picking up women. Just let your imagination run wild. Become completely obsessed with picking up women in your mind. Step 10 - Your final step is to back your plan with determination, persistence, and a burning desire to never, never give up until you have achieved your goal.

Here's an example of a written goal:

By ___________(insert date) I will pick up and score with a hot & sexy beautiful woman. I am now going out often and pursuing a relationship with women by every means possible until this goal is accomplished. I'm now taking action when I see an opportunity to pick up a woman. When I go to clubs now, I don't just sit there being passive and just watch other men meet and pick up women. I'm aggressive with women now and move into action quickly and easily. It is extremely easy now for me to meet and talk with women, get their phone number, date, seduce and become intimate with women.

Signed___________(your name) Date ____________

This is just an example of what to write for your goal. You can write whatever you want, this is just a guideline. This is very important. Write your goal on a 8 1/2 x 11 piece of paper, preferably blank with no lines. Now, you need to get copies of the popular womens' magazines featuring pretty women. Cut out pictures of the pretty models and paste them all around your written goal. When reading your goal look at these pictures and visualize yourself picking up women.

Looking at these pictures will work on your subconscious mind and motivate you to reach your goal. Read your goal and look at the photos twice daily. Once when you get up in the morning and once when you go to bed. These are the best times to do this because your subconscious mind is more receptive to suggestions at this time.

Additional Tips To Help You Achieve Your Goals

1. Focus all of your attention, desire and energy in accomplishing your goal at hand. Forget completely about any consequences of failure with women. Remember that you usually get what you think about most. 2. When you start on your goal, concentrate all of your energy without any distractions on the successful completion of your goal. Make reaching your goal an all-consuming obsession. 3. Develop a self-talk vocabulary to reach your goal of scoring. Make it a habit to repeat again and again to yourself, "I want to - I can" in regards to scoring with women. 4. Substitute the word "Try" with the word "Will" in your vocabulary associated with scoring with women. This is a form of semantics and creates a new attitude of concentrating on things that you "Will do," instead of things you plan to "Try," with a built-in excuse in advance for possible failure. 5. Substitute the word "Can't" with the word "Can" in your daily vocabulary too. Always tell yourself you "Can" do things you set your mind to.

In conclusion, set your goals and go for it! Happy Hunting!

If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and She Ignores Me, It's Because I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.

This irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces low self-esteem when they are rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned down prevents shy men from making contact with single women.

If you're turned down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or not good enough for her. She just may not feel like dancing at the moment. She may just be tired. She may not even dance.  There can be a number of reasons. So don't take it personally. However, what to do in a case like this is to use this pick up line to ask her, "Would you like to dance later?" If she says yes, just ask her again later. Even better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for some conversation?" In the mean time just ask other women to dance.

Also, I might add, a lot of guys get turned down to dance, so don't feel that you're the only man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even real good-looking men.

If you approach a woman and try to start up a conversation and she ignores you, don't take that personally either. She just may not feel like talking or being bothered. Perhaps she's tied down to a boyfriend or even married. Also, you just might not be using the proper social skills.

So if she ignores you, move on to the next single woman and you'll find someone who will respond to your advances.