Get rid of the idea that people are always watching you, sizing you up and evaluating you. The only people that do this are shy people who spend a lot of time fearing that they are being evaluated negatively. The reason you think you are being watched is because you do this to others.

The solution to breaking this habit is to stop judging and sizing people up and you will stop thinking that others are doing the same to you. Don't worry about people evaluating you unfavorably because the reason for this is that they think they are better than you.

 

 

Let's talk about smiles during your first meeting with a topless dancer. A warm and sexy smile can do wonders in getting a dancer attracted to you. A smile is your best way to break the ice with a dancer. It shows that you are a positive person. It lifts the spirits of the dancer and indicates that you're open to conversation. A warm smile communicates to her that you've noticed her in an approving way. Your smile says to her, “You look nice. Let's get to know each other." Be sure and examine your smile. You need to make sure that you're sending the right message when you smile at the dancers. Stand in front of a mirror. Smile naturally as if you were smiling at a dancer and check:

 1. Does your smile look warm, friendly, and sexy?

2. Are your teeth shiny and white?

Work on the areas that need improvement and beware of a smile that looks more like a forced grin. You probably need to relax your face more. Watch out for half-hearted smiles. This may be caused by shyness but they come across as not very warm. Also, if you smile comes across as phony, it may have been on your face too long. After smiling for a minute or so your lips begin to get tired and freeze into a glazed look. To cure this and freshen your smile, rest a moment. When you're not smiling, don't let your mouth give off negative messages. Tightly pursed lips can suggest anger and you certainly don't want to come across as angry when meeting a dancer. Also a turned down mouth communicates sadness or disapproval.

 

 

HINT #1 - Even after a relationship begins, you can continue to play hard to get. Without ignoring her, keep a level of independence. Don't make your life revolve around her entirely. Don't smother her. Be it your job or your sport - something that shows her that you can live without her. If you have a life outside her sphere of influence, it will make her slightly insecure, and therefore, want to hold on to you even more.

HINT #2 - Never do what she expects you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being unpredictable you constantly keep her on her toes, and more importantly, you keep her interested.

HINT #3 - In a relationship you've got to maintain a level of romance. Once we overheard two friends’ wives talking. One said, "Do you know what I would like to do? I would really like to go out on a date." In other words, here was a woman who was married and bored. She wanted her husband to ask her out on a date. She wanted flowers, to be asked out, the door held open, and kissed on the neck over dinner. You've got to keep romance in the relationship. You've got to surprise her with little gifts, with flowers, with love notes on the pillow, and candlelight dinners. You've got to make her feel like she is a woman.

 

This article is from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

 

 

Don't Be a Victim of the Pregnancy Trap!
Some single women, and unfortunately you do not know which ones, use pregnancy as a way to trap you into marrying them. Or at least, you will be stuck with a child you never wanted or expected for the rest of your life. And you will pay up to your ears.
Men are so stupid that they do not make women responsible for their bodies and their pregnancies. Listen, if they run the risk of getting pregnant they should not "spread your legs" around. And if they do get pregnant, they should not blame anybody else but themselves. After all, no guy could get in if these women kept their legs crossed and closed very tight.
Why should we men take care of women's bodies? Why is it that we men are the ones who have to wear condoms so they don't get pregnant? We men don't ever get pregnant. Women do. Therefore, women should both protect themselves and take full responsibilities for their pregnancies, unless a man and her woman decide willingly to have a child.
Unfortunately, the laws are so distorted in women's favor that men don't have a chance. Notice also that when women want to get pregnant and are happy with their pregnancies, they say; "I am pregnant. I am so happy because I am going to have a baby." But when they want to nail you or the pregnancy was unplanned they say: "You got me pregnant." And listen to their mommies and daddies saying: "You got our daughter pregnant."

 They never tell the honest truth that "Our daughter got pregnant because she was spreading her legs around." As if their daughter was this pure, innocent, virginal girl who just happened to be praying when unexpectedly, high from above, this blob of holy semen came down and impregnated her. And it was not her fault at all, poor thing.
Nonsense. Most likely, she was "sleeping around" without even taking "birth control" pills expecting, as all women do, that you protect her from getting pregnant. What a joke. Since condoms are not 100% failure-proof, I order and command you to always wear condoms in conjunction with spermicide and any additional contraceptive you can come up with. My good fellow, take all necessary precautions to:
Protect yourself from any Sexually Transmitted diseases, and Avoid the "Deadly Pregnancy Trap."
The author of this article chose to remain anonymous.

 

Has this ever happen to you? You see this really beautiful girl that you would love to approach. You try to build up your nerve but you make excuses like, "I'm to scared" or "I'm too nervous."

Pondering, stalling, postponing, reconsidering, these are all delaying tactics that impede action. If you find yourself telling yourself these lies and making excuses, block them out of your mind immediately and take action and approach that woman right then and there. Don't waste any time or you'll see one woman after another walk right out of your life. Don't delay trying to meet a woman or you might find yourself delaying all your life.

First Meeting

When you first meet a topless dancer, do these important steps to create a bond. Be the first to extend your hand during your initial greeting. While shaking hands, give her a warm friendly smile and say, "Hi, my name is _____." That's the best way to open the channels of communication between you and the dancer. She will be impressed by you shaking her hand also because most men don't. You are showing her respect and making her feel special. It shows that you're a warm & friendly person and it helps to lower her defenses. It creates an atmosphere of receptivity between you and the dancer.

When you shake hands, be sure your hand acts as your private diplomat. Use a firm grip to show strength and friendliness. A grip that's too hard seems aggressive. A grip that's too soft suggests that you're weak, retreating or indifferent. As soon as you feel her grip relax, break the handshake. If it's a very quick handshake it indicates an obligatory handshake. I'll bet you didn't think handshaking was such an art.

#1 - You can't allow yourself to become boring. You must dress and groom yourself. You have to deal with waitresses properly. You have to be busy and important. You should maintain a level of mystery about you. You have to continue to let her know you are found attractive by other women (Though certainly not by flirting or throwing it in her face).
 

#2 - Now more than ever, you are going to have to maintain control. You will have to control the relationship emotionally, as well as on a personal level. You have to be the energy of the relationship. You have to listen and perceive what her mood is and then perceive what activity would turn her on and excite her the most. Then suggest it before it has even occurred to her. Does this mean that you have to be able to read minds? No, that would be nice, but it does mean that you have to stay tuned in to her and her moods.

#3 - Don't be a boring slob. This sounds like an obvious tip, but you would be surprised how many men fall into this trap of letting a woman see them spend all of their time on the couch watching TV. Be active, exciting and doing things. Relate to her and what she is doing.