A Survey on What Turns Single Women on

When writing my first book, which was on how to pick up single women in nightclubs, I interviewed over 100 single women in nightclubs and asked them this question: "What kind of man turns you on in a nightclub?" Here are some of their responses, which tells you what they like in a man and what you should be doing to attract them:

• Robin - "A neat dresser, nice-looking, a man that treats me with respect."
• Kerry - "A very well-dressed man and has very good manners."
• Erika - "Good-looking, a good dancer, dressed nice, and has good character."
• Valerie - "A man that lets you know you are wanted. He tries his best to make you happy. He acts like a gentleman. Good dancer." Paula - "A shy, not too direct guy, but he knows what he's doing."
• Susan - "A well-mannered, well-dressed man. A man that doesn't ask too many questions."
• Gail - "One with a gentlemen's approach, perhaps to ask for a dance and then later offering to buy me a drink. Certainly not a man who has already had one to many."
• Debbie - "Good-looking guy with a good personality."
• Erin - "A sophisticated man with a lot of class and money."
• Sandra - "A congenial man (no stud). He knows he's good-looking and doesn't have to fish for compliments. No fatty, I like a nice body."
• Karen - "I like tall men and I like a couple of buttons unbuttoned on his shirt. Shape of man important - not fat, but not too skinny. I like a man with neat-looking hair, not too long or too short."
• Kim - "A guy that likes to dance, a good conversationalist, and a neat dresser."
• Nicole - "A guy that acts natural. He doesn't come on with a bunch of lines. He just acts like himself and doesn't try to put up a big front."
• Barbara - "A good-looking man that's a sharp dresser. A plain-looking guy is OK too, if he has a pleasing personality."
• Nancy - "Easy to get along with, physically attractive, and a good personality."
• Natalie - "A guy that's real friendly with a warm personality. Personality more important than looks."
• Gayle - "Someone with a pretty good personality. Someone that seems sincere and honest."
• Peggy - "Nice-looking, can dance good, and intelligent."
• Teresa - "A nice, friendly man. Talkative and shows interest in me and gives me a lot of attention. Looks aren't important."

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Answers to Why You Should Not Litter When Dating Women

Do you really want to turn off your date and perhaps make her not want to go out with you again? Well, a really good way to do this is by littering.

Let me give you some good advice about not doing the following things related to liter when on a date with single women:

• Please don't put out your cigarette butt out on her sidewalk or driveway before knocking on her door to pick her up.
• While you are driving in your car on a date, please don't throw out any paper cups, food wrappers, gum wrappers, etc.
• Even worse, don't toss your cigarette out the window when you are through with it. This could even start a roadside fire. Just put it out in your ashtray.
• When stopped in a parking lot while on a date, don't empty out your ashtray on the pavement.
• Also, don't throw your gum out the window while driving on a date.
• When picking her up, just before you get to the door don't throw your lit cigarette or gum into her flowerbed.

You may not think these liter no no's are not important, but I can assure you that women notice little things like you littering. Please guys, don't liter when you are on a date. You may regret it and you want to make a favorable impression on your date and not turn her off.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Opening Lines to Meet Sales Clerks in Department Stores

Be sure and hit up on all those hot & sexy sales clerks and customers in the department stores and malls. Try these lines to meet some women:

1. Just ask for help. For instance, if you're in the men's department, ask a woman you're attracted to for her opinion. "How do you like this tie, would it go with a navy blue suit and white shirt?"
2. "Could you help me? Can you tell me what size dress a girl about this tall would wear? (Indicate a height by raising your hand.)"
3. To the pretty sales clerks, "What time do you get off?" "Would you like to meet for dinner?"
4. See a woman loaded down with packages going to her car; ask her, "Can I help you carry those packages?"
5. Hang around cosmetic counters and when you see women sampling perfumes approach her and say, "That perfume really smells good on you."
6. In jewelry stores pretend you're shopping and approach women and say, "I'm buying a watch for my sister and I was wondering if you would try on this watch on so I can see how it looks?"
7. To a pretty sales clerk: "You're too pretty to be working behind that counter, you should be a model?"
8. To a girl passing by - "Excuse me, I'm looking for a birthday present for my sister, do you like this dress?"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Awesome Letter to Respond to Personal Ads

Here's a letter I used successfully to meet tons of hot & sexy single women that ran personal ads in the local publications in my city:

Hi!

I LOVE YOU DARLING! How often have you longed to hear these words? How often have you longed to be held in your arms by a man who is loving and affectionate - to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, and tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows?

This letter is in response to your recent "personal" ad. A little bit about myself:

WHAT I LIKE TO DO: I love sad movies with happy endings and happy movies with no endings. Have been known to wander the beach late at night just to see the moonlight playing on the water...Addicted to the horse races in Louisiana, the French Quarter, and tubing down the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels drinking margaritas...My leisure activities include mountain-climbing, canoeing, fishing, camping, hiking, bowling, playing the organ and guitar, reading, and I love all sports...I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners (I'll do the cooking). I enjoy movies, love live comedy theatre, all kinds of music (I love to dance), the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets, and dining out.

WHO I AM: I have never been a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling...I'm a person who feels a oneness with the earth, who is in tune with nature, who loves the outdoors, and all things bright and beautiful that the earth has to offer, including rainbows, waterfalls, bluebonnet fields, moon and stars, mountains, the ocean, and animals... Also, I have a very positive attitude and I'm a goal-oriented person. I know where I'm going in life and how to get there.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR LET'S BECOME GOOD FRIENDS, then...HOPE FOR A VERY BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP. I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life...I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique woman who is affectionate, attractive, slender, with a nice physique, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine - someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship - not just a few dates. Are you that special woman?...I am interested in a single woman who needs love, tenderness, sympathetic understanding, to share a long-lasting relationship with a one-woman man.

So, if you're disappointed in what you've had up until now and ready for a first class man to come into your life and extend to you first class treatment, please write or call me at 484-2525 WITHOUT FURTHER DELAY. Contact me today. DO IT NOW!

Sincerely,

P.S. Professionally I am a writer, author, and own my own publishing company, mail order entrepreneur, and professional astrologer. If you will follow my instructions on how to meet women by correspondence, I guarantee that your mailbox will be filled with letters and photos from hot and sexy women.

A final word of advice. If you live in an apartment, list your address as a suite number rather than an apartment number. This creates the impression that you are well-to-do and live in a high-rise penthouse.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Get Women Wet with Conversation

Ever wondered how to sexually stimulate a woman by simply talking to her in the right way?

To consider you a sex-partner? Follow these simple steps and she will be putty in your pants... err, I mean hands.

1. Whisper in her ear

When hitting on new women, you have to jump-start the chemistry so that you can go from "nice friendly guy" to "potential sex-mate". The best way to start creating that chemistry is to whisper in their ear instead of talking to them face to face. Use the excuse that the bar or club is loud and reach in closer and closer in the first few minutes of conversing with her.

2. Keep your voice mellow

Don't shout. Don't talk too fast. Talk slow. Mellowing your voice tends to mellow out the other person. This is desirable given that you want to change her state from "strung out, scared and nervous" to " comfortable, relaxed and mellow" around you. Space out your words. Whispering slowly in her ear will put her in the right trance for further seduction.

3. Do the Boob-touch

OK, so she is relaxed, enjoying the fact that you make her feel calm, the whispering is tingling her inside. Now you got to do the boob-touch. The Boob-touch is a very powerful technique to turn her on physically. What you do is, while you two are standing, you hold your glass against your chest in such a way that whenever you reach in to whisper in her ear, you "accidentally" rub your knuckles against her breast. Very, very subtly. She might not even notice it the first time. She may feel it was a quick accident.

You then repeat it a minute later. Then again. Very subtly, spaced out, so it gives her time to start enjoying it. Soon you will notice she will be reaching in to your knuckles, asking whatever question just so that it can happen again.

At this point, you can be sure that she is "ON". You are ready to take her to the next level, and soon you two will be in bed.

Remember, during this conversation, what is happening is a lot more important that what is being said. The fact that you are whispering, mellowing her out and turning her on is what counts; not your story about the time you chugged a 40oz.

Just keep the conversation flowing in any direction, and soon she will be wanting more physical interaction, like kissing, hugging and caressing. P.S. This article is an excerpt from our new book, "Advanced Macking - The Shy Man's Guide to One-Night Stands."

A Few Tips on How to Succeed with Single Women

BE IN CHARGE

Remember women want leadership.

• TIP #1 - When planning a date, instead of asking the girl what she would like to do, have every detail of the date planned out - the reservations, the movie, and even the parking place. Just tell her when to be ready. Let the rest of the evening be a pleasant surprise.
• TIP #2 - When you are with a girl, hold the door, take her arm, and show her the way.
• TIP #3 - At a restaurant, make sure that you are seated at the head of the table or where the waiter will see you first and stand next to you when he comes to take the order. Conduct all of the dealings with the waiter. Ask your date what she would like so that when ordering, you can say, "She will have the...and I will have the...," instead of her giving her own order.
• TIP #4 - If at all possible, drive your own car. Avoid letting her drive you. When you are driving, she is dependent on you. When she drives, you are hitching a ride and are no longer in control
• TIP #5 - If a girl calls, answer the phone with, "Hi, what can I do for you?" By saying this, you show that you are used to being the leader and being of service to others.

BE DECISIVE

Being decisive is one of the surest ways to demonstrate your leadership and confidence. Single women want the man to take the lead and make the decisions and they are judging men on how well they do it.

• TIP #1 - Don't stand there hemming and hawing. Be ready with options, and be ready to pick one. Always remember that it is your responsibility to make the decision, so take that responsibility.
• TIP #2 - If plans change such as a sold out movie, don't stand there saying, "Gee, now what?" Make a decision quickly on what to do. If you need more time to decide, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, make at all, or anything so you aren't just standing there looking indecisive.
• TIP #3 - At a restaurant, choose your order quickly. At a bar, know what you want to drink. After the movie, know where you want to go.

P.P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Talk to Women and Exactly What to Say

A good conversation flows in and out of several topics. People jump from point to point. A remark may spur a recollection about a completely different matter. Then the talk may naturally flow back to the original topic. You shouldn't feel that you have to completely exhaust all the possibilities of one topic before proceeding to the next.

Picking Up On Free Information

In looking for ways to change the topic, be attentive for free information - remarks that are made in passing, and that you can later pick up on.

If the person has mentioned just returning from a trip, for example, you have many opportunities to bring the conversation back to various aspects of travel. "What sort of accommodations did you have in Hawaii? Do you prefer big hotels, or condos?" "Have you done much traveling in the Caribbean?"

This topic also allows you to contribute your own information on the topic. "I was in Hawaii last year." Be sure to reveal plenty of free information about yourself throughout the conversation. This helps her pick up on subjects for later in the conversation.

When it seems to you that a subject is getting sluggish, change it by referring to some free information revealed earlier. Or else offer some new information of your own.

You might say, "It's interesting to hear you talk about Lake Mead because my favorite thing to do is to rent jet skis on Lake Mead." You might also refer back to a previous topic by saying, "I heard you mention earlier...."

P.P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com