Advice for Men on How to Overcome Loneliness

This week I would like talk about any of you who may be in their 30's or 40's and have never been married and are yearning to settle down and get married and start a family.

Are you frustrated because you can't seem to find Miss Right? Are you longing to be a father? Have you lost hope that you will ever find someone to settle down with and spend the rest of your life with? Do you have a lot of friends, but you still feel lonely and long for true love and companionship with a life long partner?

Have you fallen into the trap of thinking that you need to be married and have a family to make your life complete and happy?

Now, let me give you some advice concerning these problems:

1. First of all, it's a big mistake to depend on someone else to complete your life and bring you happiness. Being happy is a do-it-yourself project. True happiness comes from within.

2. Please don't sit around in a dreamlike state and look at the world through rose-colored glasses thinking that marriage and a family is the key to your eternal happiness. The fact that around half of all marriages end in divorce should give you a clue that marriage does not guarantee happiness.

Don't get me wrong. Marriage is a wonderful institution as long as you find the right mate. And I can't stress to you enough that marriage is very serious and you must make the right selection of a lifelong partner. Don't just jump into marriage prematurely because you think you're getting older and it's time to settle down.

3. In the mean time, while you're waiting for some special lady to come into your life and you settle down, please try to find happiness and fulfillment in other areas besides from intimate relationships with women. My suggestion would be to become involved in helping others through charity organizations, volunteer work, community activities, working for political causes, church activities, helping the needy and the hungry, etc. It can be extremely rewarding by helping others. It gives meaning to your life.

I'm a prime example of being of service to others. I gain enormous pleasure out of helping men find love and romance through my articles and my products. I truly believe this is my life's calling. To help men succeed with women. God knows it's a jungle out there in the dating world and us men need all the help and advice we can get.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Spot Gold Digger Single Women

This week I want to talk about single women who will use you and manipulate you on a first date. I call them gold-diggers. They are not interested in you, just what they can get out of you.

I want give you advice about these types of single women concerning a first date. Let's just say you've met this really gorgeous and beautiful woman and you're trying to set up a date to do something. She insists on going to the most expensive restaurant in town. Should you go along with her? Absolutely not if you can not afford it. And absolutely not for a first date and I'll tell you why: What if you blow $50-100 of your hard-earned money on her and the date doesn't work out? You might as well have flushed that money down the toilet.

Another point is that you must not give in to her wishes on going to the most expensive restaurant in town. Stand your ground and don't allow her to manipulate you. Don't let her use you for a free expensive meal that you can not afford.

If you really can't afford to go to a high-class expensive restaurant, don't let her know it. Just suggest a restaurant that is not as expensive. When she questions your choice of restaurant, just say that it is where you prefer to go and they have great food and a nice atmosphere.

I might add, if you happen to be rich, then I guess it doesn't matter if a woman insists on going to a real expensive restaurant. You've got money to burn, so if you are used then maybe it is no big deal. Personally, I like a woman to like me for who I am and not because I have a lot of money.

Also, I'm not suggesting every woman that wants to go to a real expensive restaurant is a gold-digger that just want to use you. I just want you to be aware that there are women out there that use men and a red flag should go up in your mind when a woman suggest a very expensive restaurant for a first date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, an

How to Answer Tough Sexual Questions from Women

When on a date a woman may ask you how many women you have slept with. She may just be curious or she may want to find out if you are a player.

What should your answer be? Well, if you have slept with a lot of women, don't tell her. Just tell her that you are very selective in whom you go to bed with and don't believe in sleeping around or one-night stands. Even if you have to tell white lies, don't reveal to her how many women you have slept with. At least, not in the beginning. Once you have been dating awhile, then you can reveal more intimate details about your sex life. Just don't reveal too much.

And another question may come up while on a date. She may ask you if you've ever had a one-night stand. Personally, I don't think it's any of her business, but just answer: "I don't believe in one-night stands. Women are just too precious to use for sex."

My strategy is to not reveal that I've had one-night stands even though I have had several. I'm not proud of the fact that I have. This was when I was younger and I had my brain between my legs. As a word of advice, with all the sexual diseases out there, you have to be careful about who you sleep with these days.

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In closing, whatever you do, don't go bragging about all your sexual conquests while on a date. This is a surefire way to scare off your date. She will think that she is your next victim and she doesn't want to be used for sex. At least, most decent women don't want to be. Of course, there are whores out there that don't mind being used for sex. They will sleep with anyone. Is this the type of woman you want? Think about it .

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Impressing Single Women with a Shopping Date

This week I want to talk about a subject I personally hate and a subject the majority of single women are obsessed with. What is this subject that most men hate to do and most women love to do? It's shopping. I swear that women are born to shop and I'm sure that you will agree.

My disliking shopping goes back to my childhood. My mom liked to shop just like most women. Being that she was a single mom, she had to drag me along with her when she went shopping. I always hated to go and I can remember always bugging her with, "Mommy, when are we leaving?" or "Mommy, I want to go home."

And so here I am many years later and I still hate to go shopping. It brings back childhood memories and there's nothing I hate worse than hanging out at a mall all day. I can think of much better things to do with my time. In past relationships with women, I would just wait in the car while my girlfriends would just shop till they dropped.

To this day, I still can't figure out why women like to shop so much. They seem to be constantly buying new clothes and accessories. They will wear something just a few times and it's time to buy something new. Lot of clothes just hang in the closet and never get worn.

Are you like me? Do you hate to shop and the clothes you do have, you tend to wear them over and over? Do you just have 3 or 4 pair of shoes? Compare this to the average woman who has dozens of shoes.

So, what is the point I'm trying to make guys? What in the hell does shopping have to do with succeeding with single women? Well, my friend, shopping can really help you to win the hearts of women and I'll tell you why.

Being that they are so obsessed with shopping, offer to take them shopping for a date. Sure, it may set you back 50-100 bucks or more, but I can assure you that it will be well worth it. You will make one hell of an impression on her and it can help you win her love for you. You can't buy a woman's love, but you can sure make her admire you for buying her something.

Plus, you will have an edge over other men by taking her shopping. Most men don't take women on a shopping date. You will stand out among the other men she has dated.

So, my friend, try this technique to win the hearts of women and make a lasting impression. She will love you for it!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

What to do When You're Down in the Dumps

This week I want to talk about a very negative and destructive thought pattern that can create havoc in your pursuit of single women. What is it? It's self-pity and feeling sorry for yourself when you are lonely and down-in-the-dumps because you have nobody to love.

Self-pity can become a habit just like a drug habit. When taking drugs your body can develop a tolerance to them and require larger and larger doses to get the same effect from the drug. And, so it is with self-pity. The more you allow your mind to become consumed with self-pity, the more it will require. Then you fall into the habit of being totally consumed by self-pity. It becomes a vicious cycle.

At this point, you're so down on yourself and depressed that your love life is in the pits, you feel hopeless, and you are paralyzed from taking the action you need to take to get out of your rut and start meeting and dating single women again.

This situation is only temporary and is never hopeless. There is a cure and the cure lies within you. If you will just think things out to analyze your situation and how you got into your self-pitying rut, I'm sure you will discover that the problems that made you wallow in your own self-pity were mainly created by you. This being said, it's up to you to not become a victim of self-pity.

When you feel yourself wanting to feel sorry for yourself because your love life is not working out like you want it to be, fight off this feeling with all your might and will power. Do not allow it to take over your mind and fill it with negative and unhappy thoughts.

Instead, tell yourself everything is going to work out ok. It won't be long until I find someone special. I just have to be patient and take action every time I see an opportunity to meet a woman. I like this slogan that I use to give me motivation and inspiration: "If it's going to be, it's up to me!"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Signs That Women Are Not Interested in You

This week I want to discuss - How to Tell if a Single Woman You Are Pursuing is Not Interested in You:

The Cardinal Rule of Life - "Never stay where you are not appreciated."

This applies to all phases of life - jobs, sports, and social activities - but it especially applies to dealing with single women.

If a girl is not interested in you, then that is that. Nothing you can do is going to change it. Don't waste time with people who aren't into you. Even if she looks like the girl of your dreams, it will lead nowhere so move on. By hanging around this girl, you portray an image to her and everyone else that you are a person who is found unattractive by women. And worse, you are used to it. After all, if you had other women who were attracted to you why would you be hanging around her?

When are you not being appreciated? When you are the only one putting energy into the relationship. You are the glue holding the whole thing together. She is neither showing nor giving any effort or energy towards being with you. She's not making herself available to get together. She lacks enthusiasm. In sum, when trying to get something to develop is a struggle.

If you experience these symptoms and recognize the lack of "magic" present when two people are mutually interested, don't try any remedies - just leave. Don't make a speech, or a scene, or an issue. Simply bow out gracefully and pursue girls who are interested in you. You will be doing yourself and everyone else a big favor.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Never Pass Up Opportunities to Meet Single Women

Has this ever happened to you? You're outside somewhere and a car passes by and some girl whistles at you or makes a comment like, "Hey baby" or "Hey good-looking?"

This is quite an ego boost, but you must not let this opportunity to score with her pass you by. You must try to flag her down immediately and not let her get away. She's showed some interest in you and you must meet her and ask her out.

Maybe this particular circumstance has never happened to you. The point I'm trying to get across to you is that you must take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way to meet single women. If women go out of their way to show interest in you, you must not freeze up, stall, or ponder. You must aggressively pursue her then and there and not let her slip through your fingers. As the old saying goes, "You snooze, you lose!"

Missed opportunities will only cause you pain and regret. Why torture yourself with thinking about what could have been. Instead, take advantage of every circumstance for romance. Take control and create and control your own destiny in your love life. With every action you make in pursuing women, it creates a reaction and you want that reaction to create some action, "If you know what I mean."

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com