Overcoming Negative Thoughts, Attitudes, About Dating

This week I want to focus on negative thoughts, thinking, and attitudes that can interfere with you succeeding with women. Here are some tips, thoughts, and suggestions to help you get on the right road to succeeding with single women.

1. If all you do is focus your thoughts on your faults, weaknesses, and failures in pursuing single women, then this will distract you from being successful. When these thoughts invade your mind, learn to look away. Don't allow your mind to be poisoned by what I call the enemy that is trying to prevent you from succeeding.

2. Don't let your negative thoughts keep you from going forward to meet and approach women. Stop saying, "I don't have what it takes."

3. Remember that if you feel like a failure with women, then you will continue living out your failures. It will become a self-fulfilling phophecy.

4. Quit focusing on what you can't do when it comes to pursuing women and put on a new fresh attitude that says you can meet and attract any woman you desire. Don't be so hard on yourself when things don't go your way.

5. Don't compare yourself to other guys who are always picking up women. Don't say to yourself, "I wish I had what it takes to succeed with women or I wish I had the balls like he does when approaching women.

6. It is very important that you like yourself. Trust me, if you can't get along with yourself, then it's going to interfere with you getting along with women.

7. Quit seeing yourself as nervous, when approaching women. Develop that "can do attitude" and approach women with confidence.

In closing, I hope these tips and motivational thoughts help you out.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Handle Dating Frustrations

I know it can be frustrating playing the dating game. You keep trying to meet and attract single women and it seems like just about every time you try, you get rejected or the women don't seem very interested in you.

Or you do attract women initially, but you end up getting dumped and shit on. Your relationships don't last very long because the women you're involved with lose interest and want to date someone else. Or you meet women who don't want to be tied down and they need their freedom.

Does what I've just described happened to you? There's a good chance it does apply to you because dating is not all a bed of roses. There will be good times and bad times.

During bad times and bad experiences in dating you must never develop a bad attitude towards women and think that they are all bitches. Don't let your past experiences and bad dates get you down and don't beat yourself to death over your past failures with women.

Think positive and make plans for your future good times with women. It also helps to focus on your successful attempts and experiences in meeting, attracting, and seducing women. This helps to build confidence.

Remember that all of us guys go through many trials and tribulations when playing the dating game. There will be times when you're on a roll and you're meeting and dating lots of lovely single women. Then there will be droughts when nothing seems to go right when trying to score with women. Your will be tested and at times you will be tempted to give up and throw in the towel when it comes to pursuing any more women. But, you must never give up! Winners in the game of love never quit. And quitters in the game of love never win.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Become a Volunteer to Meet Single Women

Let me tell you about a great way to meet single women that you may have never thought about. What is it? Volunteer work.

There are numerous activities you can volunteer for where there will be a lot of women. And who knows, you may meet the girl of your dreams while doing volunteer work.

You can volunteer for community projects, fund-raising, political causes, help with school bazaars or church activities, phone hot-lines, volunteer work at your local hospitals, the arts, etc.

I wanted to tell you about a website where you can do a search for more than 80,000 volunteer opportunities from all across the country and around the world. Check this great website out and if you find something you would be interested in, sign up so you can meet some lovely single women in a social and non-threatening environment. Their website address is: http://www.networkforgood.com

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Keep Track of Your Results in Pursuing Single Women

Hi Guys and I hope you are doing well with the ladies (if you know what I mean). This week I want to focus on the very important topic of getting results from your efforts to succeed with women:

The name of the game in pursuing women is getting results from your actions. It's very important to keep tract of how you are doing and how things are working out for you. Here's the program that I recommend that you follow:

You need to measure your success and reflect on how you are doing in your pursuit of romance. Think about what is working for you and what is not working. Follow the old saying, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." If what you are doing is working for you, stay with it until it doesn't work anymore and then try something else.

Be sure to constantly be aware of your progress and constantly monitor your results and efforts to meet and attract women.

Always expect results from your efforts to meet and seduce women. Think positive and don't let the enemy of self-doubt enter your mind.

I would highly recommend that you start a personal journal and write your results from pursuing single women for the end of the week, month, and year. These important notes will help you monitor your progress. Write about your successes and the techniques that worked to score with women. Also, keep track of what is not working for you and any mistakes you are making with women. It's important to know when you are off track so you can get things corrected and get back on course.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice for Men on Answering Personal Ads

You have answered a personal ad of the single woman of your dreams. From the description of her ad she seems like a perfect match for you for romance and a possible serious relationship. You write her a letter and anxiously wait to hear back from her. And you wait...and wait...and wait and you never hear from her.

So, you wonder what went wrong? Is she rejecting me? Did I say something in my letter that turned her off? Why won't she write back? Most likely you made some common mistakes that turn single women off or caused them to lose interest in you. Listed here are some things that may have gone wrong so you can take corrective measures on the next personal ad you answer:

1. Your letter was too sexually suggestive. When writing to a woman for the first time, never write anything of a sexual nature. It's a big turn off.

2. All you did was brag about yourself, your accomplishments, and your possessions in your letter.

3. You forgot to give her your phone number in case she may want to call you instead of writing you back. Some single women prefer to do it this way. If you just write back with your address, she may get letters from guys who include their phone number and she will pass you up in favor of calling them. There's another factor to consider. If you won't give out your phone number, she may think that you are married or living with another woman.

4. The letter you sent her looked like it was zeroxed. This is a real big no no.

5. You forgot to send her a stamped reply envelope with your letter. A stamped reply envelope helps to ensure an answer back and it shows the woman that you are very thoughtful. This makes a very good impression on single women.

6. You forgot to mention what is was in her ad that attracted you to write her. Single women love compliments and they want to know why to chose to write her.

7. Your handwriting was very difficult to read. If you have bad handwriting, have your letter typed. If she can't read your writing, your letter is going straight to the trash can.

8. Your return address is a post office box and you don't give a phone number in your letter. Without a street address and a phone number, she may become suspicious that you are trying to hide something.

9. You screwed up in your letter by calling her "Babe" or "Darling" or "Baby" or "Honey," etc. These words are just too strong to use on a woman you don't even know.

10. Your letter was full of typos. Be sure and proof read your letter or have someone else do it. If you have a lot of spelling errors this is going to make you look like a real "dumb ass."

11. You mentioned that you like to give or receive massages. This statement has a sexual overtone to it and some women will think that all you have on your mind is sex. Don't mention anything about massages in your first letter to a woman.

12. Your letter was written on notebook paper or even worse, the paper is torn. Always use professional looking stationary with matching envelopes when writing to a woman.

13. Your letter lacked warmth and was very impersonal.

Well, I hope these tips help you figure out how you screwed up on writing your first letter when answering personal ads of single women. If you will follow these guidelines, it will greatly improve your chances of that "dream girl" writing back to you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on Conversation Skills with Single Women

This week I want to focus on giving you some tips on how to talk to single women:

In conversation, look into the eyes of the woman you're talking with. Direct eye contact says, "I'm listening. I want to hear more." To show agreement and interest, occasionally raise and lower your eyebrows. When she's talking, listen with your eyes as well as your ears. If you look away, you may signify, "I'm bored" or "I don't agree." The result will usually be a short and unfulfilling conversation.

However, to look away while speaking is natural. It's a sign that the topic is being shifted or those thoughts are being collected. A pause while glancing away usually means an uncompleted thought, signaling, "I haven't finished. Don't interrupt."

Give her your undivided attention when talking to her. Focus your ears as well as your eyes on her as she speaks. If you practice techniques such as restating and echoing, it is less likely your mind will wander. If your mind does wander, don't try to guess what you missed. Admit that you must have missed something, and ask her to repeat it.

As you become a more experienced conversationalist, it will be easier for your mind, senses and emotions to clear themselves of distractions. You'll do a better job of hearing what she has to say when you can concentrate more freely.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attract Single Women with Pheromones, Meet Them at Laudromats

As an experiment last night, I put on some Liquid Magnet Pheromone Cologne to wear to a reception party for a publishing seminar at one of our Holiday Inns here in Houston. To my amazement, women were constantly approaching me and sitting next to me and becoming very friendly towards me. I felt like a kid in the candy store. I would suggest you try the same experiment to attract women like a magnet and have them coming on to you.

This week I want to focus on meeting single women in Laundromats:

Laundromat Pick-Up Lines - If you live in an apartment complex or do your laundry offsite, I'm sure you've noticed some lovely single women washing their clothes. This is a great casual non-threatening setting to meet women. Here are some opening lines to break the ice:

• "Can I help you fold those sheets?"
• "Can I help you do your laundry?"
• "Here, let me help you put your clothes in the dryer."
• "Can you tell me how much bleach to put in with my good suit?"
• "Can you help me? How much detergent do I need to put in with these clothes?"
• "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're waiting on our clothes?"
• "Could you show me how to operate this machine?"
• "Do you put in the detergent first or after the washing machine startsfilling up with water?"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com