How to Meet Single Women by Volunteering

This week I want to focus on doing volunteer work to meet and date single women. Here are some tips on how to do it:

Educational radio and television stations hold telethons during the year to raise money to cover their operating expenses. Volunteer your time to man the telephones, make follow-up calls, send out mailings, etc. A lot of single women volunteer also for these causes. This is a perfect opportunity for you to meet and mingle with your fellow volunteer honeys. And who knows, by being involved in a common cause, it just may lead to seduction and romance. Just call the station manager and find out when and how you can help.

Hospitals and nursing homes are always very busy and welcome volunteers to help out with simple tasks. Working as a volunteer in hospitals and nursing homes you will be exposed to lots of pretty and sexy single nurses to meet and seduce and there's plenty of pretty single patients too. You never know that patient you meet while delivering flowers or magazines might develop into a love affair. There can be golden opportunities to meet and attract single women by volunteering your time in hospitals and nursing homes. Just contact your local medical facilities and ask about their volunteer programs.

If you believe in and support causes such as environmental protection, civil rights, historical preservation, or whatever - join these groups to support causes. You will be exposed to single women who share your interest and this can blossom into a romance. People thrown together supporting causes can develop close friendships that can lead to serious relationships. Check your local newspaper for dates and times of meetings in your area.

Do you have a political candidate that you believe in and support? Call your local party headquarters and ask how you can help on a local, county, or national level. This is a great way to meet potential mates and perform a civic duty at the same time.

If you're a single parent, look into joining one of the clubs oriented toward others in your situation. This will give you the opportunity to perhaps meet some single attractive mothers. You must love kids though. Check your local paper or telephone directory for groups such as Parents without Partners. It will be a lot of fun to share experiences and problems with other female single parents.

Volunteer to become a "Big Brother" to a disadvantaged child. You will really bring a lot of joy and happiness into a child's life and perhaps you may be attracted to the mother of the child. You just never know what fate may bring you. You can meet your future mate, just out of the blue by doing a great service such as this.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice About Dating Services and What to Expect

If any of you have been to my website, you know that I have a free book online for you to read about getting ripped off by dating services (especially video dating services). Well, I was contacted by a sweet young lady who works for a prominent dating service who offered this rebuttal to my book:

I've worked for a large dating service for over two years. I have seen that most men that come in (especially if they are age 45 and up) have incredibly high standards and that they will never ever meet someone that fits their criteria. They do not understand that we cannot create someone for them. They are their own worst enemy.

The situations I see happen most are these:

1) A man will come in and be very open on who he is hoping to meet. Prior to speaking with his first introduction he will change his criteria dramatically, to the point that we cannot match him. He is notified that this will make introductions go painfully slow, but since "this is what he paid for" he will not flex. He fails to realize that the women also have criteria and it has to match both ways. Now that he receives no introductions he claims it is our fault and we scammed him.

2) A man will receive an introduction and when he calls the woman she is not available. This he claims is also our fault. Yet when he forgets to tell us that he is not available and receives an introduction its not a big deal.

3) After speaking with the woman she does not want to meet him. This he claims are also our fault.

We have some excellent clients both male and female, that are realistic in whom they are looking to meet and enjoy their membership. Let me explain what I mean by realistic. If you are a 57 year old man that weighs over 300 pounds and is 5'7 and expect to meet a 34 year old woman that is 5'3 and weighs 110, then you can keep dreaming. Really the key to see if your being scammed is to ask for a girl like this and if they tell you that they can match you, then you know their gonna take your money and run. Another way to tell if you are being scammed is if they guarantee you will start a relationship with someone. No one can guarantee this, this is common sense.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there that will take advantage of people that are lonely. I know that the company I work for is not like this, still people with unrealistic expectations will complain. You cannot make everyone happy and people should not expect to meet the woman of their dreams regardless of what they pay. If someone is going to join a service they should look at it as meeting new people and having fun.

Just thought I'd pass my inside info along, let me know if you have any questions. Thanks for your time,

Awesome Dating Tip for Romancing Single Women

TIP #1 - Three Basic Attitudes, Which Form a Golden Key in All Human Relationships if Practiced and Lived: Every woman wants, unconsciously yearns for, three basic attitudes from the man she will love. But for that matter, every human being needs and deserves and will grow in power when he receives these feelings from another person. The formula is: Give a woman you desire faith, acceptance and respect. Believe in her, trust her, find the good, beautiful and uniquely admirable within her. Search for it. It is always there!

Accept her as she is. This does not mean accepting her pretensions, false fronts or unrealistic goals and dreams. But accept her as she is deep down in her own best and most natural self. Respect her completely in your motives, manners, speech, actions, and plans. If you can truly develop and cultivate these attitudes in yourself, the most desirable lovelies in the world will be eagerly available to you!

TIP #2 - Get Your Circle of Friends and Acquaintances to Help: This, often takes nerve, but is very effective. Ask all your friends, acquaintances, associates, relatives, and neighbors to give you the names, addresses and phone numbers, if not direct introductions, to any and every single, young woman that know. Then call them up or write them, introduce yourself, start a conversation and ask for a date.

Be friendly, warm and informal as you can manage. Try it with persistence. Don't get discouraged if you flop five dozen times. By the time you are starting on your sixty-first, you will be getting great results!

TIP #3 - Individual Differences...Every Man is Attractive to Some Women: Both men and women who might be considered unattractive to the average person succeed in attracting and winning highly desirable mates every day, everywhere. Your own experience will suggest many such cases. Taste and preference in love is infinite.

Here is an important fact for you. Believe it and act on it. There is no man who would not be attractive and desirable to at least some women, including some gorgeous hot and sexy women who would knock your eyes out and who you ordinarily...though quite foolishly...wouldn't dare to approach!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

Here are some more great tips this week to help you succeed with single women:

TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, even slightly sadistic.

Watch her reactions closely when you do! If you see a glint in her eyes, a pleasurable submissiveness, a suddenly more positive response to you - you may be dealing with a single woman who has a masochistic need to be dominated and mistreated. If such behavior comes easy and natural for you, it can be exceedingly effective with such a woman.

TIP #2 - OPEN YOUR EYES TO THE UNCONVENTIONAL BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL of the "plain-looking" single woman. Taste in beauty and sex appeal is often a purely subjective quality. Many single women whose faces and figures attract no public attention or enthusiasm may exert a provocative, tantalizing, and even an aphrodisiac effect upon you personally...if you open your eyes and find those subtle elements in her which only you can appreciate and cherish!

TIP #3 - OCCASIONALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE! Many women, however much they value reliability and security in their man, also tend to take for granted, and to undervalue a man who is too ordinary, too conformist, and too dependably predictable. Don't do it too often, and don't hurt her needlessly, but occasionally demonstrate unpredictable and unexpected qualities.

Leave at least a slight touch of mystery and romantic secrecy about your innermost self. For example, suddenly take a trip without advance warning and write to her from your temporary distant stopping point. Take her on a date to some place she has never been before and which she could not have expected from your previous behavior.

Use your imagination to display other romantic touches of mystery and unpredictability. For example, you may suddenly send her a present, which opens up a completely unsuspected but attractive facet of yourself to her admiring contemplation!

TIP #4 - LOFTY, DRIVING AMBITION IS ATTRACTIVE TO SOME SINGLE WOMEN. Spin beautiful dreams of the future for her, and weave her into them! Express your highest, most dramatic ambitions and goals to her. Express them vividly, as concretely and confidently as possible. Give her the feeling that she will go along with you and share the heights, the glory, the success, and your mutual happiness!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Overcoming Negative Thoughts, Attitudes, About Dating

This week I want to focus on negative thoughts, thinking, and attitudes that can interfere with you succeeding with women. Here are some tips, thoughts, and suggestions to help you get on the right road to succeeding with single women.

1. If all you do is focus your thoughts on your faults, weaknesses, and failures in pursuing single women, then this will distract you from being successful. When these thoughts invade your mind, learn to look away. Don't allow your mind to be poisoned by what I call the enemy that is trying to prevent you from succeeding.

2. Don't let your negative thoughts keep you from going forward to meet and approach women. Stop saying, "I don't have what it takes."

3. Remember that if you feel like a failure with women, then you will continue living out your failures. It will become a self-fulfilling phophecy.

4. Quit focusing on what you can't do when it comes to pursuing women and put on a new fresh attitude that says you can meet and attract any woman you desire. Don't be so hard on yourself when things don't go your way.

5. Don't compare yourself to other guys who are always picking up women. Don't say to yourself, "I wish I had what it takes to succeed with women or I wish I had the balls like he does when approaching women.

6. It is very important that you like yourself. Trust me, if you can't get along with yourself, then it's going to interfere with you getting along with women.

7. Quit seeing yourself as nervous, when approaching women. Develop that "can do attitude" and approach women with confidence.

In closing, I hope these tips and motivational thoughts help you out.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Handle Dating Frustrations

I know it can be frustrating playing the dating game. You keep trying to meet and attract single women and it seems like just about every time you try, you get rejected or the women don't seem very interested in you.

Or you do attract women initially, but you end up getting dumped and shit on. Your relationships don't last very long because the women you're involved with lose interest and want to date someone else. Or you meet women who don't want to be tied down and they need their freedom.

Does what I've just described happened to you? There's a good chance it does apply to you because dating is not all a bed of roses. There will be good times and bad times.

During bad times and bad experiences in dating you must never develop a bad attitude towards women and think that they are all bitches. Don't let your past experiences and bad dates get you down and don't beat yourself to death over your past failures with women.

Think positive and make plans for your future good times with women. It also helps to focus on your successful attempts and experiences in meeting, attracting, and seducing women. This helps to build confidence.

Remember that all of us guys go through many trials and tribulations when playing the dating game. There will be times when you're on a roll and you're meeting and dating lots of lovely single women. Then there will be droughts when nothing seems to go right when trying to score with women. Your will be tested and at times you will be tempted to give up and throw in the towel when it comes to pursuing any more women. But, you must never give up! Winners in the game of love never quit. And quitters in the game of love never win.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Become a Volunteer to Meet Single Women

Let me tell you about a great way to meet single women that you may have never thought about. What is it? Volunteer work.

There are numerous activities you can volunteer for where there will be a lot of women. And who knows, you may meet the girl of your dreams while doing volunteer work.

You can volunteer for community projects, fund-raising, political causes, help with school bazaars or church activities, phone hot-lines, volunteer work at your local hospitals, the arts, etc.

I wanted to tell you about a website where you can do a search for more than 80,000 volunteer opportunities from all across the country and around the world. Check this great website out and if you find something you would be interested in, sign up so you can meet some lovely single women in a social and non-threatening environment. Their website address is: http://www.networkforgood.com

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com