Ads That Don't Tell a Woman's Weight

Why Single Women Don't List Their Weight in Personal Ads

Have you ever wondered why a lot of single women don't list their weight in personal ads?

This week I need to make you aware of something when you are playing the personals to meet single women for love, romance, and a potential relationship. 9 times out of 10 if a single woman doesn't list her weight in her personal ad, she is very likely to be overweight or even grossly obese. Plus, you need to be aware that when they do list their weight it may be a lie to try and hide the fact that they are overweight.

Of course, if you don't mind dating overweight single women then it's not a problem if they don't list their weight or lie about their weight. And I commend you for the ability to accept a woman as a person and not judge her according to her looks and weight.

But, if you're picky and desire a slender woman, I would advise you to ignore any personal ads where they don't list their weight.

Let me make a few comments about men who won't date single women that are overweight. I really don't think it's fair being prejudice towards overweight women. Unless they have a medical problem they can lose that weight and become the woman you desire. Also, overweight single women are hungry for attention and love because they sometimes get passed over in favor of more slender women.

Also, there's another issue, which I don't think is fair. There are guys that are overweight with big potbellies that only want to date slender and pretty women and are turned off by overweight women like themselves. Well, I think they should take a good look in the mirror and picture how their gross-looking body can turn off single women.

It works both ways. There are a lot of single women who are turned off by overweight potbellied men. If you are overweight, I highly recommend that you get on a healthy diet and exercise regimen to trim down. It will help you to attract and seduce more single women. Besides, it will give you a lot more energy and it's good for your mental and physical health.

In closing, I highly recommend that you don't overlook single women that are only 10-30 pounds overweight. This is not that much to lose to get to their ideal weight and when they do lose the weight they will really look hot & sexy and they will be very proud of their body. Plus, women are overly sensitive about their weight and may feel grossly overweight even though they only need to lose 10-30 pounds. This can work in your favor when you show a lot of interest in them. This makes them feel needed and wanted and they will admire the fact that you can accept them as they are even if they are a little bit overweight.

Saving Money at Topless Clubs

How to Save Money at Topless Clubs

I know this is just common sense, but arrive at a topless club after ll pm or even later. How does this save you money? If you arrive early, say after 7-8 p.m., you will spend a lot of money on drinks, table dances, etc. To pick up topless dancers, you need to arrive after 11 p.m. and close to closing time. So, arriving late can save you money and increase your chances of scoring. Around closing time the dancers may be loaded and easier to take advantage of.

Surefire Tips on How to Talk to Women

Words of Wisdom About Sex and How to Talk to Women

Let me tell you about the aggressive conversational approach that doesn't work. Initially, after just meeting her, you ask her to go to bed with you. I just can't understand why many men will rush, push, and expect sexual favors too soon based on some inflated image of their own masculinity or what "real" conversation is all about. All they can think about is GET LAID NOW! Coming on too strong after just meeting scares the hell out of some women, especially if she is the shy type.

One of the most common complaints I hear from women is that men want to go to bed right away. They complain that the men have their brain between their legs. Sex is a private and delicate event for many women.

Expecting sex immediately after just meeting puts unnecessary pressure on yourself. It pays in the long run not to rush or expect sex too quickly or easily.

Of course, there are women out there who will go to bed with you at the drop of a hat, but with the threat of aids and other diseases, a lot of women are particular with who they go to bed with.

So take your time and offer sex with gentleness and quietness. Don't force or demand sex. Let it happen naturally, with the two of you exchanging willing bodies.

If possible, use your hands, and particularly the tips of your fingers, when talking to a woman. The light touch of your fingertips transmits electrifying signals to the other person which will support your thought messages with physical touch.

When touching her while you're talking, be sure it's in a subtle way. Don't do it in a way that would indicate a sexual advance because it may work against you. Just do it casually, like a touch over her hand or on her knee. She will notice these little gestures and slight touches and this will make her feel closer to you.

Finally, your voice is very important when talking to a woman. Don't talk in a boring monotone voice. Put emotional emphasis on each and every word you say. Be sure and speak up and don't mutter your words quietly.

Art of Conversation with Women

Advice for Men on How to Talk to Women

Now I will teach you the art of conversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you.

People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you unless you are interested in her first.

It is very important that when you're talking to a woman that you face her and look her squarely in the eyes. When talking or listening to her, don't look off to the side or at the ground. Maintain constant eye contact. This gives her a feeling that you care about what she has to say.

During your conversation encourage her to talk about her-self, her career, and accomplishments in life. Find out the things she's really into such as sports, cooking, hobbies, art, music, etc. and really zero in on these subjects. This will make her feel closer to you while she's pouring her heart out about her favorite subjects. Just concentrate on talking about herself and forget about yourself. While she's talking, acknowledge her with statements like, "Oh yea", "Is that so?", "Wow", "You're kidding." Also, while talk-ing to her, wear a pleasant smile on your face.

To sum it up, the secret to getting a woman to fall in love with you is to talk to a woman about herself. Try it and see how she will rattle on and on talking about herself.

How to Spot Women in Nightclubs Looking for Sex

Man-Hunting Single Women in Bars and Nightclubs

The Man-Hunter

This woman goes to nightclubs with one purpose in mind. To meet men and get approached by you. This is one of the easiest types to meet because there are no hassles involved. You meet, have a couple drinks and dance, and she's ready and willing to pursue the relationship further and she may even go home with you. She may come right out and tell you, "I want to make love to you" (don't get your hopes up on this one, it's very unlikely ) or "Lets leave and go to your place." An aggressive woman may scare some men off but don't let it bother you. Admire a woman having courage to go for what she wants.

Some of these women may be very active sexually and like to play musical sex partners. They need sex constantly and with a variety of sexual partners. It's nice to meet a woman like this sometimes, but most likely it will turn into a one-nighter. She wakes up the next day and gets dressed and walks right out of your life.

One possible drawback from meeting a sexually active woman like this is contracting a social disease. Of course, how are you supposed to know she has been sleeping with every Tom, Dick, and Harry in the city. You just have to be careful who you sleep with these days.

These types are usually easy to spot. They actively flirt and smile at the opposite sex and are extremely friendly. They will just stand around the dance floor where they encourage men to ask them to dance. They of course, may ask you to dance. I really admire a woman who takes the initiative to ask a man to dance. Some men are so shy about asking a woman to dance in the first place.

Also, I might add, these women usually come to the nightclubs alone. However, they come with a girlfriend occasionally. A woman alone will get approached more often by men. So, for the Man-Hunter, it's really an advantage for her to go to the nightclubs alone so she will be approached more frequently.

Women in Bars, Nightclubs Who Use You for Drinks

Drinkaholic Women in Nightclubs and Bars

The Drinkaholic

This is a woman who uses men to support a drinking habit. She may even come right out and ask you, "Would you buy me a drink?" upon meeting you. Most guys won't say no. After she finishes her drink she will say, "Can I have another drink?" One drink leads to another and before you know it, you have dished out a lot of money on her drinks.

This all can sure be to your advantage or disadvantage. On the positive side, she may go home with you in exchange for buying her drinks. She may get so drunk it may be necessary to take her home and put her to bed. Of course on the negative side she may just use you to buy her drinks and then blow you off and leave the nightclub or even move on to the next fool who will buy her drinks.

In conclusion, use your better judgment before you start dishing out a lot of money on buying a woman drinks. You could be taken for a ride. Fortunately, you will very rarely run into this type of woman.

25 Opening Lines to Use on Topless Dancers

If you go to topless clubs, here are some good conversation starters to use on topless dancers:

1. "What is your real name?" (If she tells you her real name instead of her stage name, this could indicate that she's interested in you).

2. "Where are you from?"

3. "Do you have a boyfriend... How long have you been seeing each other?"

4. "Don't you get tired of all these horny men with their brain between their legs?"

5. "You have such a beautiful body, where do you work out at?"

6. "What do you plan on doing when you get off work tonight?"

7. "How long have you been dancing?"

8. "Have you got any children?" " How old are they?"

9. "What made you decide to get into dancing?"

10. "What part of town do you live in?"

11. "Are you attracted to other women?" This can help you determine if she is a lesbian and if she is, you will be wasting your time trying to score with her.

12. "How long do you plan on working as a topless dancer?"

13. "How did you get such a nice tan?"

14. "When do you work?"

15. "You are so beautiful, I couldn't help but notice you, you look so nice my name is..."

16. "Where do you like to go party?"

17. "Would you like to go party with me when you get off?"

18. "What do you like to do on your days off?"

19. "How do you keep your body in such beautiful shape?"

20. "What time do you get off work?"

21. "What do your parents think about you dancing?" If either parent is against her dancing be sure and take sides with her and defend her occupation as a dancer.

22. "What kind of man turns you on?"

23. "Do you ever get burnt out on dancing?"

24. "Do you have any hobbies?"

25. "Do you do any modeling?"