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Appearance is Important in Succeeding with Women
How to Improve Your Appearance to Attract Women
Within the first seven seconds of seeing someone we have formed an opinion about them. Obviously our appearance tells others many things about us i.e. if we are interested in fashion, if we have a sense of occasion, if we are neat, tidy and clean etc.
If you want to make a statement about yourself you'll say it loud and clear by the way you look. It can work for you as much as against you, for instance, pretending to be something you're not will only result in you appearing, at best, false, perhaps ridiculous and, at worst, untrustworthy. Even if you do not possess an interest in clothes you must try and ensure that whatever you do wear is clean, tidy and co-ordinated.
Look in catalogs or around the clothes shops for ideas of what is deemed as acceptable and unacceptable.
Pay attention to everything about yourself from the top of your head to the tip of your toe nails. Personal hygiene is a big issue on the dating front. Women find bad hair, bad breath, bod odor, dirty finger/toe nails, dirty clothes etc. extremely offensive and such things are difficult if not impossible to overcome.
Always ensure that you are clean and presentable. If you are fortunate enough to have a close friend, be they male or female, ask their opinion about your appearance and personal hygiene standards, you may be surprised at their response! A man who takes pride in his appearance is a definite turn on for most women.
Making the First Move on Women and Them Approaching You
Approaching Women and Women Approaching You
The first major concept you must acquaint yourself with is empathy - "putting yourself in another persons shoes."
If you stood in a bar or a nightclub etc. think how you would like to be approached and spoken to. If a woman marched over and said "Can I buy you a drink, darlin!" how would you feel?
Women do appreciate the fact that men can be very intimidated by the pressure of having to make the first move. Unfortunately even in today's "women friendly" society, generally women do prefer men to approach them in the first instance. This is the first flattering step to success.
Conversely don't be put off by women who may want to approach you. Again this is the finest form of flattery and takes confidence and courage to carry out.
Let's assume that you will be initialising the first contact. You must be aware of the "ABC" of successful dating:
- A = Appearance
- B = Body Language.
- C = Conversation.
5 Tips to Overcome Shyness with Women
How to Overcome Shyness in 5 Simple Steps
Being shy is really just having a feeling that you lack something. Some people are shy because they feel they are not good enough for others or that they are not as smart as others.
Shyness can also just be something that carries over from childhood when you were worried about being accepted so you hung out in the background. Now that you are an adult you can see that shyness holds you back and can really effect many aspects of your life.
The following list teaches five easy ways on how to overcome shyness. You can try all of them or only one or two. Do what it takes to help you step out of your shell.
1. Know how to carry on a good conversation.
You should learn good conversation starters. Try making a list and memorizing it or keeping it as a cheat sheet on your PDA. You need to also know how to handle awkward pauses in conversation to really learn how to overcome shyness.
Always have something to share to keep the conversation going. You need to learn how to handle rude or annoying people that may become a part of your conversation.
Learn all you can about how to carry on a good conversation. This will boost your confidence which goes a long way in overcoming shyness.
2. Tell people you are shy.
This may be the best way to learn how to overcome shyness. With many addictions the first step to stopping them is to admit you have a problem. Well, shyness is almost the same thing.
Once you tell people you are shy they will try to help you feel comfortable and overcome your shy tendencies. It also breaks the ice as others may be feeling shy as well or they may have been shy at some point in their life and can share some tips with you on how they overcame it.
Just do not hide the fact you are shy. Once it is out in the open you will feel much more at ease.
3. Be happy when you try.
Overcoming shyness is not simple. You have a very deep rooted habit here and you will not cure yourself in one attempt. Be happy when you try to fight your shy tendencies.
Look at every try as positive. Once you start associating a good feeling with not being shy it will become easier top stop the shyness all together.
4. Practice one social skill at a time.
You should start out slowly by trying to do one thing at a time. This way you can master that skill before moving on. Once you start mastering aspects of communication and social interaction that is something that can help you to not feel shy. You will gain confidence and be one step closer to mastering how to overcome shyness.
5. Take some classes.
You can find classes on all aspects of communication. Maybe you do not where to start - a class can help get your thoughts in order and give you a feeling of knowing what you are doing. Taking classes is good for someone who likes to have a good plan to make them feel confident.
Shyness can be almost like a crippling disease. You can fail to make friends, lose business or even start to effect your own children so they end up growing up shy as well.
Deciding you want to know how to overcome shyness is an important step and one that should be taken by anyone who is suffering due to being shy.
Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.conversationtalk.com/report.htm
How to Open Your Mouth and Find Romance
Open Your Mouth Wide to Succeed with Women
You need to have your mouth wide open to succeed with women. Let me explain:
I'm sure that you have watched baby birds. They have their mouths wide open when they are ready to eat. They expect to be fed by their momma and they are always ready to be fed. They are always looking for the food.
This should be the same way with us when we are looking for romance with women. We should keep our mouths open expecting to meet, attract, and seduce women.
You must not do any negative thinking when it comes to trying to meet, approach, and date women. This is the same thing as having your mouth closed. You have to remove the limitations of your mind and believe there are opportunities to meet women coming your way and you will take advantage of these opportunities.
These baby birds with their mouth open are not concerned about where the food is coming from. They just open their mouths and trust that the food is coming. You should do the same and open your mouth wide knowing that romance is coming. You don't know where it is coming from, but you just know it's coming.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Be Cautions When Dating Strangers
Until you get to know someone better, you should keep your relationship as public as possible. Don't go back to her place, don't drive together in her car, don't meet in an isolated area. Most out-of-control situations occur when there are no other people around.
Instead, only go to public locations on dates, drive separately, and never go back to their place until you know her better. If you avoid potentially dangerous situations, you will stay safe.
Stay In Control
One of the biggest mistakes you can make on a date is to impair your judgment with drugs or alcohol. When you are under their influence, your thoughts may become clouded and your ability to respond appropriately to situations will become hindered. Your safety is too important to risk on a temporary buzz.
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