When to Make Your Move on Women

When Should You Make Your Move by Anthony Berger

When should you approach her?

There is a very specific moment that lasts for only a few minutes that determines whether you will be able to pick her up or not. You should make your move on the third eye-contact you two make. No more. No less. Anything before that will be premature:

0 - eye contacts made: "Let me check you out while you introduce yourself, buster."

1 - eye contact made: "I have checked you out and am forming an opinion about you."

2 - eye contacts made: "I am considering you as potential playmate"

This is when you move in: 3 eye contacts made: "I am inviting you to come over and talk to me, act on it now!"

Anything after that will make you look less confident:

4 - eye contacts made: "I am wondering why you didn't respond to her invitation, do you not like her?"

5 - eye contacts made: "Are you keeping me as your back up plan?"

6 - eye contacts made: "If you are shy, you are not worth my time."

7 - eye contacts made: "Are you slow or what? Geez"

8 - eye contacts made: "What a looser! We are all talking about you at our table."

9 - eye contacts made: "Ha! And to think I was going to give it to him tonight…"

Yes, it takes guts to be able to react to the third time she checks you out.

But if you do go there and introduce yourself, you will find that talking to her and seducing her will be a lot easier than any other time. This is the moment when she is most receptive to you.

Your only effort will be to walk up to her, everything else will work out as planned.

If, you wait till the sixth eye contact, you will have to spend some time convincing her that you are the lover she has been looking for...not an easy task.

How to Touch a Womans Boobs, Breasts

The Boob Touch by Anthony Berger

The boob, breast touch technique works like this: You are both standing in a club or bar, you have already approached her, sparked a conversation, and while talking (whispering) to her, you hold your drink with both hands in front of your chest and stand very close to her. This is a standard "I'm just socializing" position.

By having your gin and tonic (or what have you) right in front of your chest, you try to ever so slightly touch her boobs, breasts (not the nipples just yet) while you are whispering to her. Don't bring attention to it, it is happening merely as an unintentional accident: you are trying to make sure she hears what you are saying by talking to her in her ear, but because you have to reach over to her ear, your knuckles are accidentally brushing against her boobs and nipples.

Proceed to repeat this throughout your conversation, quickly brushing against her nipples. Again, if she keeps making conversation it means she is enjoying it (green light). Sometimes you will notice that they Just start asking the most bland and pathetic questions, meaning, " don't stop cause I love it".

Keep this up for as long as you feel like it. We do recommend changing gears while they are still wet, so within twenty minutes of talking via the "boob touch" method, you can take it to the next level (continued in the "Let's go somewhere" chapter.

The boob touch can also work if she is sitting by the bar: lets say she is on a stool and you want to hit on her: approach her from the side, as in, don't stand in front of her knees (since you wont be able to reach over to her breasts).

Stand next to her (next to her legs) in a way that you can have easy, access to her tits while reaching over to talk to her. If you two are both sitting, you can easily use the "subliminal leg touch technique"

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Appearance is Important in Succeeding with Women

How to Improve Your Appearance to Attract Women

Within the first seven seconds of seeing someone we have formed an opinion about them. Obviously our appearance tells others many things about us i.e. if we are interested in fashion, if we have a sense of occasion, if we are neat, tidy and clean etc.

If you want to make a statement about yourself you'll say it loud and clear by the way you look. It can work for you as much as against you, for instance, pretending to be something you're not will only result in you appearing, at best, false, perhaps ridiculous and, at worst, untrustworthy. Even if you do not possess an interest in clothes you must try and ensure that whatever you do wear is clean, tidy and co-ordinated.

Look in catalogs or around the clothes shops for ideas of what is deemed as acceptable and unacceptable.

Pay attention to everything about yourself from the top of your head to the tip of your toe nails. Personal hygiene is a big issue on the dating front. Women find bad hair, bad breath, bod odor, dirty finger/toe nails, dirty clothes etc. extremely offensive and such things are difficult if not impossible to overcome.

Always ensure that you are clean and presentable. If you are fortunate enough to have a close friend, be they male or female, ask their opinion about your appearance and personal hygiene standards, you may be surprised at their response! A man who takes pride in his appearance is a definite turn on for most women.

Making the First Move on Women and Them Approaching You

Approaching Women and Women Approaching You

The first major concept you must acquaint yourself with is empathy - "putting yourself in another persons shoes."

If you stood in a bar or a nightclub etc. think how you would like to be approached and spoken to. If a woman marched over and said "Can I buy you a drink, darlin!" how would you feel?

Women do appreciate the fact that men can be very intimidated by the pressure of having to make the first move. Unfortunately even in today's "women friendly" society, generally women do prefer men to approach them in the first instance. This is the first flattering step to success.

Conversely don't be put off by women who may want to approach you. Again this is the finest form of flattery and takes confidence and courage to carry out.

Let's assume that you will be initialising the first contact. You must be aware of the "ABC" of successful dating:

• A = Appearance
• B = Body Language.
• C = Conversation.

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5 Tips to Overcome Shyness with Women

How to Overcome Shyness in 5 Simple Steps

Being shy is really just having a feeling that you lack something. Some people are shy because they feel they are not good enough for others or that they are not as smart as others.

Shyness can also just be something that carries over from childhood when you were worried about being accepted so you hung out in the background. Now that you are an adult you can see that shyness holds you back and can really effect many aspects of your life.

The following list teaches five easy ways on how to overcome shyness. You can try all of them or only one or two. Do what it takes to help you step out of your shell.

1. Know how to carry on a good conversation.

You should learn good conversation starters. Try making a list and memorizing it or keeping it as a cheat sheet on your PDA. You need to also know how to handle awkward pauses in conversation to really learn how to overcome shyness.

Always have something to share to keep the conversation going. You need to learn how to handle rude or annoying people that may become a part of your conversation.

Learn all you can about how to carry on a good conversation. This will boost your confidence which goes a long way in overcoming shyness.

2. Tell people you are shy.

This may be the best way to learn how to overcome shyness. With many addictions the first step to stopping them is to admit you have a problem. Well, shyness is almost the same thing.

Once you tell people you are shy they will try to help you feel comfortable and overcome your shy tendencies. It also breaks the ice as others may be feeling shy as well or they may have been shy at some point in their life and can share some tips with you on how they overcame it.

Just do not hide the fact you are shy. Once it is out in the open you will feel much more at ease.

3. Be happy when you try.

Overcoming shyness is not simple. You have a very deep rooted habit here and you will not cure yourself in one attempt. Be happy when you try to fight your shy tendencies.

Look at every try as positive. Once you start associating a good feeling with not being shy it will become easier top stop the shyness all together.

4. Practice one social skill at a time.

You should start out slowly by trying to do one thing at a time. This way you can master that skill before moving on. Once you start mastering aspects of communication and social interaction that is something that can help you to not feel shy. You will gain confidence and be one step closer to mastering how to overcome shyness.

5. Take some classes.

You can find classes on all aspects of communication. Maybe you do not where to start - a class can help get your thoughts in order and give you a feeling of knowing what you are doing. Taking classes is good for someone who likes to have a good plan to make them feel confident.

Shyness can be almost like a crippling disease. You can fail to make friends, lose business or even start to effect your own children so they end up growing up shy as well.

Deciding you want to know how to overcome shyness is an important step and one that should be taken by anyone who is suffering due to being shy.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.conversationtalk.com/report.htm