How to Plan Romantic Dates

The Romantic Date Plan with Women

Once you have the everyday intimacies down, it is time to step up your game. The next step is pulling off a well-thought out romantic date. A date does not have to be an expensive affair. The most important ingredients of romance are your time. Giving your time is what planning a date is all about.

The best romantic date has an element of the unexpected. A special date is not necessarily outside the house. If the two of you are homebodies whisk her out for a night on the town. However, if you are always out partying with friends flip the script. Plan a quiet night for the two of you. The most important part of the date is PLANNING the entire night yourself.

Whether at home or out on the town, make sure you are attentive to what she says. Women love a great listener. Encourage her to share her thoughts by engaging her in conversation and asking her questions. Keep the mood romantic with the right questions. Ask her what she is thinking about; reminisce about your first kiss or the first time you met. Even ask about her turn-ons. Keep it sensual, unhurried and connected. Communication is a challenge for many men, but it is necessary to gain a passionate love connection with your lady. Here is a great resource to help you quickly learn the skills to communicate from the heart.

How to Give a Woman a Compliment

How to Compliment a Woman

Your compliment should be genuine. Try to make her feel that she impressed you so much you had to meet her.

Examples:

• "Excuse me, but I had to tell you. You've got style. You've got class. No! Really, I mean it. I'm quite sincere."
• "Excuse me but I'd like to ask you a question." (pause) "Do other girls give you a hard time? I mean, they must be jealous. You're so much prettier than most other girls."
• "Excuse me for saying this but you must be the prettiest girl in this whole town. I'll bet everyone tells you that."
• "Excuse me, but I find you so attractive I just had to meet you."
• "Hi! You know I've seen you around for a while and I've been admiring you. You really are something. I've finally gotten up courage to tell you."
• "Hi! I like you. You're pretty." (Said jokingly).
• "Hello! Do you want to know what I think? You're a ten. Definitely a ten."
• "I hope you don't mind my saying this, but I think you must be one of those classic beauties people are always talking about."

Instead of "classic beauties" you can substitute any suitable complimentary expression. Typical examples are: Beauty queens, Southern belles, beach beauties, raven-haired beauties, goddesses of beauty, pocket Venuses, Southern peaches, visions of loveliness, blonde bombshells, gorgeous creatures, living dolls, prairie wildflowers, or (name of a state) wildflowers. This is obviously not a complete list. There are many other suitable complimentary expressions from which you can choose. This type of compliment should be given in a half joking fashion.

Often a girl will respond to your approach by ridiculing your compliment. Her reason for doing this may be that she feels the compliment is not sincere. You can either persevere by insisting, "No, I mean it. I'm perfectly sincere," or you can back off a little and agree that you might have been exaggerating a little. In either case you should not be too deadly serious about the compliment. You should smile and hang loose about the whole thing. so that she never really knows for sure if you meant it. Then you should be ready to push on with other tactics. Don't give up just because your compliment didn't go over too well.

Tips for Men Who go to Topless Clubs

Advice for Men who go to Gentleman's Clubs

1. If there's a table dance going on near you, it's OK to feast your eyes on the dancer as much as you want, but don't disrupt the dance by making comments, yahoos, whistling, or trying to talk to the dancer. It's very rude to interfere with another man's dance. How would you like it if you dished out $20 for a dance and some asshole is in the background ruining your fun?

2. Some topless clubs have a rule that they don't want their dancers dating the customers. This gets ignored, but some dancers abide by this rule, which is three strikes against you. Some dancers have their own rule against dating any customers too. That can be bad news for you!

3. When you get frustrated by trying to pick up topless dancers with no results or notches on your bed post, here's a quote from Mademoiselle Magazine that provides an explanation: "Many topless dancers are seduced by the easy money, and the approval that they receive from the men in the audience enhances their feelings of self-worth. However, most grow to despise men and are in turn held in contempt by the rest of society." Plain and simple, dancers get burnt out on men because of their job and the topless club environment.

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How to Use Waitresses to Meet Topless Dancers

Using Your Waitress to Meet Topless Dancers

Get to know your waitresses in topless clubs! It can pay big dividends. Why? Because she usually knows the dancers on a personal basis. If there is a dancer you are attracted to, want to get to know on a personal basis, she might be able to tell you some valuable personal information about the dancer. A lot of these waitresses are really pretty, have a good personality, fun-loving, and wear sexy outfits. Flirt with them and try to pick them up. Establish a friendship with them and ask them out.

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These girls need love too, you know. Some of them don't get to date much because of their weird working hours. Some of these waitresses become topless dancers, too. They see all these dancers making all that good money and say to themselves, "Hell, I can do this and make a lot more money than I'm making as a waitress." Also, the club management tries to recruit waitresses to become dancers.

How to Ask for Help to Meet Women

Asking for Help to Meet Women

This is the best all round opening approach. You can usually think of something you need to know, such as directions, general information, or advice about something a woman would be likely to know, like cooking, housekeeping, grocery shopping, or women's clothing. You can ask her to help you do something, just about anything. You can ask her to hold something or watch something or even help you carry something. If you are outside working on your car, or working in public in any way, a passing girl can be asked for many kinds of assistance. If you are taking photographs you may need help holding lights, in controlling people, or standing in a picture as an extra. You surely can think of many more examples.

Try to make the job of helping continue on for a while. Then when finished, you should express your gratitude profusely. Nothing is more natural, then, than to offer to take her somewhere for refreshments. She will probably know you were using an excuse to meet her, but if she likes the look of you she won't mind. If the help you request takes a short time, such as a receiving of directions, you should be ready to follow up with one of the other conversational approaches.

It is usually best to open up your approach with "Excuse me, do you have a moment?" or a similar apologetic opening remark.

You can ask for something like a match, an aspirin, a Kleenex, or a safety pin. You might borrow a pen, pencil or a piece of paper. The suitability of these requests depends on the circumstances.

A Guide to Picking Up Women in Nightclubs

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