Meeting Women by Acting as if You Know Her

Act as if You Know a Woman

Act As if You Know Her

This is not the "Don't I know you from somewhere" line. No, you simply act as if you do know her. When you first make eye contact, you break out a broad smile of recognition. You must think and pretend in your own mind that you actually do know her. This is really not as hard as it sounds.

If she is walking by (or in any moving situation) when you make the eye contact, she may ignore you. But usually she will at least smile back, since she cannot be really sure she doesn't know you. If she does smile, you can approach her and say, "Hi, how have you been?" You may be able to get some of the customary exchange of formalities accomplished, but it won't be long before you have to admit you really don't know her. In fact, she may ask you directly, "Do I know you?" Your admission should take the form of "Well, I thought I knew you, but I guess I was mistaken."

Or, "I either know you, or someone who is your exact double. "

But don't despair; you are still in great shape. You have made contact. You have been talking, and smiling at each other. You should then say, "Anyway, it was fun meeting you like this. By the way my name is ...What's yours'?" Then you should be able to progress quite well toward getting to know her properly.

If you use this approach in a stationary situation it is even better, since you can go on with casual conversation almost indefinitely without having to admit you really don't know her. The longer you talk, the better your chances are of getting to know her.

The underlying fact of this routine is that, for all of us, there are people we have met who we just can't remember. We realize this, so when someone acts as if they know us, we usually give them the benefit of the doubt and act as if we recognize them. You should never act as if you have any doubts about knowing the girl. Your whole approach should be very positive.

Ultimately, the girl will realize that she really doesn't know you, but if she likes the look of you, she will accept the meeting as a fortunate opportunity to meet an interesting man.

Good and Bad Nights at Topless Clubs

Good and Bad Nights When Trying to Score with Topless Dancers

Trying to score with topless dancers can be very frustrating at times. You will have good nights and you will have off nights when no matter how hard you try, all you do is get rejected. Getting rejected happens to all men. It just comes with the territory. Just move on to another dancer. You will find one that takes a liking to you.

Each night that you go out to a topless club has its own personality. One night you can be attracting dancers like a magnet and the next night it can be slow and you don't attract much attention from the dancers. Plus, there will be times when you go to a club feeling tired, hungover, and feeling at your worst and the dancers will be all over you.

Each time you go to a club can be a different experience. Sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don't. Just keep trying to pick up topless dancers and no matter what happens to you, don't take it personally.

Should You Use Christian Dating Sites

Christian Dating Websites - Not Just Typical Dating Sites

Who would have ever imagined that a great number of Christian dating websites would come to the internet in great numbers? Even more astounding; is the fact that they are still proliferating in great numbers. Main stream society often, incorrectly, thinks of Christians as people who are focused on religion and have little or no interest in dating. However, Christians are human too. If you are Christian, you know the stereotypes you have to face on a daily basis. You also know the challenges involved in trying to find someone special to date.

Christian dating websites are plentiful. Therefore, it is easier than ever for you to find someone who has the same beliefs,practices, and religious affiliations as you do. If you are Christian and single and would like to meet a special someone with the characteristics mentioned above, then you should seriously consider looking into some Christian dating websites.

When it comes to being Christian and dating, it is much easier to be in a relationship with someone who shares the same devotion to God as you have. You'll also find that most Christian dating websites will not only help you to find a potential romantic interest, they will also allow you to make some terrific friends and contacts. Christian dating websites can act as a gateway to find other Christians to network and communicate with.

Nonetheless, it is still necessary that you choose the right Christian dating site with members that are true Christians. There are a lot of Christian dating websites on the net that are misleading, whether intentional or accidental. That being said, you need to determine which ones are genuine and which ones will give you the right kind of information, privacy, and security.

What factors should you consider when evaluating Christian dating websites? Here are a few suggestions:

-A good Christian dating site should have a declaration of Faith. Since the site is supposed to be dedicated to help Christians find other Christians for a possible date, a pronouncement of faith ensures the site will live up to that purpose.

-A good Christian dating site has privacy guidelines. This ensures that your personal information is kept in confidential and private.

-A good Christian dating site has an outlook of what a true Christian is. Even if the concept in its entirety is all about dating, the values and morals thought as a true Christian should always serve as a guiding principle for the benefit of the members and the overall look and reputation of the site.

As a final point, Christian dating websites are created and designed for Christians who want to get acquainted with their fellow brothers and sisters and hopefully find that someone special to share their faith and life with.

How to Understand Romance

UNDERSTANDING ROMANCE

WOMEN CAN'T GET ENOUGH Today's women are complex, strong and independent. They juggle careers, family, and a personal life of their own. So, how do you play Casanova to the modern day woman? The fact that she attempts to be every woman is exactly why you need to make her feel like one.

I don't care if she is the best friend, who loves ESPN, and goes beer for beer with you on game night. She doesn't need an explanation of romance. Females are born with a gene that allows them to just "know." Romance is what every woman wants out of a relationship, and most feel they don't get enough of it. But, romance is a tricky thing many men know nothing about. And she won't tell you either, because she expects you to just "know."

STEP#1: UNDERSTAND ROMANCE

What is romance - flowers, moonlit walks, anything with candles and rose petals? Well, yes and no. It is all those things and sometimes none of them at all. Romance is a combination of attraction and care, put into action.

Making your woman feel the pleasure, excitement and mystery of romance is often accomplished with ordinary things. It is an expression of emotions like, love, appreciation, compassion, intimacy, and attraction. The emotional intimacy is the desire to make your woman happy, and connect on a deep level. Notice physical intimacy was not mentioned. Do it right, and romance can lead to hot sex, yet sex is not an element of romance.

If it sounds like a lot of work, then you've been paying attention. Romance is a type of relationship maintenance. The more practice you have, the easier it gets. What you have to do is decide to put in the effort to figure out what makes her tick.

How to Have a Romantic Date Out

The Romantic Date Out with Women

Take advantage of what your city has to offer. Even if you live somewhere your whole life, there is bound to be something new to explore. Pick up a visitor's guide and see the city from the perspective of a tourist. Read the local arts weekly for concerts, afternoon theater performances, museum and gallery special events. Discovering new things together encourages excitement and togetherness. Just the spark needed for a great romance.

Enjoy the view. Contemplating the world around her with the man she loves creates an intimate, romantic atmosphere. Find a beautiful place, where you can find the skyline, plains, mountains, or beach. Grab a pizza and a bottle of wine and commune with nature as you stare into each others eyes. She will know for certain romance is alive and well.

Plan an impromptu date. Dress in your best and surprise her at her job. Take your lady to lunch and watch her and every woman in the building swoon.

Explore memory lane. Take her to a place significant to the two of you. The quaint Chinese eatery you used to take her to in college, or visit the park bench where you had your first kiss. The place you pick does not have to be elaborate. The special place will make her feel special, and that is a sign of true romance.

How to Plan Romantic Dates

The Romantic Date Plan with Women

Once you have the everyday intimacies down, it is time to step up your game. The next step is pulling off a well-thought out romantic date. A date does not have to be an expensive affair. The most important ingredients of romance are your time. Giving your time is what planning a date is all about.

The best romantic date has an element of the unexpected. A special date is not necessarily outside the house. If the two of you are homebodies whisk her out for a night on the town. However, if you are always out partying with friends flip the script. Plan a quiet night for the two of you. The most important part of the date is PLANNING the entire night yourself.

Whether at home or out on the town, make sure you are attentive to what she says. Women love a great listener. Encourage her to share her thoughts by engaging her in conversation and asking her questions. Keep the mood romantic with the right questions. Ask her what she is thinking about; reminisce about your first kiss or the first time you met. Even ask about her turn-ons. Keep it sensual, unhurried and connected. Communication is a challenge for many men, but it is necessary to gain a passionate love connection with your lady. Here is a great resource to help you quickly learn the skills to communicate from the heart.

How to Give a Woman a Compliment

How to Compliment a Woman

Your compliment should be genuine. Try to make her feel that she impressed you so much you had to meet her.

Examples:

• "Excuse me, but I had to tell you. You've got style. You've got class. No! Really, I mean it. I'm quite sincere."
• "Excuse me but I'd like to ask you a question." (pause) "Do other girls give you a hard time? I mean, they must be jealous. You're so much prettier than most other girls."
• "Excuse me for saying this but you must be the prettiest girl in this whole town. I'll bet everyone tells you that."
• "Excuse me, but I find you so attractive I just had to meet you."
• "Hi! You know I've seen you around for a while and I've been admiring you. You really are something. I've finally gotten up courage to tell you."
• "Hi! I like you. You're pretty." (Said jokingly).
• "Hello! Do you want to know what I think? You're a ten. Definitely a ten."
• "I hope you don't mind my saying this, but I think you must be one of those classic beauties people are always talking about."

Instead of "classic beauties" you can substitute any suitable complimentary expression. Typical examples are: Beauty queens, Southern belles, beach beauties, raven-haired beauties, goddesses of beauty, pocket Venuses, Southern peaches, visions of loveliness, blonde bombshells, gorgeous creatures, living dolls, prairie wildflowers, or (name of a state) wildflowers. This is obviously not a complete list. There are many other suitable complimentary expressions from which you can choose. This type of compliment should be given in a half joking fashion.

Often a girl will respond to your approach by ridiculing your compliment. Her reason for doing this may be that she feels the compliment is not sincere. You can either persevere by insisting, "No, I mean it. I'm perfectly sincere," or you can back off a little and agree that you might have been exaggerating a little. In either case you should not be too deadly serious about the compliment. You should smile and hang loose about the whole thing. so that she never really knows for sure if you meant it. Then you should be ready to push on with other tactics. Don't give up just because your compliment didn't go over too well.