Let's talk about a mistake a lot of men make, which I call, "Putting all your eggs in one basket."

A good example is thinking that the only place you can meet women is at a nightclub or bar. So, you spend all of your time, money, and energy pursuing women in bars and nightclubs. And you find yourself not having much luck. But, you continue going back week after week like butting your head up against the wall. It's a continuous cycle of going there to meet women, but you go home all frustrated and horny.

Always diversify your places to pursue women. Don't hang all your hopes on just one way or place to meet women. Try the personals, chat rooms, dating services, meeting women through friends, relatives, co-workers, through clubs and organizations, at church, pursue a co-worker, etc. I think you are getting the point. Always have a
game plan to meet women any place and everywhere.

Just take a look around in your every day environment. When you shop for groceries, at the mall, at the bookstore, at college, sporting events, etc. There's lovely women everywhere. You just have to have the balls to approach them. And if you use our products and the free information at my website, there's no reason why you can't have the confidence to approach women anywhere, any place, anytime.

The mildest form of sexual overture is to speak with double meaning. The following phrases are some of the many that can be spliced into the conversation innocently, but delivered with a slight suggestion of deeper meaning:
Can I tempt you?
Will you take me on?
Give me a try.
You know what they say; you've got to try it to see if you like it.
Come here! I want you.
Do you want me?
I'd like to see what you've got.
I'd like to see what you can do.
I'd like to see more of you.
Are you hot?
All the way.
Do it together.
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Will you, or won't you.
Does she, or doesn't she.
If I called to pick you up later, would you be willing?
I've been trying to think of something we could do together, where we could have lots of fun.
You're getting me all excited now.
Do you want to play?
Let's fool around a bit.
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Are you aware that the way that you handle the setbacks and difficulties in your dating life has an impact on your future success with women?

If you allow yourself to get bitter, get depressed, and lose your enthusiasm for pursuing women, then you are letting these difficulties interfere with your future success with women.

But, if you will stay focused on succeeding with women with a big happy smile on your face with joy in your heart, a spring in your step, despite your trials and tribulations in dating, your setting yourself up for victory in finding love and romance with the woman of your dreams.

Everything in life happens for a reason and all those setbacks and problems in dating can help you build character and you can learn something from every experience you have.

A valuable lesson to be learned from relationships that didn't work out is that you can learn what kind of woman that doesn't work out for you and in the future you can choose the type of woman more suitable for you.

If a relative calls you and says, "I know just the girl for you!' - be very cautious. The problem is that they have no idea what you are looking for.

They only know what they think would be good for you. Also they are trying to help someone they know. (Why does she need all this help?)

Here's an easy way meet and entertain single women and it's great to use on women you have just met or approached:

1. You will need a small box of crayons (you can find these in drug stores, supermarkets, toy stores, etc.) that contains only 8 colors. When you first meet a single woman you are attracted to, simply ask her, "Can I show you a magic trick?" She will ask, "What is it?"

2. Hand her the closed box of crayons and tell her to select a crayon when you turn your back towards her. With your back turned towards her and your hands behind your back, tell her to put the crayon in your hand. Now turn around and face her with your hands still behind your back.

3. Now, tell her to think of the color of the crayon. As she's thinking of the color, scrape the crayon with your right thumbnail. Then tell her you need to touch her head to "read her thoughts." Now, simply look at your right thumbnail discreetly to see the color of the crayon.

4. Now, tell her the color of the crayon she picked.

I guarantee you that she will be amazed. Now, you've opened the door to get better acquainted that can lead to intimacy and seduction. I used this method successfully to meet and attract tons of beautiful and sexy single women in bars and nightclubs. You can use them on single women everywhere and anywhere. It works to really capture
their attention! After you have attracted her, then you can ask her for a date.

Consider this a simulation rather than a traditional test of skills. There are no wrong answers. The purpose of these exercises is to test your resourcefulness, your ingenuity, and your presence of mind...when faced with one of "life's little surprises".

To get the maximum benefit from this test, take it twice. The first time, allow yourself no time to think. Answer with the first thing that pops into your head. In "real life", you need to react almost instantly to developing situations. The second time, you can allow yourself the luxury of pondering at length on what you would have done, a sort of leisurely post mortem.

Many of the situations presented here have actually taken place.

1. As you walk from a store, a young woman approaches you. She boldly announces, with a mischievous grin on her face, that she had been watching you paw through the cookware. "I could tell, you add up the prices in your head", she says. How do you answer?

2. Walking down the street, you notice an attractive single woman several hundred feet away seem to stare at you, possibly even smile. Do you approach her? How? What do you say?

3. At the supermarket, a well-dressed single woman stares into your shopping cart. She remarks that you seem to have a special liking for canned spaghetti. Could she be "hitting" on you or is she just making a joke at your expense?

4. You have been good, but not intimate friends with a woman for years. She trusts and confides in you. She is in the process of breaking up with her longtime boyfriend. She turns to you for comfort and solace. Is it time for something more than friendship between the two of you?

5. On the street, you run into a classmate from high school. She walks right up to you and starts chatting, as if she had seen you just last week, rather than a decade ago. She would not have con descended to notice you back in school, but now she is extremely friendly, even intrusive. Do you respond to her overtures?

6. At work, a single woman loudly announces to her friends that she would accept an invitation from "anyone" to a certain dance club. She is looking in your direction and she seems to have taken pains to ensure you will overhear her. You scarcely know the woman, and had not even considered approaching her. What to do?

7. As the office party breaks up, amidst considerable noise and confusion, a woman you hardly know grabs you and kisses you on the lips, hard (you rather enjoy the sensation). Is she drunk, or does this indicate genuine interest in you?

8. The woman you have been going out with consistently shows up late for dates, at times an hour or more. She always has an excuse, but you are beginning to get somewhat annoyed.

9. As you pass a group of single young women on the street, one of them makes a rather suggestive remark about you, to the accompaniment of raucous laughter from the others.

10. The disastrous blind date scenario. A good friend has set you up with "the perfect woman for you". You talked with her on the phone and seemed to hit it off. When you show up at the rendezvous, here is this alluring Hollywood film star wannabe in a tight fitting sweater, reeking of expensive perfume, literally oozing glamour, and flaunting her good looks.

She takes one look at you and visibly recoils. She seemed to have been expecting a male counterpart, and her distaste for you is all too plain.

If there are no wrong answers, neither are there correct ones to the problems given. A workable strategy depends not only on the situation and the people involved, but also on timing, "delivery", and a good measure of luck. The following are only suggestions, tantalizing hints to provoke your thinking. Detailed solutions are left as an "exercise for the reader".

Here are the corresponding numbered answers to match the questions:

1. Smile. That's always a good start. "Hmmm, I'm honored that you consider my shopping technique worthy of your attention, ma'am. While I don't consider shopping for frying pans a critically important activity, all the same, I do my humble best. And, no, I can't quite track all the prices, as I seem to have a sticking digit somewhere behind my left eye. It helps if I whack my forehead occasionally, like so..."

2. Smile back. Wave. Give her the chance to respond. If she does not, shrug your shoulders and walk on.

3. "Well, yes, I enjoy this particular brand for the tangy metallic flavor of the sauce. For a fellow who finds boiling water a nearly impossible task, I think I do a pretty fair job at making this stuff fit to eat."

4. Remain friends. Give her comfort and support, but be extremely wary of becoming more closely involved with her, at least at this time.

5. Talk is cheap. Stay noncommittal, and let her carry the burden of the conversation.

6. This is a double whammy. On the one hand, she is displaying behavior typical of a giggly teenager. On the other, she is making it perfectly clear that she would be using you only as a convenience, to provide an escort for her into the club, and that any generic male would do as well. Let her find another victim.

7. The next working day, flowers for her arrive at the office, with an unsigned card saying; "The kiss lingers".

8. You seem to be number 468 on her list of priorities. Have a long talk with her, but realize the relationship may be in serious trouble.

9. Rudeness has become a national epidemic. Consider this a minor annoyance, the equivalent of bird droppings falling on you from the sky. Keep walking.

10. "I'm not quite what you were expecting, Leila. It does appear that we are quite unsuited for each other, and I would be most happy to relieve you of the obligation of spending the evening with me."

Put her into a taxi. Go home. Cook yourself spicy pasta. Read a good book. Consider yourself fortunate not to have wasted a perfectly fine evening entertaining an airhead.

Construct other possible scenarios, based on your own experience and on what you have read and heard about. Act out what you would do, speaking your role aloud, as if you were a performer in a play. For added realism, you may enlist a friend or family member to play the role of the woman involved.

Be aware, though, that when "the real thing" comes, it will be unexpected and most likely take you completely by surprise.

Let me give you some valuable advice about problem relationships and marriage. If you ever get involved in a incompatible relationship where all you do is fuss and fight, break up several times, and the whole relationship is nothing but one big emotional roller coaster, and you think that if you get married things will get better and you will be able to work things out you're making a big mistake!

Trust me, I know from experience that things will only get worse! When you start living together on a permanent basis all these problems will only get worse. And don't ever think that you can change her ways once you get married. You can't change a person. You have to accept them as they are or just move on.

I don't mean to scare you about the institution of marriage. It's a wonderful experience if you choose the right partner. If you don't, your life can be a living hell. Please please please take marriage very seriously. Don't go into a marriage thinking that if it does not work out, I'll just get a divorce. Divorce leaves emotional scars and if there are children involved, it really makes it difficult.

So, to wrap things up, I just want you to be selective in your choice for a lifetime mate. If you are incompatible and it's a very stormy relationship you may be making a big mistake by marrying her.