Surefire Tips on How to Talk to Women

Words of Wisdom About Sex and How to Talk to Women

Let me tell you about the aggressive conversational approach that doesn't work. Initially, after just meeting her, you ask her to go to bed with you. I just can't understand why many men will rush, push, and expect sexual favors too soon based on some inflated image of their own masculinity or what "real" conversation is all about. All they can think about is GET LAID NOW! Coming on too strong after just meeting scares the hell out of some women, especially if she is the shy type.

One of the most common complaints I hear from women is that men want to go to bed right away. They complain that the men have their brain between their legs. Sex is a private and delicate event for many women.

Expecting sex immediately after just meeting puts unnecessary pressure on yourself. It pays in the long run not to rush or expect sex too quickly or easily.

Of course, there are women out there who will go to bed with you at the drop of a hat, but with the threat of aids and other diseases, a lot of women are particular with who they go to bed with.

So take your time and offer sex with gentleness and quietness. Don't force or demand sex. Let it happen naturally, with the two of you exchanging willing bodies.

If possible, use your hands, and particularly the tips of your fingers, when talking to a woman. The light touch of your fingertips transmits electrifying signals to the other person which will support your thought messages with physical touch.

When touching her while you're talking, be sure it's in a subtle way. Don't do it in a way that would indicate a sexual advance because it may work against you. Just do it casually, like a touch over her hand or on her knee. She will notice these little gestures and slight touches and this will make her feel closer to you.

Finally, your voice is very important when talking to a woman. Don't talk in a boring monotone voice. Put emotional emphasis on each and every word you say. Be sure and speak up and don't mutter your words quietly.

Art of Conversation with Women

Advice for Men on How to Talk to Women

Now I will teach you the art of conversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you.

People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you unless you are interested in her first.

It is very important that when you're talking to a woman that you face her and look her squarely in the eyes. When talking or listening to her, don't look off to the side or at the ground. Maintain constant eye contact. This gives her a feeling that you care about what she has to say.

During your conversation encourage her to talk about her-self, her career, and accomplishments in life. Find out the things she's really into such as sports, cooking, hobbies, art, music, etc. and really zero in on these subjects. This will make her feel closer to you while she's pouring her heart out about her favorite subjects. Just concentrate on talking about herself and forget about yourself. While she's talking, acknowledge her with statements like, "Oh yea", "Is that so?", "Wow", "You're kidding." Also, while talk-ing to her, wear a pleasant smile on your face.

To sum it up, the secret to getting a woman to fall in love with you is to talk to a woman about herself. Try it and see how she will rattle on and on talking about herself.

How to Spot Women in Nightclubs Looking for Sex

Man-Hunting Single Women in Bars and Nightclubs

The Man-Hunter

This woman goes to nightclubs with one purpose in mind. To meet men and get approached by you. This is one of the easiest types to meet because there are no hassles involved. You meet, have a couple drinks and dance, and she's ready and willing to pursue the relationship further and she may even go home with you. She may come right out and tell you, "I want to make love to you" (don't get your hopes up on this one, it's very unlikely ) or "Lets leave and go to your place." An aggressive woman may scare some men off but don't let it bother you. Admire a woman having courage to go for what she wants.

Some of these women may be very active sexually and like to play musical sex partners. They need sex constantly and with a variety of sexual partners. It's nice to meet a woman like this sometimes, but most likely it will turn into a one-nighter. She wakes up the next day and gets dressed and walks right out of your life.

One possible drawback from meeting a sexually active woman like this is contracting a social disease. Of course, how are you supposed to know she has been sleeping with every Tom, Dick, and Harry in the city. You just have to be careful who you sleep with these days.

These types are usually easy to spot. They actively flirt and smile at the opposite sex and are extremely friendly. They will just stand around the dance floor where they encourage men to ask them to dance. They of course, may ask you to dance. I really admire a woman who takes the initiative to ask a man to dance. Some men are so shy about asking a woman to dance in the first place.

Also, I might add, these women usually come to the nightclubs alone. However, they come with a girlfriend occasionally. A woman alone will get approached more often by men. So, for the Man-Hunter, it's really an advantage for her to go to the nightclubs alone so she will be approached more frequently.

Women in Bars, Nightclubs Who Use You for Drinks

Drinkaholic Women in Nightclubs and Bars

The Drinkaholic

This is a woman who uses men to support a drinking habit. She may even come right out and ask you, "Would you buy me a drink?" upon meeting you. Most guys won't say no. After she finishes her drink she will say, "Can I have another drink?" One drink leads to another and before you know it, you have dished out a lot of money on her drinks.

This all can sure be to your advantage or disadvantage. On the positive side, she may go home with you in exchange for buying her drinks. She may get so drunk it may be necessary to take her home and put her to bed. Of course on the negative side she may just use you to buy her drinks and then blow you off and leave the nightclub or even move on to the next fool who will buy her drinks.

In conclusion, use your better judgment before you start dishing out a lot of money on buying a woman drinks. You could be taken for a ride. Fortunately, you will very rarely run into this type of woman.

25 Opening Lines to Use on Topless Dancers

If you go to topless clubs, here are some good conversation starters to use on topless dancers:

1. "What is your real name?" (If she tells you her real name instead of her stage name, this could indicate that she's interested in you).

2. "Where are you from?"

3. "Do you have a boyfriend... How long have you been seeing each other?"

4. "Don't you get tired of all these horny men with their brain between their legs?"

5. "You have such a beautiful body, where do you work out at?"

6. "What do you plan on doing when you get off work tonight?"

7. "How long have you been dancing?"

8. "Have you got any children?" " How old are they?"

9. "What made you decide to get into dancing?"

10. "What part of town do you live in?"

11. "Are you attracted to other women?" This can help you determine if she is a lesbian and if she is, you will be wasting your time trying to score with her.

12. "How long do you plan on working as a topless dancer?"

13. "How did you get such a nice tan?"

14. "When do you work?"

15. "You are so beautiful, I couldn't help but notice you, you look so nice my name is..."

16. "Where do you like to go party?"

17. "Would you like to go party with me when you get off?"

18. "What do you like to do on your days off?"

19. "How do you keep your body in such beautiful shape?"

20. "What time do you get off work?"

21. "What do your parents think about you dancing?" If either parent is against her dancing be sure and take sides with her and defend her occupation as a dancer.

22. "What kind of man turns you on?"

23. "Do you ever get burnt out on dancing?"

24. "Do you have any hobbies?"

25. "Do you do any modeling?"

How to Nibble a Woman's Ears

Ear Nibbling Advice for Men

If you really want to know how to turn a woman on, nibble on her ear. Here's how to do it:

• Whatever you do don't stick your tongue straight into her ear.
• Kiss on her ear softly to begin with.
• Nuzzle up against her ear with your lips.
• Lick her ear all over gently, but don't blow into it. That's annoying and you are not blowing up an air mattress.

Advice on How to Look Good for Women

Do you need to be tall, dark, and handsome to attract and meet women? The answer may surprise you but it's a definite no. With a man, a woman's looks are of critical importance. Not so with a woman because they are much more interested in what you're like on the inside than on the outside. Your personality and warmth of character are of paramount importance to them.

Some women even prefer a man who is not very handsome, as they usually have a better personality and are more interest-ing. Just like a lot of beautiful women, a real good-looking man may just sit back passively depending on his looks and are so hung up on themselves they haven't even developed a personality. They're just plain boring and unexciting.

If you do happen to be good-looking, it will be to your advantage though. Good looks and a good body do attract a woman's attention. Just remember that they're more interested in your personality and not hung up on beautiful faces the way you are, as a general rule.

Your hair is very important to your looks. Most women like a man with well-groomed hair. I wouldn't advise you to wear your hair real long either. This is out of style and turns most women off. Seek professional help to deter-mine which hairstyle is becoming to you. Try a perm if you like. It can attract women like crazy, especially if it's thick and full. So, be daring and get a permanent and see if you don't get more looks from women.

A word about jewelry. Jewelry is in, so do wear attractive jewelry to make yourself more becoming and attractive. Just don't overdo it. The multiple gold chains and medallions around the neck are definitely out now, so don't look like a fool by wearing them thinking it makes you look like a "Macho Man." Just one gold chain around your neck is sufficient and quite attractive. Just make sure it looks expensive and not cheap and tarnished.

A word about watches. Invest some money in an attractive watch. It makes a bad impression when you wear a cheap and ugly watch.

If you really want to turn a woman off, go out in public with your hair uncombed, stringy, and dirty, unshaven and wearing wrinkled, dirty clothes. Some men just don't take enough pride in their appearance and think they can pick up women looking like a bum. Well it just doesn't work that way because a woman likes a man to be well-groomed. In public is certainly no place for a shoddy-looking man.

If you happen to be obese, resolve here and now that you're going to get rid of all those ugly pounds. With the proper diet and exercise, you can trim yourself down to where you won't be embarrassingly fat.

It's a known fact that if you're a fat slob, your chances of meeting women are pretty slim. Obesity turns most women off. This doesn't have anything to do with looks but it's worth mentioning. Be sure to take a shower or bath regularly.